Authors: Editors of Reader's Digest
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When we are well, we all have good advice for those who are ill.
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We are never so generous as when giving advice.
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People who have what they want are fond of telling people who haven't what they want that they really don't want it.
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We give advice by the bucket but take it by the grain.
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The thing to do with good advice is to pass it on. It is never any good to oneself.
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Advice should always be consumed between two thick slices of doubt.
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The best advice yet given is that you don't have to take it.
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Don't be troubled if the temptation to give advice is irresistible; the ability to ignore it is universal.
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Use soft words and hard arguments.
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A good indignation makes an excellent speech.
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There is nothing in the world like a persuasive speech to fuddle the mental apparatus.
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If you have an important point to make, don't try to be subtle or clever. Use a pile driver. Hit the point once. Then come back and hit it again. Then hit it a third time a tremendous whack.
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Charm is a way of getting the answer yes without asking a clear question.
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Praise, like gold and diamonds, owes its value only to its scarcity.
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Sandwich every bit of criticism between two layers of praise.
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One thought driven home is better than three left on base.
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Example is not the main thing in influencing others. It is the only thing.
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The great charm in argument is really finding one's own opinions, not other people's
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It is better to debate a question without settling it than to settle a question without debating it.
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Nothing can keep an argument going like two persons who aren't sure what they're arguing about.
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A single fact will often spoil an interesting argument.
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You have not converted a man because you have silenced him.
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It is impossible to defeat an ignorant man in an argument.
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In quarreling, the truth is always lost.
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Never answer an angry word with an angry word. It's the second one that makes the quarrel.
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People generally quarrel because they cannot argue.
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The difficult part in an argument is not to defend one's opinion but rather to know it.
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Quarrels would not last long if the fault were on one side only.
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Violence in the voice is often only the death rattle of reason in the throat.
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Whether on the road or in an argument, when you see red it's time to stop.
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Anybody who thinks there aren't two sides to every argument is probably in one.
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An apology is the superglue of life. It can repair just about anything.
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The man who offers an insult writes it in sand, but for the man who receives it, it's chiseled in bronze.
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An ounce of apology is worth a pound of loneliness.
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An apology is a good way to have the last word.
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Prayer is when you talk to God; meditation is when you listen to God.
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Prayer is the key of the morning and the bolt of the evening.
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The greatest prayer is patience.
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What we usually pray to God is not that His will be done, but that He approve ours.
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The object of most prayers is to wangle an advance on good intentions.
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Certain thoughts are prayers. There are moments when, whatever be the attitude of the body, the soul is on its knees.
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If you begin to live life looking for the God that is all around you, every moment becomes a prayer.
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Our prayers are answered not when we are given what we ask but when we are challenged to be what we can be.
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Any concern too small to be turned into a prayer is too small to be made into a burden.
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If we could all hear one another's prayers, God might be relieved of some of his burden.
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Serving God is doing good to man. But praying is thought an easier service and is therefore more generally chosen.
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God is like a mirror. The mirror never changes but everybody who looks at it sees something different.
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Prayer is less about changing the world than it is about changing ourselves.
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Get down on your knees and thank God you are on your feet.
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Never trust someone who has to change his tone to ask something of the Lord.
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Call on God, but row away from the rocks.
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Trust in Godâbut tie your camel tight.
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Great ideas need landing gear as well as wings.
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The history of mankind is the history of ideas.
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A man is but a product of his thoughts; what he thinks, that he becomes.
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An invasion of armies can be resisted, but not an idea whose time has come.
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It is useless to send armies against ideas.
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Good ideas are not adopted automatically. They must be driven into practice with courageous impatience.
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A cup is useful only when it is empty; and a mind that is filled with beliefs, with dogmas, with assertions, with quotations is really an uncreative mind.
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The man with a new idea is a crank until the idea succeeds.
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The greatest discovery of my generation is that a human being can alter his life by altering his attitude.
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Thought is action in rehearsal.
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Change your thoughts and you change your world.
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He who cannot change the very fabric of his thought will never be able to change reality.
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The mind is its own place, and in itself can make a heaven of hell, a hell of heaven.
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If most of us are ashamed of shabby clothes and shoddy furniture, let us be more ashamed of shabby ideas and shoddy philosophies.
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Civilization is a movement and not a condition, a voyage and not a harbor.
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Good thoughts bear good fruit, bad thoughts bear bad fruitâand man is his own gardener.
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Bring ideas in and entertain them royally, for one of them may be the king.
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The test of a first-rate intelligence is the ability to hold two opposed ideas in the mind at the same time, and still retain the ability to function.
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I like to have a man's knowledge comprehend more than one class of topics, one row of shelves. I like a man who likes to see a fine barn as well as a good tragedy.
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Learning is not attained by chance. It must be sought for with ardor and attended to with diligence.
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What we learn with pleasure we never forget.
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Most people are willing to pay more to be amused than to be educated.
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Education is not training but rather the process that equips you to entertain yourself, a friend and an idea.
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Education is not the filling of a pail, but the lighting of a fire.
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There are two ways of spreading light: to be the candle or the mirror that reflects it.
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An education is like a crumbling building that needs constant upkeep with repairs and additions.
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A master can tell you what he expects of you. A teacher, though, awakens your own expectations.
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A great teacher never strives to explain his visionâhe simply invites you to stand beside him and see for yourself.
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If you would thoroughly know anything, teach it to others.
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To teach is to learn twice.
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Good education is the essential foundation of a strong democracy.
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America's Country Schools
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Education is more than a luxury; it is a responsibility that society owes to itself.
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Education is learning what you didn't even know you didn't know.
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Without education, we are in a horrible and deadly danger of taking educated people seriously.
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It is not the business of science to inherit the earth, but to inherit the moral imagination; because without that, man and beliefs and science will perish together.
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Science has made us gods even before we are worthy of being men.
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An age is called Dark, not because the light fails to shine, but because people refuse to see it.
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In every work of genius, we recognize our own rejected thoughts; they come back to us with a certain alienated majesty.
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If you are seeking creative ideas, go out walking. Angels whisper to a man when he goes for a walk.
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An idea can turn to dust or magic, depending on the talent that rubs against it.
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Be curious always! For knowledge will not acquire you; you must acquire it.
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Curiosity is the wick in the candle of learning.
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The little I know, I owe to my ignorance.
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Curiosity is a willing, a proud, an eager confession of ignorance.
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A sense of curiosity is nature's original school of education.
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The human mind is as driven to understand as the body is driven to survive.
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If a man had as many ideas during the day as he does when he has insomnia, he'd make a fortune.
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News
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Ideas are like rabbits. You get a couple and learn how to handle them, and pretty soon you have a dozen.
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All my best thoughts were stolen by the ancients.
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A new idea is delicate. It can be killed by a sneer or a yawn; it can be stabbed to death by a quip, and worried to death by a frown on the right man's brow.
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Man's mind stretched to a new idea never goes back to its original dimensions.
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One should never spoil a good theory by explaining it.
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Once a new idea springs into existence, it cannot be unthought. There is a sense of immortality in a new idea.
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An open mind collects more riches than an open purse.
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A cold in the head causes less suffering than an idea.
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Reading furnishes the mind only with materials of knowledge; it is thinking that makes what we read ours.
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Reading is to the mind what exercise is to the body.
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Books may well be the only true magic.
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Books are not made for furniture, but there is nothing else that so beautifully furnishes a house.
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Reading makes immigrants of us allâit takes us away from home, but more important, it finds homes for us everywhere.
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Against Borders
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There are perhaps no days of our childhood we lived so fully as those we believe we left without having lived them: those we spent with a favorite book.
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From your parents you learn love and laughter and how to put one foot before the other. But when books are opened you discover that you have wings.
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Books are the carriers of civilization. Without books, history is silent, literature dumb, science crippled, thought and speculation at a standstill.
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Books had instant replay long before televised sports.
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If you would understand your own age, read the works of fiction produced in it. People in disguise speak freely.
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Books are more than books. They are the life, the very heart and core of ages past, the reason why men lived and worked and died, the essence and quintessence of their lives.
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There are no faster or firmer friendships than those between people who love the same books.
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