Going in Circles (2 page)

The Plan keeps me from tangents. It keeps me from having to just float out there. Ironically, I learned this from Matthew. He liked planning, order.

Likes.
I have to stop talking about him as if he's dead. He's still here. Just not
here
.

I hope he's not dead. First of all, that's going to look really suspicious. And second, I'm not really sure how I would be supposed to act at the funeral of my estranged husband. Would everyone think that I was secretly enjoying myself? Of course they'd think that, deep in the evilest parts of their hearts. Who wouldn't?

Look, as far as I know, today, right now, Matthew is alive. And if he's not, I had nothing to do with it.

Okay, so I've definitely decided I need to figure out what I'm going to do about my marriage before my husband dies.

I suck in my cheeks and tilt my head back on my pillow, trying to stretch out my face. For the past two weeks, I've been waking up with a feeling that someone has slammed a hammer into my skull. It has gotten worse every night, and this morning it hurts to open my mouth even the slightest bit. I wonder how long I can go without talking to anybody. Could I make it through an entire day, even if I left the apartment? That sounds like such a glorious luxury, being a mute. How wonderful not to have to keep answering the worst question on the planet:
How are you holding up?

I lurch myself up and over until I'm in a seated position.
I make my feet touch the floor as I decide on the plan for today.

Okay. Leave the bedroom. Make coffee. Write email that you will be late for the office. Do not check your email to see if Matthew wrote. Go to Dr. Benson's office for this jaw pain. Go to work. Come home and hide.

Once The Plan is firmly in place, Defense Mechanism Number 2 will often be itching to take over.

Defense Mechanism Number 2 is a little more complicated. It took a while for me to be comfortable with it, and I've pretty much sworn myself to secrecy about it. If anyone else learned about Defense Mechanism Number 2, I would be put in the rather vulnerable position of having said person possibly think I was unhinged. Certifiable. But when I tried suppressing Defense Mechanism Number 2 I learned that it's not really up to me. I mean, it's me, but it's not me.

Sometimes, for no other reason than to get through This Hour Right Now, I have no choice but to pull myself out and narrate my own life, to myself, in the third person. I know it's me, but somehow, this way, it can also
not
be me, and that makes it so much easier to deal. That's Defense Mechanism Number 2.

So, look. I sleep, I drink, and sometimes a male voice in my head tells me what's happening to me. Perfectly understandable, considering.

In my head he sounds like a dad. Not my dad, but someone's dad. Half folksy, half serious, a man who's already lived a life and knows that this one I'm in is just going through a rough patch, nothing more. He kind of sounds like Craig T. Nelson. Well, really he sounds like John Goodman. This is probably because when I was a kid I told a bunch of my friends at school that I was related to the dad on
Roseanne
,
and if they didn't believe me they could just check out our last names, which were
exactly the same
.

So when things get rough, when I don't know what's going to happen, when The Plan can't protect me, I let Uncle John do the talking. I let him go on in his stomach-stuffed voice like I'm tucked into bed waiting for one last story before I close my eyes, and soon everything's going to be okay.

Sometimes I even start to believe him.

Charlotte Goodman lets the voice in her head take over as she swallows three ibuprofen with her second cup of coffee. She sits down to her laptop with the intention of sending an email that says she won't make it to the office until close to lunch. At some point Charlotte will send that email, but not until she takes a quick, masochistic glance for a name in her inbox she has absolutely forbidden herself from checking for.

It is the name of one Matthew Price, a man who is her legal spouse. This means he is her husband. For now. And the last thing she should be doing is waiting for him to write. She shouldn't wake up in the morning hoping that this time there's communication from him. It is getting rather embarrassing how Charlotte wakes up every morning with new hope that somehow she will know without a shadow of a doubt that he wants her and needs her. So right now, Charlotte shouldn't be looking for Matthew's name. In fact, the whole point of having The Plan was to follow it, and one of the items on today's plan was not doing what she's now doing.

Charlotte quickly scans the names in her inbox, squinting the entire time. This way it doesn't count. She didn't look right at it.
She barely registered the names that were there. She didn't even take the time to delete the spam.

So why does Charlotte continue to search for a name she actively tries to avoid? Our beloved heroine would love to know the answer to that question herself. She's tried all manner of ways to break her addiction to information on Matthew's whereabouts.

This has much to do with why Charlotte has been popping anti-inflammatory medication for breakfast. It is also why she is currently letting the caller trying to reach her on her cell phone go to voice mail. Charlotte knows the only person who calls at this hour is her mother, a woman whom Charlotte is unable to deal with at this particular time, or that particular time, or any particular or unparticular time.

Charlotte feels the need to think to herself at this point that the narration of her life by John Goodman most likely doesn't sound like the actual John Goodman, but it's how the voice feels inside her that's important.

Charlotte isn't sure whom she's trying to placate when she makes mental excuses for her own strange behavior. She supposes it's not unlike how people check behind them after they stumble, in case someone saw them almost fall, so that everybody silently recognizes that the one who tripped had something tangible to blame, and isn't just bad at walking.

The narration of Charlotte Goodman's life is important for times like now, when she's driving across the city to Dr. Benson's office. Sometimes she wishes she could montage the boring, mundane parts of her life when she's alone with her thoughts. Skip ahead to the next part and get the day over with in a matter of forty-seven minutes. To be honest, Charlotte doesn't prefer spending time with people; it's just that they make the minutes pass faster than when she's on her own. Other people are distractions.

Roughly an hour after Charlotte has swallowed those ibuprofen, she's in Dr. Benson's cramped office. This is where she no longer needs her narrator.

Dr. Benson has his hands on either side of my face, pressing my temples, threatening to cause a cerebral cave-in. Standing inches from my head, he's staring me down like he can see through my skin. Like he's scanning my insides with robot laser eyes. The intensity of his gaze has caused me to stop breathing, worried that even a single exhalation could cause the results to be skewed.

Toned, tan, thin, with the kind of face on which you have to actually go searching for a physical flaw, Dr. Benson's exactly what one imagines a Beverly Hills doctor would be. While I find it very comforting to have my health observed by a perfect example of The Human Body, it's still amusing that someone would bother to get a medical degree when he's already successful at resembling a Hollywood actor. What a decision Dr. Benson must have had to make at one point in his life.
“Do I make a lot of money saving lives with these hands, or do I make a lot of money pretending to save lives with this face?”

I force myself to detach from the hypnotic pull of Dr. Benson's apparently well-calibrated ocular diagnostic tool and focus instead on my file folder, which is tucked underneath his arm, jammed dangerously close to the dampness at his pit. For a moment I consider reaching out to snatch the folder to safety.

“TMJ,” Dr. Benson concludes, breaking the silence in the room.

The disappointment in my sigh is unmistakable, but it's nice to finally breathe again. “Really?”

“TMJ,” he repeats, with a distant tone in his voice, as if TMJ is a girl he used to know who doesn't come around anymore, one who never knew how much he loved her.

For the briefest of moments, I do worry what people are going to say when they find out my jaw pain is due to something associated with excessive gum chewers and those who give blow jobs. Anybody who knows me knows I didn't get it from either. At least not recently. But that doesn't stop me from being offended when Dr. Benson concludes: “You must be grinding your teeth in your sleep.”

I rub my left temple for what must be the hundredth time this morning, still hoping to find a way to crush the pain. “I've never been told I grind my teeth,” I say.

The doctor sits in a nearby chair. He grips his pen like a toddler holds a crayon, as if he's pretending to write words into my sweaty file. “Well, does your husband notice?” he asks. “Did he say anything about the noise waking him?”

Every time this happens, I feel like I'm breaking the news of a death. “Matthew and I . . . We aren't together right now.”

Dr. Benson briefly looks up and glances at my left hand, to confirm. Like this is the secret test only he's smart enough to conduct. He points at my wedding ring with his pen, and even though I knew he was going to see it, I still cover my hand, feeling like I've been caught lying.

“We're still . . . trying to figure things out,” I continue, wondering why I need to give him any explanation at all. “It's complicated.” I stare at my shoes and kick my feet, knowing I'm way too old for this childlike gesture to be endearing. I silently count the grommets in my tennis shoes, hoping it makes me look lost in thought.

Dr. Benson runs a hand through his healthy hair, then rests the back of his perfect right hand against his flawless lips.
He closes my folder and shoves it back against his ribs, deep into his armpit. “You'll want to get a mouth guard to use at night,” he says.

I know vanity shouldn't come into play when you're a woman who goes to bed every night alone. But I still have no desire to look like a hockey player when I'm in my pajamas. What if there's a fire in my apartment building and I run outside and everyone sees me in protective gear? What if one day I get my most recent favorite wish and I do actually die in my sleep? With my luck I'll get that wish by suffocating on my mouth guard, and I will become famous for having the most awkward accidental death of all time.

“How long have you been separated?” Dr. Benson asks, laser eyes beaming straight toward my wedding band. I get hopeful for a second, thinking that maybe his “oculoscope” will decide my jaw pain is related to my emotional pain. Then I'd be diagnosed with a devastatingly romantic condition, and I could call Matthew to whimper, “Please don't worry about me. It's just . . . the doctor said if we don't work things out . . . I might
die
.”

Then I'd quickly hang up with an air of mystery; perhaps I'd faint and fall perfectly to the floor, and now it would be up to Matthew to jolt into action.

Unless he didn't jolt. Unless he let me die.

“We've been going through problems for a little while,” I say. “Living separately for about three months.”

All the euphemisms used for a marriage torn apart are lousy. The only reason I even try to use gentler words is because most people seem to immediately take some kind of responsibility for my situation. They seem to want to grab guilt from my heart by the handful.

But in this case, Dr. Benson isn't taking any responsibility
for my pain. He gives a little grunt, nodding. I'm not sure if that means he's been through this before or if he's just seen it a million times and he no longer cares. Most likely it's the latter, and for him hearing someone describe a divorce is about as rare as hearing someone complaining about a sore throat.
We could run some tests, but usually with this kind of thing it's best to just wait and see.

Dr. Benson stands, finished with the consultation. I'm just about to thank him for his time when he adds one last prescription.

“You should think about getting a therapist.”

Diagnosis: Charlotte Goodman has a broken head, inside and out.

I
t wasn't when Matthew declared he no longer wanted to be my husband that I started losing my mind. It hurt, absolutely, like a train slamming through me, circling back only to slam me again. It wasn't even how he did it, which must go down in history as one of the clumsiest breakups ever.

It was six months ago. He had brought home Chinese food, and we were in the kitchen, dropping noodles into bowls, when he said, “I think I'm going to move out.”

I laughed, knocking into him, briefly resting my head near the top of his shoulder. The soft fibers of his blue T-shirt rubbed against my cheek. “Jeez, so you forgot the hot mustard,” I said. “I'm not kicking you out.
This time.
”

He was motionless, holding a paper container over a bowl from our wedding registry, noodles and marriage in mid-drop, when he said, “No, I mean: I'm moving out.”

I saw his words written out in front of my eyes, complete with punctuation.

No

comma

I mean

colon

I'm moving out

period

An announcement. Meaning it wasn't spontaneous. After the colon, there's information. I had thought my night was going to consist of Chinese food and backlogged television programming. New information.
COLON
.

I was being left.

“What are you talking about—‘moving out'?” I asked.