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Authors: Tristan Taormino

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Table of Contents

 

Praise

Title Page

Introduction

 

Skills and Techniques

CHAPTER 1 - “S IS FOR…”: THE TERMS, PRINCIPLES, AND PLEASURES OF KINK

TERMINOLOGY AND LINGO
EROTIC ROLE PLAY
PRINCIPLES
Endnotes

CHAPTER 2 - MAKING AN IMPACT: SPANKING, CANING, AND FLOGGING

SPANKING
CANES FOR PAIN AND PLEASURE
FLOGGING

CHAPTER 3 - HOW TO TRAIN YOUR SEX SLAVE

NEGOTIATING WHAT, WHEN, WHERE, WHY
EXERCISES AND ASSIGNMENTS
REWARD AND PUNISHMENT
BEING CREATIVE
TESTING

CHAPTER 4 - WHOLE HAND SEX: VAGINAL FISTING AND BDSM

PHYSIOLOGY
COMMUNICATION AND EXPECTATIONS
PREPARATION
TIPS AND TECHNIQUES
FOR THE BOTTOM
AFTERCARE

CHAPTER 5 - BONDAGE FOR SEX

THE PLEASURES OF BONDAGE
BONDAGE BASICS
TOOLS: DIY FUN AROUND THE HOME
TOOLS: LEATHER AND METAL
ROPE BONDAGE
TYPES OF BONDAGE
RISKS AND REALITIES
WHAT TO AVOID
OTHER BONDAGE BLOOPERS

CHAPTER 6 - A LITTLE COCK AND BALL PLAY

COMMUNICATION
ROPE BONDAGE
SENSATION IMPLEMENTS
BANDAGE BONDAGE
CLIPS, CLAMPS, AND OTHER THINGS THAT PINCH

CHAPTER 7 - KINKY TWISTED TANTRA

WHAT IS TANTRA?
TANTRIC SEX TECHNIQUES
EXERCISE: PLAYING WITH POWER
CONSCIOUS SEX
THE TAO OF PAIN
EXERCISE: PLAYING WITH PAIN

CHAPTER 8 - PIERCING SCENES

PIERCING SUPPLIES
HOW TO PIERCE
OTHER CONSIDERATIONS
HOW THE BODY REACTS TO PIERCING
THE RISKS
HIV/AIDS
NEEDLE WORK AFTERCARE
PIERCING IN A SCENE

CHAPTER 9 - BRUTAL AFFECTION: PLAYING WITH ROUGH SEX

CLAIMING YOUR DESIRES
COMMUNICATION AND NEGOTIATION
ROLES, CHANGE, AND CONFIDENCE
ACTIVITIES, IDEAS, AND TECHNIQUES
BRUTAL AFFECTION AFTERCARE
YOU’RE A GREAT LOVER. NOW GET BETTER.
Endnotes

CHAPTER 10 - BUTTHOLE BLISS: THE INS AND OUTS OF ANAL FISTING

PREPARATION
JOURNEY TO BLISS
AFTERCARE AND SAFETY

 

Fantasies and Philosophies

CHAPTER 11 - STOP, DROP, AND ROLE! EROTIC ROLE PLAYING

SIMPLE “WHAT IF…?”
FLASHBACKS
YOU’RE SUCH A CHARACTER!
DRAWING THE LINE
“I WANNA DO BAD THINGS TO YOU.” NEGOTIATE THIS!
“PSST… WHAT ARE YOU WEARING?” DRESS FOR SUCCESS
INCORPORATING THOSE PESKY REAL-LIFE CONCERNS
WHAT HAPPENS NOW? AFTERCARE AND REENTRY
Endnotes

CHAPTER 12 - A ROMP ON THE WILD SIDE: EROTIC HUMAN ANIMAL ROLE PLAYING

THE CALL OF THE WILD
CHOOSE YOUR ANIMAL
INTERACTIONS
ACTIVITIES
CARE AND FEEDING

CHAPTER 13 - FORTEFEMME: THE ART AND PHILOSOPHY OF FEMININE DOMINANCE

HOW TO FIND YOUR POWER SOURCE: THE ARCHETYPE
WHAT REALLY TURNS ON A SUBMISSIVE PARTNER
THE GOOD DOMINANT
A FEW PRACTICAL TIPS FOR A SCENE

CHAPTER 14 - SUBMISSIVE: A PERSONAL MANIFESTO

CHAPTER 15 - ENHANCING MASOCHISM: HOW TO EXPAND LIMITS AND INCREASE DESIRE

SOME DEFINITIONS
AN ALTERNATIVE VIEW OF MASOCHISM
WHO’S THERE?
SET AND SETTING
CONSENSUAL NONCONSENT
NO-FAULT PLAY
ENOUGH, ALREADY!

CHAPTER 16 - INSIDE THE MIND OF A SADIST

DOMINANT, TOP, OR SADIST?
A BRIEF HISTORY OF SADISM
WHAT’S PAIN GOT TO DO WITH IT?
SADISM AND CONSENT
AFTERCARE/AFTERMATH
Endnotes

CHAPTER 17 - AGE ROLE PLAY

SQUARE ONE
CHOOSING YOUR AGE
GENDER AND SEXUAL ORIENTATION
POWER DYNAMIC
RELATIONSHIP AND CONNECTION
PUBLIC/PRIVATE
FREQUENCY
PROPS, COSTUMES, SCENE ELEMENTS
NEGOTIATION

CHAPTER 18 - DIGGING IN THE DIRT: THE LURE OF TABOO ROLE PLAY

INTENT AND CONSENT
WHY GO THERE?
SELF-EXPLORATION
AFTERCARE
PLAYING WITH HATE
Endnotes

CHAPTER 19 - THE DARK SIDE

GLOSSARY OF TERMS
ABOUT THE DARK LORD
NEXT
Endnotes

CHAPTER 20 - MINDFUCK (C’MON, DOES IT NEED ANY OTHER TITLE?)

WHAT THE FUCK?
WHY THE FUCK?
THE 3 F’N MFS
FUCKIN’ RULES
THE FUCKING SAFETY VALVE
SOME FUCKING METHODS
THE FUCKING DYNAMIC
FUCKING: BEFORE, DURING, AFTER
HANDLING DANGER
FUCKING QUESTIONS
FUCK YOU
Endnotes

 

RESOURCE GUIDE

ABOUT THE CONTRIBUTORS

ABOUT THE ILLUSTRATOR

ABOUT THE EDITOR

Copyright Page

Advance Praise for
The Ultimate Guide to Kink

“So many of the people who write me at ‘Savage Love’ are curious about kink—some days it accounts for half the mail—but they don’t know where to start. I’m going to be recommending this collection of essays. This is more than just a guide to kink, it’s more than a sex manual. Editor Tristan Taormino has brought the players, thinkers, and rock stars of the kink scene and together they have created a book that not only lets people know where to start, but why to start, and what they’ll get out of it. Vanillas, novices, old hands, old guard—everyone can learn from this collection.”

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