Read Do Dead People Watch You Shower? Online
Authors: Concetta Bertoldi
And Other Questions
You’ve Been All but Dying
to Ask a Medium
This book is dedicated to my very best dispatchers:My father, Manny Ferrell, and my brother, Harold Ferrell
Introduction
What is the difference between a medium and a psychic?
When did you first start talking with dead people?
When did you first tell someone about the things you “knew”?
Why does mediumship run in families?
How did being psychic affect you growing up?
How did your parents help you to deal with this ability?
Did you begin doing readings as soon as you began to understand your gift?
How did you “come out,” so to speak, as a medium?
How did your husband react to the news that you talk to the dead?
Was there one event that made you go public?
When you meet new people do you always introduce yourself as a medium?
Sometimes I experience déjà vu or feel as if I predicted events that came to pass, does this mean that I am psychic? How can I know if my abilities are ordinary or extraordinary?
What happens to us when we die?
Is there a heaven?
When we cross over is there really a “God” to meet?
Wait, wait, wait—are you saying definitively that God is a He?
What do we look like when we die?
What is there to do on the Other Side?
Can you explain what a near-death experience is about?
Is an NDE just something that accidentally happens? Or is there a reason that certain people are chosen to “almost die”?
What about someone in a coma? Are they trying to cross? Can or do they stay here for us?
Have you ever done a reading where you heard from someone who technically was still living?
If it’s someone’s time, can they decide not to go?
How is it decided who will greet us on the Other Side?
Do the dead know things about our pasts that they couldn’t have known while they were alive?
Do the dead judge the living?
How does religion work on the Other Side?
Do we worship God on the Other Side?
Does everyone go into the Light?
Do you believe there is such a thing as pure evil?
If people have had a violent crossing, for instance, if they were victims of murder, are they heartbroken in heaven or do they find peace?
If someone is killed violently, does he experience the trauma of his assault or is he whisked out of his body somehow so he doesn’t suffer?
Does someone who has crossed due to an act of violence want her killer brought to justice?
What is your understanding about the soul of someone who has committed suicide?
Is there anything we can do on this side to help loved ones who have committed suicide find peace?
Who are our guardian angels, and do we meet them when we die?
What is the difference between angels, spirits, souls, and guardians?
What is a spirit guide?
Are there bad, or fallen, angels?
What purpose would a fallen angel serve in this world?
How do our guardian angels protect us?
Besides protection, what other kinds of things do our guardian angels do for us?
Can the dead help us find things?
Do dead people watch us shower? Does Grandma know I like to do that in bed?
Is it possible to ask the dead for a moment of privacy? Can we have a “Would you please avert your eyes, Grams?” moment with the Other Side?
Do the dead have sex on the Other Side?
Is there such a thing as a “dirty old ghost”?
Do the dead remember having sex?
Do the dead miss their bodies?
When we choose to come to this side, do we get to pick our bodies?
What is it like on the Other Side? Is the Other Side actually a place?
Is there any color on the Other Side?
Is it crowded on the Other Side? Do we have to wait in lines?
Do the dead inhabit old houses?
Why is it that we hear about the dead haunting a particular place?
Are there souls who are “stuck” in limbo? How can a soul get out of limbo?
Is it hard for you to visit historic sites?
Do all places in which humans have lived hold vibrations?
Can the dead talk with one another?
Does everybody know everybody else there? Do we communicate with spirits we never knew on earth?
Do the dead still retain their five senses?
How do the dead get around?
Are the dead always with us—even on vacation?
Can the dead travel back in time?
Can they travel to the future?
What do the dead wear?
Do the dead ever try to give you fashion advice?
Do the dead appear in color?
Do the dead have emotions?
Do we still experience depression when we are dead?
Are our pets waiting for us on the Other Side?
Are pets the only animals on the Other Side, or do all animal souls go there too?
Are there spirits from other planets among the dead on the Other Side?
On the Other Side, can we communicate with animals, too, as we do with people here?
Is it true that cats are psychic and can see the dead? If so, are they the only animals that can do this, or do all animals see ghosts?
Do the dead go to ball games?
Even if the dead don’t bet on ball games, weren’t there a lot of happy Red Sox fans in heaven in 2004?
Do the dead go to bars?
Do the dead listen to music?
Do the dead keep a schedule?
Do the dead obey rules?
Do we know when it is our time to die?
Do the dead feel bad if we never visit them at the cemetery?
Do souls who have crossed miss us as much as we miss them?
Do the souls of our loved ones ever want to come back to us? Are they sorry they left?
Can you explain how you communicate with the spirits of people who have passed away? What is the physical process?
Do mediums receive messages through tarot cards?
Have you ever used a Ouija board?
How do you actually get the messages you receive during a reading?
How long does the typical reading last?
When a medium is requested to speak with a particular spirit, does that spirit get pulled away from whatever it was doing on the Other Side to come through?
Do you have any control over who comes through when you do a reading?
Can you zoom in somehow on a particular spirit? Can you choose who comes through?
Is it really necessary to ask your clients for their permission to listen?
Do you ever hear from people that your client doesn’t know?
Is it “safe” to be read in a group setting? Would a spirit ever reveal something that I might not want others to know?
Was there ever a time when someone came for a reading and you didn’t hear anything?
When you are reading for a large group are you ever confused about who is talking to whom?
Is there any difference between doing a reading for a man or for a woman?
Is it hard for you to be married to a non-believer?
Can the Other Side tell you if your partner is cheating on you?
Does a spirit still have the same personality as the person he or she used to be?
Do people on the Other Side age?