How to Become an Alpha Male For Today's Man (Learn How to Attract and Talk to Women) (6 page)

Although the nightclub may be the least place to find potential mates it is not at all excluded. Let’s explore some other avenues. The shopping mall is always a great place to meet women. The downside is the huge crowd that accompanies them. They usually never come alone and that leaves no room for a seductive approach. The best way to handle this is eye contact. Making great eye contact and flirting facial gestures will give you a greater chance.

If she is interested she will create an opportunity for you to take your introduction further. An alpha male in any situation can never try too hard. For this reason it is best to make your presence known early if it is felt then move in if not then move on.

An alpha male should get used to visiting art galleries, networking functions, festivals etc. Most women view the men they meet at these types of events as persons of similar interest and they become more susceptible to getting to know you. In turn their guard becomes lowered substantially.

Another place with high potential is work. Office romance is one of the most heavily explored affairs with adult men and women single or attached. This is not the best choice due to the aftermath of failed relationship attempts but if you feel this is still going to be your field of choice then the best tactic here is bold truth in the beginning it’ll save you some headache in the end.

An alpha male in this environment can play one of two ways he can be mysterious and seduce from a distance or he can be bold with his approach either one is stimulating in this environment. Word of advice, spend some time on how you will end these types of rendezvous before they actually end. Make sure no one is bitter or hurt.

There are other heavily populated places to meet potential love interest such as the gym the supermarket things of that nature. The objective is to keep in mind that an alpha male wants to meet a woman unexpectedly without her thinking he set out to do so. It makes the encounter seem destined which makes him automatically intriguing. Seek out and find places where meeting someone there may be interpreted that way.

LESSON 7. Game-(what to say) Every man should have it.

Game is merely all talk, its smoke and mirrors. The winners win because they came with their best game. Think of it as a car deal and you are the buyer. Every dealer has the same car and the same motive. Now who gets the sale? Whoever seems to offer you more for less even if they pitch in a few extras as long as the customer leaves with the feeling as if they’ve gotten over. Game is applied this way as well but it has to be snuck in carefully or it’s easily detected and will be used against you. Learn this technique and follow it to the T. You will need it greatly to close your deal.

The essence of game is as follows. The focal point in this case is your lover. Remember game is driven on hope. You have to imply a goal that’s beneficial to her. A tactic used by most men simply because it works is the idea of being with this particular man because he has money or wealth; money is still and always has been the root of all persuasion. It is the greatest negotiator. It will convince the masses to comply with your demands without speaking more than a word.

If you don’t have money to speak for you then you have to speak for yourself. It’s not hard but it’s also not very easy especially if you have a conscience. You see this game when applied can be deceiving. As shameful as it is there is a silver lining. That is most women prefer to be entertained with game than told the cold hard truth. That’s the only plus side to this particular area.

This game is purely entertainment. It’s like being the host of a show. You are there specifically to warm the crowd. Get her in the mood. Get her comfortable with you and your presence your lifestyle. The longer you keep her entertained the more time you have to work.

She will notice and start to become attached to you. She will eventually see the interesting, intriguing and excitement about your life and this will allow her to make a decision. She will choose you. That doesn’t mean the game stops. It must keep going in order to thrive and then it must shift or at least escalate.

Meaning it has to take on a different form getting better with every story. Her benefit in the end has to be so huge that it’s hard to walk away at this point. She’s holding on to a dream.

I encourage you to deliver what you promise but that’s totally up to you most men don’t. Remember that you are an alpha male and your actions always stand out from most men. So try to make the dreams you speak about a reality if at all possible.

Basically speaking you are the host of the show when using game and the main event is your true self so try to make it as real as you can if you want to continue with this particular person.  To give you a practical idea of what I mean think of an entertainer especially comics. They prepare to warm the crowd. They take time before each show to go over their material they practice in the mirror and make sure their delivery corresponds with their body movements and facial expressions. To be successful at this you must do the same.

This is a powerful secret tool. It’s most important because it is applied at the very beginning. It can be used anywhere at any time.  Your initial game is your invitation to you. Make it interesting, seductive, exciting and humorous. Please don’t get it confused with bragging or boasting. It is done simply to make the interest in you last, and last long enough so whatever it is you’d like to blurt out and brag about can be discovered gradually. If it’s done that way you will gain more respect.

Your game however when applied has to speak fantasy and dreams, but don’t go too far or else your game will sound impossible and direct her to question your motives. It has to be within your means to be believable. A person hanging on to hope will not stray from the provider of that expectant dream come true. To do so is to possibly lose the best thing that’s ever happened to them.

An alpha male must understand this is power and to respect it carefully because as long as he controls their dreams and the reality thereof he has control of them.

Remember that time is of the essence an eventually the game will be over and the scoreboard will reveal the truth.

LESSON 8.
From greeting to meeting in 60 seconds.

At this stage there are a few decisions to be made quickly before you go any further. There are certain things that should be said and certain things that shouldn’t be said. There are certain things that should be done and certain things to avoid. You have to make planets and stars align or at least make it seem so. If you have made the right moves then what you ask you should receive.

Allow me to clear up this misconception about being an alpha male. Let’s not confuse being an alpha male with someone who is mainly promiscuous. The lifestyle is not about being with a lot of women sexually. An alpha male is genuine about his motives. The fact is he is not too concerned with having multiple women, as opposed to having any woman. The challenge is to acquire the most desired and exclusive women. If an alpha male has a role to play and an image of power to maintain his circle must be in the same light.

Now that we have clarified that let’s discuss the main objective. Your goal is to greet with an introduction and confirm a day and time if not immediately to meet.
The most important element when in this deal closing situation is to appeal to her best interest.  Ideally, how can her goals become accomplished faster through you? This is the way you should approach this situation. You have to make it so everything is subject to her but only through you.

Experience plays a big part here. Possibility and odds does as well.  Competition can also be a factor but not as much. The deal is won by the most convincing. This is not easy. If possible always have someone promote for you.  For this purpose having a true female friend will do tremendous for your outcome when trying to meet new women.

Most women will do this unknowingly. They will create a powerful aura about you. They will paint a picture of you so extravagant that whomever listening nearby including their friends will have no choice than to be envious and in turn they start to develop a plot to get you to know you in the same way your promoter has. They too want this pleasurable experience. They feel this way mainly out of jealousy and curiosity. However, it still works in your benefit.

The deal is closed almost effortlessly. Your job is to try to create the same scenario in any setting.

So how do you accomplish this if you cannot create this scenario? How do you go from greet to meet in no time flat?

You have to be straight forward in your request. Make sure it’s clearly understood the benefits to be had after complying with your demands. Speak persuasively, leaving the mind with the intention of having limited time to perform this spontaneous act. You want to provoke an impulse decision. This is a qualified salesmen’s tactic. You have to sell the idea of winning. The idea is bought, and your goals fulfilled.

This is a big leap and it takes some guts but remember women want what men want in most cases. Do not make the mistake of prejudging them or seeing them in some way higher than you. She may be on the same page of thought as you and simply would like you to direct. You will know based off of what you observe as you go on.

If done correctly then all competition will seem to come off as desperate, and you’re soon to be lover will see you as a vessel to pleasure. You can now exit with confidence. Knowing that you’ve left a good impression and your new found friend is eager for more.  Don’t stray away there’s still work to do but you can however breathe easy with a victory cigar.

               
LESSON 9.PROVEN SECRET STRATEGIES.

I have always said that you can have anything in this world if you know what to say and when to say it. This is true as well as very hard, almost impossible unless you are a mind reader. Well on the other hand knowing what to do can get you there as well!

Once you have developed this new alpha male persona you will have learned some secrets along the way. The first secret you will have learned is how to play the genie if you will. You will have also gained some basic knowledge of attraction. Soon enough you will notice certain things happening seemingly like magic. Most of which is due to this new momentum of energy you have going but technically you have really embarked upon the art of illusion.  Let me explain.

Like-minded people attract to each other like magnets. This theory is proven scientifically.  This benefits the alpha male’s strategy. Use this theory to your advantage. Make sure you position yourself around the type of people and the right environment where your mind may blend and the chemistry will work.

An alpha male should be looking to create an aura of power and the standard he sets for himself should be as high as his circle of associates.  Once you have accomplished the task of building your nucleus of professional or sexy or powerful friends you will notice that the same type of crowd will attract to you unintentionally.  You have created a presence that has defined the flow of magnetism.

You are now desirable by the same type of women or people you’ve surrounded yourself with.
This power however is being produced by the swarm of high class admirers you have accompanying you.  An alpha male must keep the circle of success encircling him. At the same time he will also entertain his new following. This doesn’t take much work as the task of persuasion is already done by your followers.