Read You Are a Medium: Discover Your Natural Abilities to Communicate With the Other Side Online
Authors: Sherrie Dillard
Tags: #General, #Body; Mind & Spirit, #Parapsychology
tions to the planet. In such diverse areas as the environment, politics, poverty, hunger and economic abundance and equality, they
silently guide and send positive energy where they can have influ-
ence. I have also talked to souls on the other side who share their specific knowledge and interests with other souls, helping them to
evolve and grow. Whatever those on the other side are involved in,
they share and give because it feels so good to do so. Like our oxy-gen, love is everywhere in the spirit realm and the heart is the center of our being. When we selflessly give we thrive.
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The Mechanics
The following story is a common one. Most of us know of someone
who has suddenly and without warning died from a heart attack.
The family and friends of those who pass in this way are usually
shocked. Looking back on the events that led up to their loved ones passing, they try to discover clues or warnings that they may have
missed. Along with their grief and mourning, many also feel a sense of insecurity and fear in the randomness of life. Although many
heart attacks appear to be unpredictable and sudden, they often
occur after a lifelong or prolonged period of repression of the heart and spirit. Although there are many significant dietary and life style choices that contribute to the hearts sudden failure, the ability to express and give and share love is often a core factor.
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Unlike many of my clients, when Brian contacted me for a read-
ing, he was most interested in connecting to his spirit guides. He
did not elaborate on why this was important or what he was hop-
ing to learn. Yet, just knowing that this was his interest told me that his spiritual life was important to him. The morning of our session Brian came into my office with a broad smile and warmly shook
my hand. Many of my clients are nervous before we begin the ses-
sion. Not Brian, he seemed comfortable and excited.
I began the session with a prayer and immediately felt the pres-
ence of his father. I knew that Brian most wanted to communicate
with his spirit guides. But, sometimes loved ones can be so intent
on being heard, I cannot continue with the reading until I allow
them to communicate.
“Your father is here.” I tell Brian. “He very much wants to talk to you. Would you like to hear what he has to say?”
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“Yes, my father died when I was in college. This is a surprise.
For some reason I did not expect to hear from him. Yes, please what does he have to say?”
“I get the impression from your father that a blast or jolting
shock went through his body. Did he pass over as the result of a
heart attack? He is clutching his heart.”
“He died at his job, on a Monday morning.” Brian confirms.
“I hear the name Jim or Tim. Is this your father or someone in
your father’s family? It feels like another man might also be coming in.” I ask him.
“He has a brother Jim who is on the other side. My Dad’s name
is Curtis. They were not particularly close. I am surprised that he is here. I didn’t know him very well. “
“I have to tell you. There is someone else. I see three men. This
feels like your grandfather. I get the feeling you did not know him.
He passed over before you were born. Is this correct?
“Your right, I never knew my grandfather. He died when my fa-
ther was young. We do not have longevity of my father’s side of the family. All three of these men died of some type of cardiovascular
disease. Why are they all here?” Brian asks me with a perplexed look on his face.
“I get the impression that they are all here to thank you. I feel a lot of love and gratitude coming from them to you.” Words cannot
fully convey their feelings. I only hope that Brian can feel this too.
“Thank me for what?” Brian asks me.
With this question, I immediately begin to receive images and
impressions from Brian’s father. “I take it your father and his father worked with their hands. I see a shop or garage? It seems busy. I get the feeling of dread with this though. I am not sure that he liked his work.” I tell Brian.
“That is an understatement.” Brian interrupts me. “My father,
his father and his father before him were mechanics. My father
worked for a while in the family business, a garage. It goes way
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back. They worked on engines almost from the time that they were
invented. My father hated it though.”
“I get the impression from your father that he was a jack of all
trades. Did he sell cars too? I see him in what looks like a car lot.”
Brian quickly answers. “Yes, he sold cars for a while. Then he
went on to selling insurance. His last job was as a manager at an
auto parts store. He was always searching for the job that would
make him happy. I don’t think he ever found it through.”
“Your father is telling me that he wanted to be free. He felt that
work was a burden. He is apologizing for his complaining and now
understands that he could have been happy in any of these jobs.” I
share with Brian.
Brian breathes deeply and tells me. “That is quite a leap in
growth for him. He always said that work was killing him. He felt
burdened by the responsibly of a family. I never asked for much.
None of us did. We all felt kind of guilty for making him so miser-
able.”
“Your Uncle Jim is now coming in. I get the impression from
him that he worked in the mechanic shop too. He was a bit of a
grump, it feels like. I imagine that he was not a friendly and outgoing Uncle. Did he have a heart attack too? He is also clutching his chest. “
“Yes, also died young.” Brian shares. “I still do not understand
why he is here. I barely ever really spoke to him. Actually I was afraid of him.”
“It occurs to me.” I tell Brian. “That there are marked differ-
ences between you and most of the other members of your family.
They do not seem as if they were the happiest bunch when they
were here in the physical world. I get the impression that you are
self-aware and did not follow the family work tradition. Do you
help others? Are you in the medical field? I keep seeing you work-
ing with people on improving their health.”
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“I am a chiropractor.” Brian shares with me. “This is a sec-
ond career. I started off in computer programing. I enjoy figuring
things out, seeing patterns and finding solutions. I switched from
working with things to working with people.”
“A spirit guide of yours has just come in.” I tell Brian. “He calls himself Dr. Lin. I feel that he is guiding you as you work with your patients. He is showing me an image of you at work. He is standing
behind you. Directing and helping you in your work. He says that
you are a quick learner. I get the impression from him that he was
attracted to working with you because of your devotion and your
intuitive aptitude.”
“This is one reason I wanted a reading. I get a feeling when I
am in the clinic that there is someone with me. As I am working
on people I am beginning to see images and I am guided to certain
parts of their body. Important connections within the mind, body
and spirit that I never knew existed and I didn’t learn in school are intuitively coming to me. I am really excited by what is happening.
Is there anything else that Dr. Lin wants to share with me?” Brian
asks.
“He tells me, to tell you, not to forget the important service that you are providing for your family. He is not talking about your
family here in the physical. It is your family on the other side that he is referring to. I get the impression that this is why they are here today, your father, uncle and grandfather. You were born into the
family for a purpose. You have been healing the family patterns. I
get the impression from Dr. Lin that there is a long term history
of heart disease in some form in the family. You are helping to
heal not just the physical, but the mental, emotional and spiritual health as well. He is assisting you.” I tell Brian.
“I think I understand. I have always felt that I wanted to help
my father. He clung to his beliefs and couldn’t move forward. He
was always so unhappy and searching for the next best thing. Never
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content in what was. But, how am I helping them now?” Brian un-
derstandably asks me.
“Dr. Lin says that your father, uncle and grandfather are close
to you. Their guides and angels have sent them to you to learn.
Through you they are discovering how to grow and heal. I get
the impression that they felt that life owed them happiness. They
smoked and drank and hung out at bars, looking for a good time.
Yet, they were miserable. Your joy comes from giving to others and
helping where you can. I get the impression that this was not some-
thing that they would have considered. Working was just a way to
make money. This was their contribution to their families. They
paid the bills. But in most ways they were absent. I feel that they are learning how to open their hearts and give.” I share with Brian.
“Soon before my father’s death I remember feeling that he
would not be here very long.” Brian continues. “Even though he
was not sickly, he did not live a healthy life. He was overweight,
his diet was horrible and he liked his beer. I tried to talk to him about it. But, he laughed at me. I think he thought that I was not a
“real man”, whatever that meant. He would often tease me because
I exercised and ate a vegetarian diet … wow, the tables have turned.
Now he is learning from me. I never thought that this would hap-
pen.”
As Brian is talking I feel his father’s presence begin to commu-
nicate with me again. “Your father wants you to know that he re-
spects you and he likes the person that you are. He is showing me
a Buddha statue and what looks like a meditation pillow. I get the
impression that you meditate. This may sound hard to believe but
your father says that he is meditating with you. His heart is open-
ing. I feel so much love coming from him to you.”
Brian laughs and tells me. “Your right, the image of my tough
beer drinking father meditating is almost too hard to believe.
Please, tell him that I love him.
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“Your father thanks you.” I share with Brian. “He says that he
lived his life as your father with a closed heart. No wonder he had a heart attack. His spirit couldn’t take it anymore. He had to learn how to feel and express love. He couldn’t do it here. But he wants
you to know he can now.”
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7
Suicide and Transformation
to New Ways of Being
One of the most common reasons that people come to me for
readings is to communicate with loved ones who have com-
mitted suicide. For people who have lost loved ones in this way,
the journey to healing can be long and difficult. The decision to
end one’s life, very rarely if ever, makes rational sense to those who are left behind. They almost always feel guilty and believe that they could have done something to prevent this tragedy. Life is never
the same after a loved one’s suicide. Those left behind in the physical realm can experience confusion, anguish, unrelenting grief and
senseless loss. It can take a long time to fully heal and accept the heart-rending passing.
I have communicated with hundreds of spirit people on the
other side who took their own lives. Their earthly family and
friends come to me in part in the hope that I can shed some light
on their decision to end their life. My clients sit in rapt attention in my office, wanting to hear from their loved one and know that
they are finally at peace. Even though they desire to understand and know why their loved ones left the earth in this way, once revealed, the reasons never seem justified. The problems, stresses, depression
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and suffering that led to their loved one’s decision to leave the earth in this way never makes sense.
Transformation
The impulse to end one’s life is a confused response to the cry of
a soul in crisis. From the depths of one’s being the soul sends a
wake-up call to the conscious self. Serious and profound change