Bright Lights, Big Ass: A Self-Indulgent, Surly, Ex-Sorority Girl's Guide to Why It Often Sucks in the City, or Who Are These Idiots and Why Do They All Live Next Door to Me?
Authors: Jen Lancaster
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Raves for Jen Lancaster
Bright Lights, Big Ass
“Lessons we’ve learned from Jen Lancaster: Bitter is the new black; Target is the new Neiman’s; pit bulls and surly neighbors are the new Samanthas, Charlottes and Mirandas; and midday whiskey is always a good idea.
Bright Lights, Big Ass
is a bittersweet treat for anyone who’s ever survived the big city.”
—Jennifer Weiner
“Refreshing, hysterical, illuminating! From the title on,
Bright Lights, Big Ass
is an anti-haute hoot. In a voice that’s charming and snarky, hilarious and human, Jen Lancaster tells the ultraglamorous truth about real big-city living. And it’s better than anything on TV. Jen Lancaster does not teeter around on Manolo Blahniks or have lobster for breakfast. She eats pork chops and Lucky Charms. She dreams of shopping sprees at Target. She works temp jobs and spends too much time Googling things online. She wears footie pajamas. In other words, she’s a lot like the rest of us. Thank God! And this wonderful, sweet, funny book proves once and for all that Carrie Bradshaw and her
Sex and the City
cronies are big, fat liars. Of course. Of course they are.”
—Lori Jakiela, author of
Miss New York Has Everything
“
Bright Lights, Big Ass
is brightly crafted and big on laughs. Jen Lancaster is wickedly funny, refreshingly honest and totally unapologetic.”
—Caprice Crane, author of
Stupid and Contagious
and
Forget About It
“Jen Lancaster may be one of the few authors around capable of writing her own sitcom; she’s smart, wry, and never afraid to point out her own shortcomings while letting us into her uniquely funny world.”
—Melanie Lynne Hauser, author of
Super Mom Saves the World
“Jen Lancaster is the Holy Trinity of funny.”
—Nicole Del Sesto, author of
All Encompassing Trip
“After reading
Bright Lights, Big Ass
, I’m convinced Jen Lancaster is the illegitimate love child of Nora Ephron and David Sedaris. She’s simply that great—a genetic hybrid of two of America’s most loved writers. In
Bright Lights
,
Big Ass
, Jen Lancaster gives the proverbial ‘finger’ to the Carrie Bradshaw lifestyle trading Barneys, Manolo Blahnik, and Bergdorf’s for her very own shopping Holy Trinity: Target, Trader Joe’s and Ikea, allowing women everywhere to rejoice in their $60 Issac Mizrahi Target coats.”
—Robert Rave, author of
Conversations & Cosmopolitans:
How to Give Your Mother a Hangover
“Jen Lancaster is like David Sedaris with pearls and a supercute handbag.”
—Jennifer Coburn
“Part
Seinfeld
, part antidote to
Sex and the City
,
Bright Lights, Big Ass
is the must read for anyone who has ever suffered through a regretfully torturous workout with her trainer, a run-in with irrational, perhaps psychotic neighbors, a long-winded, insipid telemarketer or the black hole known as Ikea. (And really, isn’t this everyone?) Nothing and no one is spared from Jen Lancaster’s acerbically sharp wit, as she gives voice to all of the things we wish we could say, but don’t. I defy you not to laugh out loud on nearly every page. Someone give this girl her own show, already!
That
would be must-see TV.”
—Allison Winn Scotch, author of
The Department of Lost and Found
Bitter Is the New Black
“The funniest new author from the blogosphere. A must read.”
—Jessica Cutler, Author of
The Washingtonienne
“A wry account of job seeking peppered with scathing one-liners.”
—
The Washington Post
“An irreverent, abrasive, and funny self-portrait.”
—Chattanooga Times–Free Press
Bright Lights, Big Ass
A Self-Indulgent, Surly Ex-Sorority Girl’s Guide to Why It Often Sucks in the City, or Who Are These Idiots and Why Do They All Live Next Door to Me?
Jen Lancaster
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Lancaster, Jen, 1967–
Bright lights, big ass / Jen Lancaster.
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ISBN: 1-4295-3414-1
1. Lancaster, Jen, 1967–2. Authors, American—21st century—Biography. 3.
Chicago (Ill.)—Social life and customs. I. Title.
PS3612.A54748Z466 2007
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For Angie, Carol, Jennifer, and Wendy,
who were there from the very first word
and who promise to host an intervention
(complete with umbrella drinks)
should the need arise
Contents
Church of the Magnificent Mile
All Quiet on the Westerville Front
Tuesday Afternoon Drinking Club
The Only Thing We Have to Fear Is Rachael Ray
Lovin’, Touchin’, Squeezin’ (and Bruisin’)
If the Werewolves Are in London…
My So-Called (Superficial) Life
Loser? Yes, but Not the Biggest
I Love the Smell of Cardboard in the Morning
Maisy and Me: Life and Love with the World’s Most Spoiled Dog
No Molestar The Attack of the Sock-Monkey Pajamas
Author’s Note
These stories are true, and the characters are real, as are the events. However, I’ve changed names and descriptions to protect the innocent and to keep my stupid neighbors from egging my house.
Where skin-deep is the mode, your traditional
domestic values are not going to take root and flourish.
—J
AY
M
CINERNEY,
B
RIGHT
L
IGHTS,
B
IG
C
ITY
You’re moving to Chicago? Ha!
You’ll come crawling home the first time
you bounce a rent check.
—T
ODD
L
ANCASTER,
M
AY
6, 1996