adjust to someone else's. To make matters worse, this often creates added tension within the marriage, and the couple ends up fighting with rather than supporting each other. There is not much guidance readily available for how to work out these conflicts. That is where dreams and visions can be invaluable in creating new possibilities with in-laws. One couple, Jennifer and Mitchell, who have been happily married for twenty years, had been arguing about his parents ever since they met. They were having little success changing the situation, as reflected in Jennifer's dream, which alerted both of them to the seriousness of the matter.
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| | We arrive at the house where Mitch grew up. We go in the house, which is crowded with people. More and more people are arriving. There are children and toys all over. I go from room to room, tripping over balls, dolls, and teddy bears. Everyone is laughing and talking so loudly that the sound has become one big roar. My head hurts, and I feel dizzy and exhausted. I lie down on the couch and place my hand, palm up, on my forehead, looking like a Southern belle having a fainting spell. Mitch sees me and asks if I am all right. I say, "Yes, but I have to rest now," and I proceed to go to sleep.
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The visit Mitchell and Jennifer made to his parents in Georgia shortly after this dream closely resembled what took place in the dream story. The memory came back to Jennifer when it came time to plan the next trip there. She shared her memory and the dream with Mitchell, and they decided to heed the warning this time and create a visioning dream for their visit. The vision they wrote out and took with them goes as follows: "We are soul mates on vacation in Georgia, being ourselves, taking care of each other, having a great time, creating a
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