The Triple Package (49 page)

Golden Exiles,
36
n,
87

Hispanic label and,
68
–69,
156

Marielitos,
36
n,
40

New Cubans,
36
n,
40

superiority complex and,
68
–72,
156

Cuban Exiles,
6
,
12
,
36
–41,
58
,
71
–72,
87
–89,
105

insecurity and,
87
–89

status loss among,
88
–89,
92

cultural groups,
30

culture, definitions of,
30
n

Daily Beast,
167

Davis, John,
153
–54

Davis-Blake, Alison,
32

Death of a Salesman
(Miller),
108

Declaration of Independence,
204
–6

De La Torre, Miguel,
71

De la Vega, Ralph,
38

Dell,
5
,
32

Deloitte,
5
,
32

Delury, John,
220

democracy,
62
,
182
,
206
,
211
,
217

Democracy in America
(Tocqueville),
202

Denmark,
168

depression,
212
,
213
n

in Asian Americans,
104
,
150

Diamond, Jared,
17
n,
186

Diaz, Cameron,
39

Diller, Barry,
52

discipline,
11
,
163

see also
impulse control

Disraeli, Benjamin,
15

drive,
15
,
17
,
84
,
89
,
114
–15,
151
,
163
,
194
,
200
,
209

pathology of,
165
–66

drugs,
see
substance abuse

D’Souza, Dinesh,
44

Duckworth, Angela,
117

Dweck, Carol,
117
,
212

East Asian Americans,
50

academic achievement and,
7
,
13
,
196

bullying of,
103
–4

family and parenting among,
147
–48,
151
,
152

out-marrying and,
158

Eckstein, Susan,
36
n,
39

education and academic achievement,
24
–26

Amish and,
119
,
181

Asian Americans and,
24
,
45
–48,
78
,
79
,
110
–11,
131
,
151
,
170
,
172
,
173
,
194
–95,
213
n

black schools and,
77
,
222

Chinese Americans and,
13
,
123
–24,
126
–31,
142
,
171
–73

conventional success and,
159

East Asian Americans and,
7
,
13
,
196

expectations and,
13
–14

insecurity and,
105
–6

Iranian Americans and,
56
,
95

Jews and,
13
,
20
,
24
–26,
193
–96

Korean Americans and,
13
,
110
,
131

self-esteem and,
111
–12,
213
n

tutoring and,
172
–73

Einstein, Albert,
55

Eire, Carlos,
70
–71

Eisen, Arnold,
62

Emerson, Ralph Waldo,
204

Emler, Nicholas,
213
n

Emory University,
36

End of History, The
(Fukuyama),
211

enkrateia,
138

entrepreneurialism,
223
–24

Epstein, Helen,
190
,
192

Epstein, Lawrence J.,
107

equality,
20
,
62
,
76
–77,
80
–81,
83
,
144
,
207
,
219
–20,
221
,
225

Erikson, Kai,
177

Estefan, Gloria,
39

Ethiopia,
6

ethnic armor,
22
–23,
82
–83

ethnocentrism,
15
,
59

Exxon Valdez,
179

failure,
117
,
159
,
214

Fairbanks, John K.,
121

family, parents,
86
,
106
–14,
131
–33,
115
,
143
,
146
–50

Asian Americans and,
13
,
110
–11,
147
–51

basing life decisions on expectations of,
160

Chinese Americans and,
126
–29,
132
,
142
,
147
,
148
,
150

East Asian Americans and,
147
–48,
151
,
152

Indian Americans and,
101
–2

Jews and,
106
–8,
109
,
140
–41,
142
,
151
–53

Korean Americans and,
131
,
132

Lebanese Americans and,
113
–14

parental sacrifice,
109
–10

rebellion against,
161
–63

self-esteem parenting,
214
,
216

Fanjul, Alfonso,
37

Fanjul Corporation,
37

Farrakhan, Louis,
78

fear,
86
,
104

in Jews,
104
–6,
153
–55,
195

Federalist Papers,
201
,
206

Feiffer, Jules,
151
–52

Fiddler on the Roof,
152

Fiedler, Leslie,
162

financial collapse of 2008,
215
,
217
–18,
220

Fischer, Claude,
204

Fisher-Price,
5
,
32

Flynn, James,
171

Footnote,
152

Forbes,
8

Forbes 400,
32
,
52

Ford, Henry,
208

Fortune,
114

Fortune 500 companies,
33
,
50

Forward,
140
–41

Frankfort, Lew,
51

Frankl, Victor,
224

Franklin, Benjamin,
203

Freud, Sigmund,
10
,
62
,
152
,
153

Friedman, Thomas,
54

Friend, Tad,
87
–88

Fryer, Roland,
222

Fukuyama, Francis,
211

Fundamentalist Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints (FLDS),
188

Galleon Group,
165

gambling,
215

Gandhi, Indira,
96

Gandhi, Mohandas,
96

García, Andy,
39

Gardner, Howard,
23

Garvey, Marcus,
43

Gates, Bill,
222
,
223

Gates, Henry Louis, Jr.,
41
–42

Gawande, Atul,
49
–50

Gehry, Frank,
53

Ghana,
6

Giardina, Denise,
177

Glazer, Nathan,
25

globalization,
211

Goad, Jim,
176

Goizueta, Roberto,
36
,
38
,
71

Goizueta Business School,
36

Golden Exiles,
36
n,
87

Goldman Sachs,
33
,
34
,
42

Good as Gold
(Heller),
152

Graham, Robert,
91
–92

Greek Americans,
57

Greeks, ancient,
89
,
112
,
121

Greenberg, Clement,
12

Grenier, Guillermo,
69

Grey, Brad,
54

Grimm, Thomas,
32

Grinberg, Gedalio,
38

group generalizations,
14

Grove, Andy,
32

Guggenheim, Meyer,
153
–54

Guinier, Lani,
41
–42

Guitar Hero,
48
–49

Gupta, Ashwini,
100

Gupta, Rajat,
100
,
165
–66

Gupta, Sanjay,
49

Gutierrez, Carlos,
38

Hadrian,
12

Haiti,
6

Haley, Nikki,
49

Hamilton, Alexander,
204

happiness,
11
,
27
,
146
,
147
,
206
–7,
209
,
224

hardship endurance,
16
–17,
21
,
119
–20,
125

self-esteem movement and,
214

Harkins, Anthony,
175

Harold & Kumar,
164

Harvard Business School,
32
,
42

Harvard University,
47
,
110

black students at,
6
,
41
–42

Hass, Aaron,
189
,
190
,
192

Hatch, Orrin,
31
,
136

Hebrew Union College,
139

Hedâyat, Sâdeq,
91

Heder, Jon,
33

Heller, Joseph,
152

Hemingway, Ernest,
162
,
163

Henry V, King,
121
,
122

Heritage Foundation,
209

Hinduism,
102

Hispanic and Latino Americans,
2
,
6
,
39
,
40
,
58
,
68
–69,
79
,
87
,
100
,
194

Cuban,
see
Cuban Americans; Cuban Exiles

Cubans’ sense of distinctness from,
68
–69,
156

elite schools and,
172

self-esteem of,
112

upward mobility and,
168

Hitler, Adolf,
154

Hollywood,
54

Holmes, Oliver Wendell, Sr.,
7

Holocaust,
63
,
154

children of survivors of,
188
–93

Hosseini, Khaled,
223

Hostetler, John,
182

House at Sugar Beach, The
(Cooper),
80

House of Sand and Fog,
92

housing bubble,
217
–18

Hsieh, Tony,
48
,
127
–28

Huang, Kai,
49

Huang, Sirena,
47

Huguenots,
20
,
186

human capital,
87

humility,
181
–82

Huntsman, Jon, Jr.,
31

Huntsman, Jon, Sr.,
32

Huntsman Corporation,
5

Icahn, Carl,
52

Igbo people,
9
,
81

Iger, Robert,
51
,
54

immigrant selection,
169
,
170
–71

impulse control,
10
–11,
23
,
117
–44

America and,
142
–44,
197
,
200
,
203
–6,
208
–9,
214
–18,
221
–24

Amish and,
119
,
180
–81

Appalachia and,
177
–80

Asian Americans and,
133
,
173

Chinese Americans and,
120
,
125
–31,
132
,
142

Chinese tradition of,
220

Holocaust survivors’ children and,
189
–90

Indian Americans and,
131
,
132

Jews and,
20
,
138
–42,
197

live-in-the-moment message and,
1
,
2
,
10
,
27
,
143
–44,
204
,
205
,
207
–9,
214
,
224

marshmallow test and,
23
,
118
,
179
,
218

Mormons and,
134
–37,
186
–87

research on,
23
,
117
–19,
179

self-esteem movement and,
214

in Stoicism,
120

superiority complex and,
15
–16,
17
,
120

transference to other areas of life,
133
–34

underside of,
17
,
18
,
147
–51

India:

Hinduism in,
102

Institutes of Technology in,
170

social hierarchy in,
95
–98

Indian Americans,
7
,
9
,
14
,
45
,
47
–51,
53
,
57
–58,
95
n
–96
n

and breaking out of Triple Package,
197

caste and,
9
,
96
–97,
99
,
101

Hinduism and,
102