The Beginner's Guide to Living

 

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Contents

Title Page

Copyright Notice

Dedication

Part One

Rip

Random Light

The Ultimate Truth

Free Fall

Setting Sail

Waves

Erosophy

Know Thyself

Life in a Glasshouse

Part Two

The Dance

Kiss the Joy as it Flies

By the World Forgot

Celebration

Whisper

If Water had Memory

Arrows and Maxims

Mantra

Part Three

Break on Through

Life's Longing

Dervish

Glimpses from the Cavern

A Small Death

Rites of Passage

Part Four

Mystic on the Fringe

Chaos Theory

Sleepwalking

Leap

The Divinity of Love

Acknowledgments

Copyright

 

FOR MY BOYS

ONE

RIP

S
HE LOOKS GOOD FOR A CORPSE.
Except she never wore green eye shadow, was never this still. Her rib cage has been cracked open—you can't see anything, it's all been cleaned up, but I can imagine them beneath her dress, the tracks of stitches that will never heal. Some doctor thrust his hand inside her chest, reached in and touched her heart. It must affect your view of love. It didn't work, of course—her heart refused to obey his hands. Bit senseless, my dad reckoned, breaking her open when there was no longer a chance. But it's worth it, isn't it?

Her face is the wrong color, too pink, like she's stepped out of the bath, and the coffin's not her style. Especially the handles. She wore silver, not gold. Nobody else seems to have noticed—nobody's seeing anything; it's as if they're wading through syrup. Have forgotten how to be real.

I was hanging out with my friend Seb while it was happening, all that wrestling to save a life. Four days ago, that's all it's been. We were listening to music. Radiohead. Could've been worse, I guess, more disrespectful—could've been watching reality TV, or downloading porn. The problem is, I didn't feel it. I've tried, these last few days, to imagine that I sensed something, anything, the moment she left: a stab of pain, some kind of vision. But I didn't. I felt nothing last Thursday afternoon, September 1st, at 4:27, the instant that Anna Ellis, my mother, died.

*   *   *

Body lowered into the ground. Vigilant sparrows. Spring rain. Mud.

*   *   *

I feel nothing, taste nothing, not even these chocolate éclairs. Aunty Rachel, my mom's sister, made them because she knows they're my favorite, but the icing's a paste sticking my tongue to the roof of my mouth. Aunty Rachel's standing over by the open window in our living room, leaning into her brother, my uncle Carl, the curtains billowing around them like protective sails.

An old woman's staring at me but I don't know who she is. She frowns as I spit the éclair into my hand and take a look at it—hey, if people can tell fortunes from cats' guts—and thrusts a napkin in my face.

This is not right. There are people I don't know at my mother's wake.

“Hello, Will,” she says. Her hair is the color of smokers' fingers. “I'm your great-aunt,” she whispers too close.

“Joy,” she's saying in my face, like an insult, and I want to say,
Fuck off, Joy, what a stupid name to have at a wake
. But Dad's not far away, leaning into the living room wall like it's the only thing that will hold him up, his suit all corrugated with grief.

“Joy,” she says once more to test me, and “The Lord moves in mysterious ways.”

I step back, but there's someone behind, hedging me in. “This is Faith,” says Joy. “She's your great-aunt too.”

Faith grips my arm. Her hair has the same kind of stain. “My, haven't you grown. You must be at least eighteen.”

“Seventeen,” I correct.

Fingertips in my bicep, she murmurs, “Anna's safe now.”

I jerk away from her—it's easy, she's so small; they both are, these witches. They're the kind of sad old ladies who skulk around other people's deaths in preparation for their own.

“Safe now?” I ask, full of jagged rib cages and last thoughts, as a car steered by a drunk driver smashes into her life. Safe as houses? Safe as death?

God, Mom, where are you? Are you disappointed I'm crap at all this? You never told me what to do when you died, but you should've, because it's the only thing we can be sure of. Death gets all of us in the end. And then I see her, this girl, in the light by the window, long hair, eternal legs, generous smile she's trying to hold on to as she talks to my dad. She looks about my age and she's in a white dress—didn't anyone tell her you're meant to wear black to a wake? She touches her fingers to her lips and suddenly, I can taste chocolate, like a betrayal. I am the king of bad timing. Only a monster could think of love.

*   *   *

Dream.

Hags around a cauldron. One drops in eye of newt and hemlock as the other one stirs. Steam rises from the potion and forms question marks in the sky. The witches are wearing black T-shirts, one saying
Joy
, the other
Faith
. They have hair the color of a bruise and they're pointing at an angel, its wings in full flight. An angel with that girl's face. The one who wore white to a wake.

*   *   *

“Will?”

It's Adam. He's looming over me, smelling of airports. I stretch my legs against the sheet, and my feet touch the end of the bed.

“Hey,” I say, my eyes struggling to meet the world and my brother's face. He's tanned and his hair is even shorter than when I saw him last. Must have been six months ago—he was standing next to Mom, waving as he climbed into her car, heading for the airport to fly to Malaysia, and now he's sitting on the edge of my bed. “You didn't make it.”

“I tried, but I couldn't get a flight.”

My mouth tastes of doubt. Adam always gets what he wants, including seats on fully booked flights. His phone rings, the theme to the
X-Men
—he digs it out of his jacket and turns it off. “So, how was it?”

“Weird.” I close my eyes again. All I can see is that girl, white wings and her white dress.

“I spoke to Dad on the phone. He said Nan organized the whole thing, wake and all, bloody Catholics. How's Dad anyway? Is he all right?”

“How can you tell?”

“Good point.”

Dad leaned against our living room wall all yesterday afternoon at the wake and let people come to him. He never said a word to me the whole frigging time except
Your mom would've liked those flowers
. Twenty-four years they were married—was that the best he could do?

As Adam leans on my bed, his hand lands on the open copy of
Macbeth
, which I'm studying in Lit. “Are you okay?”

“I'm in love,” I hear myself saying, the words spilling into the gap between us. He looks at me sideways, and there's something about the curve of his jaw, the hazel of his eyes—I get a jolt of Mom in that casket, green eye shadow, leering great-aunts, a sensation of shrinking away from my skin. I swallow hard. “Anyway, how's okay meant to feel?”

“Jesus, I don't know. Keep expecting her to walk in that door and ask me how my flight was.”

“How was your flight?”

“Smart-ass.” He's shaking his head, like a fly's trying to land on it. “Long. Boring. I kept thinking about…”

“What?”

“Doesn't matter.”

He slumps forward, all six feet of him, and stares at the floor, at a stack of books, or maybe at nothing.

I feel him shift on the edge of the bed, the aftershock. “You know, she never once talked to me about dying.”

“Don't be so frigging morbid, Will.”

“I'm not. I just meant … I don't know.”

Adam's shoulders roll forward as he prepares to leave. The sleeve of his jacket is ripped.

“That's not true,” I say. “I'm pissed off.”

“Fair enough.”

There's agreement in my brother's face but not the kind that I seek. “I mean I'm pissed off because nobody talks about what matters, not even when someone dies.”

“As if that would help.”

“I think it could.”

Adam's shaking his head. “Still the same old Will.”

“So?”

I turn away from him. I don't need this right now—Adam bringing his version of me in here, using it to hem me in. A six-year head start doesn't give him a monopoly on the truth.

“You want to know what matters, Will? It's this.” He shoves his hand in his pocket and pulls out a wad of foreign notes, Malaysian I guess. He's unmoving above me except for his fist that clings to the fan of money, and I figure he's got to be joking as we focus on it, both of us held by its spell, its damp, used odor. Beyond it, my brother's face begins to loosen. “It was a shitty flight,” he says, chucking the money on the bed. “I'm going to get some breakfast, see if Dad's up. You coming?”

“No.”

I roll back over toward the wall. I want him out of here. There's no space for him, for anything, except this throbbing. A thick cord of grief winding itself around me.

*   *   *

I pull out a notebook I keep under my bed in the old wooden box my granddad gave me when I was little, before he died. He kept old postcards in it, of palm trees and deserts from the Second World War. One day he took them out to the garage and dumped them all into the recycling bin. When he was finished, he handed the box to me and said, “Keep something useful in this, more useful than these.”

On a clean page in my notebook, I write what Macbeth says at the end of the play, when he finds out his wife has died:
Life's but a walking shadow … a tale told by an idiot, full of sound and fury, signifying nothing.

*   *   *

Night collapses on the sixth day. The house is silent. Dad and Adam have gone to buy pizza—Mom was the one who cooked. The only meal Dad can do is a roast, but we've already had that twice since she died.

I have lived six days beyond my mother.

I want to smell her. I go into my parents' room, Michael and Anna's room. Her scent is more concentrated in here than anywhere else in the house. The room is unaltered from what I can see as I lie on their bed, the bed where they made me—they don't seem the type to do it in the kitchen. These are not the thoughts I came in here for. On her bedside table is a book, maybe the last she ever read. It's called
Meditations
by Marcus Aurelius and there's a bookmark stuck in a page where some of the sentences are underlined. One of them is stark as a premonition:
All of us are creatures of a day; the rememberer and the remembered alike
.

I close the book and shroud myself in their duvet, my head on the pillow, on her side. As I inhale her I sift through the mix for nameable smells—vanilla, paper cases peeled off muffins, the generic scent of soap—my nose dislodging a hair, the red of old blood. I wind it around my finger till it begins to turn the end purple. Tough stuff, hair. I jump up and go over to their closet where all her clothes are still hanging and plunge my face into them, but I don't cry. Not even when that blue dress slips from its hanger, the dress she loved wearing to the beach, the one that made her merge with the sky. I tuck it under my arm, unhook the white plastic hanger, and snap it clean in half like a wishbone.