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From our observations, Internet-based self-help for hoarding is a novel method that might be a good way to provide help for hoarders who live in locations without adequately trained treatment providers, or a good first step for those reluctant to seek treatment. We recently began experimenting with in-person facilitated self-help groups with some success. Group members enjoy interacting with one another and seem to derive motivation to work on clutter from the experience. It is too early to tell whether this approach will be truly useful.

Our first efforts at treatment began more than a decade ago, and our methods have evolved over time with the help of what we have learned in the laboratory. Nevertheless, we still have a long way to go. When we started studying hoarding, there were no other research groups working on the problem. Now at least a dozen highly sophisticated research teams from around the world are studying all aspects of this behavior, including the neurobiology, neuropsychology, genetics, comorbidity, and treatment of hoarding. Undoubtedly the next decade will produce many more advances in our understanding of this intriguing human condition.

One of the challenges for this research will be to distinguish what is positive in hoarding from what is pathological. We wonder whether the attention to the details of objects indicates a special form of creativity and an appreciation for the aesthetics of everyday things. In the same vein, empathy with the physical world expands life's horizons and can give meaning by connecting us to the world and one another. More than anything, hoarding represents a paradox of opportunity. Hoarders are gifted with the ability to see the opportunities in so many things. They are equally cursed with the inability to let go of any of these possibilities, thereby ensuring that few of the imagined options can ever be realized. Hoarding seems to be a symptom of both positive and negative capacities among those who are so blessed and afflicted. With luck, researchers will be able to sort out this paradox and to help people take advantage of the opportunities and jettison the costs.

There have been dramatic developments in the public arena as well. More than sixty cities throughout the country have formed task forces to deal with hoarding problems. These task forces are made up of officials from fire, health, housing, elder services, and mental health departments, as well as people with hoarding problems. They encounter the most severe hoarding cases and individuals who often don't recognize the threat posed by their behavior. Many members of these groups are veterans of massive and expensive cleanup operations that failed, such as Susan in chapter 9. One of the longest-running and most successful of these efforts is the San Francisco Task Force on Compulsive Hoarding, run by the city's Mental Health Association. This task force recently released a comprehensive report on hoarding in the city. The report not only estimated the financial cost of hoarding to San Francisco service providers and landlords ($6.4 million per year) but also laid out a set of recommendations for more effectively dealing with hoarding cases. Their report was a joint effort by members of the task force, which included not only agency representatives but hoarders as well. The efforts of the task force also led to the establishment of the Institute on Compulsive Hoarding and Cluttering, the first organization of its kind. It provides public education about hoarding, training for service providers, support and therapy groups for hoarders, and advocacy to prevent homelessness due to hoarding. It also consults with other agencies and other communities about how to establish hoarding programs. We hope that this will be the wave of the future in dealing with hoarding problems.

Finding Help

If you or a loved one has a hoarding problem, here are steps you can take to get help.

• Find a therapist with experience treating hoarding problems.
Several professional organizations provide help in locating suitable therapists in your area, including the Obsessive Compulsive Foundation, the Association for Behavioral and Cognitive Therapies, and the Anxiety Disorders Association of America. Therapists who are registered with these organizations list their areas of expertise, including the treatment of hoarding. If you are seeking help for a loved one who refuses help, these therapists can help you find ways of interacting with your loved one that increase the likelihood that he or she will seek help on his or her own.

• Find a local hoarding task force.
Your community may have developed a hoarding task force. If you or your loved one is in trouble with the health department or other agency due to hoarding issues, a hoarding task force can sometimes help provide resources. These organizations are made up of people who are eager to find compassionate ways of solving hoarding problems, and they are less likely to make the mistake of seeking punishments or cleanouts as a first resort. The agencies involved in task forces are responsible for the health and well-being of all residents. Don't be afraid to ask for their help.

• Find a local hoarding support group.
Many task forces have started support groups or serve as clearinghouses of information about local support groups. If no groups exist in your area, consider starting one. To find people with hoarding problems to join the group, place a small ad in a local newspaper or community newsletter. Finding other people in your situation who live in your community may be a good first step on the road to your recovery. Our initial research on self-help support groups indicates that groups that use the protocol in our book
Buried in Treasures
can have a positive effect on members.

• Read one of the self-help books mentioned in this chapter.

• Read
Digging Out
by Michael Tompkins and Tamara Hartl.
This book outlines a harm-reduction approach for family members of people who hoard and is especially helpful when loved ones do not recognize that they have a problem. The authors describe how to construct a team of helpers to work with a loved one to help him or her recognize and seek/accept help for hoarding.

• Above all, try to maintain a positive and healthy relationship with a loved one who has a hoarding problem.
Keep in mind that the person's attachment to objects is something that he or she has little control over.

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1. Piles upon Piles

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2. We Are What We Own

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