"There Are Things I Want You to Know" About Stieg Larsson and Me (26 page)

Stieg’s and my situation—and that of many other couples I mention in my book on unmarried partners, where
the surviving companion loses everything after the other one dies—shows that these archaic laws must change, because they treat intellectual creations as if they were plots of land to be added to the relatives’ nearby farmland. When one unmarried partner dies, the other is abruptly stripped of all the couple has built up together, and is thereby prevented from developing their joint creation. And when this legacy is handed over to people who have had nothing to do with it, this is not only immoral but also detrimental to the creative elements in society, since it’s the passive who win and the active who lose. Which means that society stagnates. This unfair situation, publicized through my case, has led many people in Sweden to make their domestic union legally safer, sometimes through marriage.

WITHOUT THE
support of our true friends—who do not camp out on TV soundstages, trotting out apocryphal memories and bizarre stories about Stieg for the media or in books—I would never have made it through these last years. This book is also my thanks to them.

Today I’m still fighting to control the literary rights to
The Millennium Trilogy
and all of Stieg’s political writing. I’m fighting for him, for me, for us.

I do not want his name to be an industry or a brand. The way things are going, what’s to stop me from one day seeing his name on a bottle of beer, a packet of coffee, or a car? I don’t want his struggles and ideals to be sullied and exploited.
I know how he would react in every situation I’m facing today: he would fight.

Like Stieg, that’s what I must do.

On the evening of Stieg’s burial, I wrote that I wanted “to survive another year.” A few months later, on the anniversary of his death, I hoped “to learn how to live again.” Today, the words I calmly write are … “to live.” My family, my work, my commitments, my friends: they are what lets me live each and every day.

For Stieg. Because he would ask that of me, the way he did in his farewell letter before he set out for Africa in 1977 when he was twenty-two.

So for me, for us, and because that’s the way we are, I will keep going.

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