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Authors: Stan Findus
HOW TO MAKE HER LET GO & GIVE IN
The No-Bullshit Guide to Great Sex
By
Stan Findus
Copyright © 2014
Stan Findus
All rights reserved
ISBN: 9789090285511
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Table of Contents
THE SEXUAL ROLLER COASTER MODEL
STEP 1 TRIGGERING HER PRIMAL DESIRES
1.1 Emotional Selection
1.2 Who is Mr. Right?
1.3 Becoming Mr. Right
2.1 Flirting Is Playing
2.2 Physical Stimulation
2.3 Your Body Language
2.4 Her Signs
STEP 3 CREATING EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICAL INTIMACY
3.1 Creating Emotional Intimacy
3.2 Creating Physical Intimacy
4.1.1 The Importance of Intercourse
4.1.2 Verbal Stimulation
4.1.3 Making Fantasies Come True
4.1.4 Go-Stop-Go
4.2.1 The Clitoral System
4.2.2 Her Hotspots
4.2.3 Blending
STEP 4.3 THE ULTIMATE RELEASE, OVER AND OVER
4.3.1 What is an Orgasm?
4.3.2 Stacking Up
5.1 Ease her back into reality
5.2 On bonding
INTRODUCTION
Everything You Don’t, but Should Know about Female Sexuality Explained
One of the biggest burdens men face today, is not being clued in about what female sexuality comprises of, and just how to give her what she needs. Worst of all is the fact that most of these guys will never figure out how to create those intense urges within her panties.
Even though I don’t know you or how you got started reading this, I do know that a part of you is looking for ways to be a better lover. Isn’t everyone?
It could be that you’re sexually satisfied and are just looking at some books to get some inspiration. Yet it’s also possible that you feel frustrated and depressed because your girl doesn’t want to have sex, doesn’t get an orgasm, left you, cheated, just isn’t all that excited in the bedroom…
There Are Reasons for All of These Issues, but Most Men Will Never Find Them
There are lots of angles a man can address to find out why some things work and others don’t in the bedroom. You can ask your girl, buddies, watch some porn, read some self-help books and articles about sex or watch some instructional movies.
At this point you may ask yourself: what makes this book different?
This Book Gives Answers Because It Teaches how to Trigger the Deepest Emotions That Give Her Sexual Pleasure
This book will definitely not recycle the same information you already read over and over again. No, it delivers answers and solutions in a straight-forward way.
What this book entails, is getting you to trigger her deepest or as we call it ‘primal’ emotions in profound ways to give her and yourself the best sexual experience possible. You can trigger these desires through a combination of both physical and psychological stimulation.
With these primal emotions she consciously, but also unconsciously screens you to determine if you are her right guy or not.
This right guy can mean many different things. You see, women select men not only before, but also during a sexual relationship and even while having sex. They also have different needs depending on their stage in life and current mood. But there is one fact that’s always the same:
Only Her Right Guy Can Make Her Let Go and Give In to All Her Sexual Desires
To become this right guy and avoid being the wrong guy, you need to take her on an exciting emotional ride. You will learn
what
this emotional ride means and
how
to give her a thrilling ride before, during and after sex, through the ‘Sexual Roller Coaster Model’.
This model is merely a tool in which you can place every sexual experience you ever had. It is not aimed at giving you any kind of specific sex. It is applicable to kinky, hot, rough, tender, passionate…well basically
any
kind of sex you or she have ever dreamed of. Though I have to warn you:
The Right Guy Never Bullshits Around
This book is all about what works and what doesn’t on that deeper, primal and animalistic level. Her right guy gets that this is a part of her and himself and understands that this is the part he needs to trigger to gain the most sexual gratification possible.
Even though he has morals, values and beliefs, he gets that these have nothing to do with her deeper animalistic urges and emotions. These desires tell her she loves to be slutty from time to time, and he is OK with that.
He Gives Her What She Needs and Receives What He Wants
Because he is not inhibited by any prevailing moral code, he is free to give her the tender, kinky, loving, perverted, rough…whatever kind of sex she’s after. In return for this she will give him what he wants sexually and emotionally.
If you feel your moral values and beliefs are blocking your path to that primal, animalistic level of lovemaking, you might give this book a chance. But if you are already feeling offended by simple words as kinky, slutty or perverted, definitely stop reading as this book is not written for you.
Her right guy does not have any hang ups or issues about handling her rough, manipulating her mind or doing things that, at first glance, may not seem like she’s not being valued. But there is one thing her right guy gets. He knows that by doing all of these things, he fulfils her deepest desires which is the value she truly wishes for and deserves.
Handle With Care!
This book is written to create as much emotional impact as possible. Inside, there are techniques to manipulate her emotions and body in ways that reach some of the deepest parts of a woman. Using the content without positive intent can really fuck up her mind. So whatever your goals have, always remember that you are dealing with female emotions.
Besides the emotional impact, also make sure you keep it safe in terms of both partners’ physical health. Making mistakes is no fun. You don’t want to end up with a nasty STD or cause any physical harm during the process of hot, rough and possibly kinky sex.
THE SEXUAL ROLLER COASTER MODEL
‘How to Make her Let Go & Give In’ is made out of 5 steps. Each step builds upon the previous one, and is placed in something called:
‘The Sexual Roller Coaster Model’
.
This model is the backbone of the book, and gives a complete overview of what goes on in her mind during the entire sexual process. This systematic approach makes it possible to learn what she needs and how to provide it, in every possible moment of her experience.
Throughout the book, you will learn some of the most powerful psychological and physical principles and techniques, aimed to stir up 2 very important primal desires:
lust
and
trust
. The aim is to fulfil these needs because it enhances her sexual tension.
The model is based on an axis that indicates her state of mind, as well as in which step of the experience you both are in. The line indicates her sexual tension, and this is what makes or breaks her experience. The more sexual tension that's built up within her, the more intense her release will be through her orgasm(s). The looping’s in our model are these orgasms.
I’ve said before that this model is applicable to all sexual experiences, but it is definitely not static. The steps always vary in time and it is even possible to skip some steps and still give her a thrilling sexual experience.
Her State of Mind
There are three mind-sets in which you can place her sexual tension.
1. Rational State
This is the part of her brain she uses to create logic. But this is not the part you should trigger to get her tension up, as it has nothing to do with her primal emotions. As such, when she is in this state of mind she does not feel any sexual tension in her mind and body.
2. Emotional State
This is the state of mind you must aim for to trigger her deeper desires. As she gradually lessens the use of her rational and enhances the use of her emotional mind, she becomes more and more receptive to following you into greater sexual pleasures.
3. Primal State
When she gets closer and closer to orgasm due to the heightened sexual tension, her mind makes another shift. She will gradually enter a pure and primal state in which she loses all control over her body and mind. When the tension becomes too high, she needs to release it through one or more powerful orgasms.
The Five Steps of Her Sexual Experience
Step 1, Triggering Her Primal Desires
– revolves around your mentality. Notice how in our model that this step resembles the stage in which the carriage of the roller coaster gets pulled up before the actual ride begins. To pull her up as high as possible you need to have certain traits. This will give her ride that surge of power and speed you'll require later on in the experience.
The most important traits revolve around dominance and commitment. Women select men on these traits in emotional and instinctive ways.
Dominance
is needed to trigger her needs of
lust
and to lead her towards a mind blowing sexual experience.
Commitment
revolves around her needs of
trust
and is not always essential to give her a good experience. But if you want to lead her all the way up to her ultimate pleasure, she also needs to trust you all the way, which requires your commitment.
When triggering these desires profoundly –
Step 2, Emotional Foreplay
– will make her sexual tension rise in a smooth and natural manner. This step only requires the need for light, physical contact. It is mostly aimed at giving you the basics on how to excite her through the use of flirting.
You will learn that there are 2 kinds of conversations:
emotional
and
rational
ones. You will learn how to turn a rational conversation into an emotional one. Once you know how, you can master the art of
flirting
which is a perfect way to heat up her engine in a fun and pleasurable way.
Step 3, Creating Emotional and Physical Intimacy
– explains that phase where she is ready to take it to a physical level. In most cases, a kiss opens the door to the physical side. But for her, this moment is mostly an intimate moment that makes her feel connected with her lover. Once she has felt this connection, she only wants to deepen it by escalating physically. However, you will learn that there are many different ways to turn things physical.
This escalation automatically leads into –
Step 4, Sex
– and this is where the real fun begins. It is divided into three parts:
First you will learn how to trigger her emotions during sex through the use of key words and techniques aimed to spike her tension.