Why We Love (31 page)

18. It does not bother me too much when ___ is having a bad day.

19. If______ is unavailable, I like to go out on romantic dates with other men/women.

20. The person that I am infatuated with is the center of my life.

21. When I am strongly attracted to someone, I interpret their actions, looking for clues about their feelings toward me.

22. Sometimes my feelings for ________ are overshadowed by passionate romantic feelings for another person.

23. I will never forget our first kiss.

24. When I’m in class/at work my mind wanders to______.

25. The best thing about love is sex.

26. I never give up loving ______, even when things are going poorly.

27. I often wonder whether _____ is as passionate about me as I am about him/her.

28. Sometimes I search for alternative meanings to______’s words and gestures.

29. Sometimes I feel awkward, shy, and inhibited when I am around______.

30. I deeply hope______ is as attracted to me as I am to him/her.

31. I eat more when I am infatuated.