Communication is imperative to ensuring your maximum pleasure, whether that means asking her to tweak your nipples or shouting, “Cramp!”
Use any of the free hands to provide the stimulation you both need. You must let your partner know when it is time to switch to another position in the book so neither of you becomes too tired or worn out to continue.
Also, if he feels too much strain on his legs, she can drop one of her feet to the floor to form a tripod. This reduces the amount of weight he’s bearing and allows the stimulation to continue.
POSITION 2:
Transition
When you determine that it is time to change positions—she may want a different kind of stimulation, or he may be ready to donate his legs to science—then you’re ready to shift to the Maypole.
Even if your natural inclination is to lean back from him to dismount, it is best for the center of gravity to lean toward him.
As she leans into you, walk your feet back to the wall against which your back rests.
As his feet move beneath him, communicate to him that you are going to lean back.
On her signal, as she leans back (her legs still not touching the ground), stand up, pull her into you, and reestablish your center of gravity.
“Though some may choose to view the position as man supporting woman, I see it as a balancing act, a give-and-take—a perfect portrayal of a symbiotic relationship at work.”
POSITION 2
POSITION 3:
The Maypole
One of the rawest and wildest sexual positions in this book, the Maypole tips its hat to the easier positions that came before. This is no sexual maneuver for a heavyweight—literally. Besides being one of several “Look, Ma, no feet!” positions, it is both exhilarating—she is hanging over the ground—and symbolic.
With him leaning against the wall and almost in a standing position, wrap your legs around him. Lean back, tightening your vaginal grip on his penis.
With your hands beneath her buttocks, lift her up and down on your penis. It is important for maintaining your energy that your legs remain slightly bent at all times.
If you hold her tight against you, her mound and her clitoris will rub against your pubic bone; this is significant because she will need to keep her hands on your arms, back, or waist to gird herself.
For even deeper penetration, you can assume a lower squat position and, with your arms still around her back or under her glutes, lean forward so that her body is almost parallel to the ground.
