Authors: Evelyn R. Baldwin
After I make her get dressed
, we sit at the kitchen table for a much needed discussion.
“So, you’ve never….?” I start.
While I’m deliriously happy Emily is a virgin, I also know the pain associated with the first time for a woman, and I’m not looking forward to inflicting that. I want to give her pleasure, not pain.
“What about you?” Emily asks followed by a big gush of air. “Never mind; that’s a stupid question. Of course you have. I mean, look at you.” I open my mouth to answer her, but she doesn’t let me.
“No, tell me. I want to know. How many?”
And there lies the crux of my problem. I’m afraid to tell her, because if she knows, will she still trust me with her most precious gift?
I take a deep breath, steadying myself for Emily’s backlash at my revelation.
“One.” It’s the truth. There’s only been one, but that
isn’t simple. I am not looking at her as I say this, so I squeeze my eyes shut tightly, hoping she doesn’t hate me for what I’m about to tell her next.
“There was this girl, in high school, she was known to...” I trail off, hoping Emily gets the idea, but she just sits and stares at me. She’s going to make me spell it out. “She was known as the go-to girl for sex. I was sixteen, angry and
curious.” She’s still watching me but begins to fidget. “She would do pretty much whatever, and I took advantage of that. It was emotionless and a means to an end. She let me take my frustrations out on her, Emily. No matter how angry, depressed, or lonely I was, she let me fill the void with her—in her.” Her face scrunches, and I can see she’s getting the idea. “It wasn’t about love, or even lust, really. It was about me taking. There was no giving.” I want to drive my point home with revealing the true debauchery in which I’d participated for two years, but I don’t want Emily thinking I want her to do the depraved and experimental acts I’d once divulged in. That was a different time and a different me, but there was still an insecurity, despite my experience, I couldn’t shake. “It was all about me, okay? I wasn't there to make
“So, were you like...” I can see her trying to put all the pieces together. “You said you were angry. Were you angry...
I pause because I don’t want to lie, but I don’t want to tell the truth either. “Yes.”
“Did you hurt her?”
I take a moment so I can say this right. Hurt can mean many things, but I think Emily means physically, so that’s the
I respond to. “No. I never hurt her. It really was just sex, nothing else. I never hit her or forced her. She was always willing.”
She takes a deep breath and lets it out slowly as she continues to play with the placemat. “Did you like it?”
It’s the question I’ve been waiting for. Emily wants to know if I want it to be like that with her. “When a boy has urges, there’s little that will stop him from getting to the end. It’s like how you fold clothes. How the shirt has to hang just right on the hanger, or the pants creased perfectly. You can’t stop until everything is just right and you’re satisfied.” I can’t believe I’m comparing sex to laundry. “But as a man, it’s not about how the clothes are folded or hung. It’s about the clothes being clean and smelling good. It’s about the process, not the end result.”
Jesus Christ, this sounds stupid
“With you, Emily, I want to feel everything. I want it to be about you and me, us. It’s not about the physical result at the end.”
“Yeah, okay. I trust you, Ethan.”
“No, to the left a little bit?” Emily can’t seem to find a comfortable position.
“Uh, just give me a sec—” She winces again and I know this is painful. She tries to hide it, but I know.
Yep, complete disaster.
I never should’ve agreed to this. It’s uncomfortable for Emily, and there doesn’t seem to be a way to make it better.
“Do you want to try on top?” I’m grasping at straws. I want this to be a good experience for her.
“Are you okay?” I know she fought back tears when I finally did it. She told me to just do it and get it over with. Not my proudest moment. It’s not what any guy wants to hear:
“Just get it over with.”
“Yeah.” Her confirmation is so small.
“Emily, I’m so sorry. I—” She interrupts me with her hand over my mouth.
“Please stop, Ethan. It won’t always be like this. My mom…” her pause indicates that bringing up her mother is still hard for her. “My mom told me about sex. She said it would hurt the first few times, but she also told me that if I was with the right person it would be okay. I’m with the right man. You are right for me, Ethan. No one, and I do mean
, has ever taken better care of me than you have, and, I know that you wanted this to be perfect, and it was. Please don’t take that from me.” Emily pauses to kiss me before she finishes.
“My first time could have gone so many ways, but it didn’t. It was with someone that loves me, and who I love.”
I can’t help the sheepish smile that spreads across my lips. I decide Emily is so wise and mature and right. It was
—because it was us.
“I really like the third one we looked at.”
“I do, too, but the second one had a gym, remember?”
Emily and I sit at the dinner table looking over brochures. We spent the day looking for an apartment in a better neighborhood with more amenities and a much higher monthly payment.
I’m a little concerned about finances, but Emily assures me we will be all right. She’s getting her schooling paid for on a Pell Grant and working 25-30 hours a week, which is a big contribution. And me…well, I’m the new Assistant Manager for Ball’s Grocer. That may not be a big deal for most people, but to me it’s everything. I’ve never had a need to be in charge of anyone or anything. I just wanted to take care of myself, lay low and live one day at a time.
However, Margie just wouldn’t let it go. She promoted me to cashier and kept on me. She was always in my ear talking about providing for my family. At first, I was defensive because I didn’t have a family, but the more Margie talked, the more I realized she was right. Emily was my family, and maybe someday we could add to that. When the opportunity came up last week for an assistant manager position, Margie was there telling me to get my ass in gear and apply. She coached me through the interview process and helped me write a resume. I insisted that a
didn’t need a resume, but she wouldn’t let it go, and I’m glad she didn’t.
“So if we get the one with the gym, are you going to become one of those gym rats? Always workin’ out and flexing their muscles for the chicas?” While Emily wasn’t one to get upset about me doing stuff without her, she still had a bit of a jealous streak. She says that girls used to leave me alone because I gave off some vibe, but now that we were together, Emily insists that other women thought they now had a chance.
If they only knew
. My head hadn’t turned toward another woman since the day I met Emily and that wouldn’t change in the foreseeable future.
“Well, I was just thinking—” Emily looked down, unsure of what she was about to say. I hated it when she did that. I reached for her hand, cupping it in mine to encourage her to go on.
“I know that the gym on site is a big plus, but it’s only a one-bedroom. The other one is a two-bedroom, and it’s close to that elementary school.” She turned red, blushing furiously.
“Yeah, but what would we need a second bedroom for?” I had to admit, while not necessary, it would be good for Emily to have her own area for studying.
“Well, it would be good as an office…and maybe someday, a bedroom…"
“I guess we could use a guest room, but we never have guests, Emily, so I’m not sure what the benefit would really be.”
Yeah, I know, I’m an idiot.
“That’s not what I meant—” but she didn’t need to finish. As I flipped through the brochure, I saw a picture of a couple with a toddler. The tagline was promoting the family friendly atmosphere.
“Yeah, I think you’re right. The two-bedroom is our best bet.”
This has to be perfect. Ethan is the most amazing man, and I don’t want to disappoint him. So everything has to be flawless. Margie has been a huge help, though, and I don’t think I could have—or would have—done this without her.
Sometimes I’m so out of my element with this whole love and relationship thing. I know Ethan has more experience, but still… I want him to know how much he means to me. Margie had me over for a girl’s night where we watched what she called “chick licks.” She insisted that the surest way to be able to pull off the perfect anniversary was to see examples of
on the big screen, or a forty-two inch, anyway.
We started brainstorming and came up with a plan; a pretty good one if I do say so myself. Now I just have to make sure I don’t mess it up. So here I am, standing in the middle of our living room in a new black and pink lace lingerie set and enough lit candles that I may, in fact, set off a smoke alarm.
Of course, Ethan has seen me in much less that bra and panties, but these seem…dirty somehow. Because of the purpose for which they are intended, the pink and black lace seems obscene. I hadn’t wanted to get the “tonga” cut, but Margie insisted it was the look needed for the occasion. I’m more of a cotton brief kind of girl. All the panties we looked through were so small… and in bright lacy colors, nor did they seem practical. I really hope Ethan doesn’t expect fancy panties all the time because I cannot see the practicality of wearing this style on a daily basis. Particularly if one has to frequently bend or stoop
I glance at the clock on the wall
, which was purchased at Hobby Lobby, thank you very much
, and know that Ethan will walk through the front door at any moment. I shouldn’t be this nervous, but we have grown so much together in the last year, both in heart and mind. I know without a doubt I will be with this man forever, and I want to experience every last thing imaginable with him.
When I hear the key in the door, I close my eyes and take a deep breath. Within seconds of the door opening and closing, I hear a loud gasp followed by, “Holy shhiiittt.” Ethan is in front of me, hands exploring my backside after only a few seconds. I wonder if he sprinted, even though the distance from the door is only a few steps. It makes me relax, realizing he appreciates my
a great deal.
“Baby, you smell so good,” he whispers. His lips-- then teeth skim my neck and shoulder. The contrast in sensation takes my breath away.
“Fuck. What did I do to deserve all this? And you?”
I’m frozen for a second because I think he’s forgotten what today is. He thinks this is just a random tryst. And while we are extraordinarily honest with each other, I can’t bring myself to tell him what
is really about. A pang shoots from my heart down into my stomach.
“Whoa, whoa…” Ethan pulls away and looks at me. I try to smile, but it’s wholly unsuccessful. It makes my throat tighten more, and I need an escape to the bathroom to shed unwanted tears. This isn’t how it’s supposed to go! He’s supposed to see me, sweep me off my feet, pledge undying devotion, and make love to me for hours.
Damn you, Hollywood! You’re a liar.
“Emily, what’s wrong? What did I say?” He turns away from me at the moment my lips quivers. He’s fisting his hair, mumbling to himself. Even though I still have on a bra, panties, and stupid black heels Margie insisted made the look perfect, I’ve never felt more exposed. I want to sink into the carpet, wishing the last half hour hadn’t ever happened.
Stupid, Emily…why do you always have to do something different or fancy? Why not just make fried chicken for dinner and get him a nice card
, I argue with myself.
“Shit! Why did I have to say something stupid on our anniversary? I try, Emily. I want to be good for you, I do. I just can’t get it right, ya know? God, please say something.”
stupid on our anniversary
“You know it’s our anniversary?” I could have heard incorrectly.
“Well, yeah. How could I forget our anniversary? I can’t forget a thing about you, Emily.” He starts to walk toward the couch and grabs my hand, pulling me behind him. He flops down then pulls me into his lap. His thumb graces the outer edges of my smile.
He didn’t forget
“I remember that you hate high heels.” His hand ghosts down my leg and then draws my leg up. He grasps my spiked heel and slips it off my foot. He tosses the shoe to the floor before he begins to rub my toes.