The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy (31 page)

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For Yourself: The Fulfillment of Female Sexuality.
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The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus.
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The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio.
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Daniels, Michael.
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Dodson, Betty, Ph.D.
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Sex For One: The Joy of Selfloving.
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The New Topping Book.
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Easton, Dossie, and Catherine A. Liszt.
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Gach, Michael Reed, Ph.D.
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Gates, Katherine.
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Haberman, Hardy.
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Haines, Staci.
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Hart, Mikaya.
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Hopkins, Martha, and Randall Lockridge.
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Joannides, Paul.
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Kelly, Siobahn.
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Loreli, Mistress.
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The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance.
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How to Be a Great Lover: Girlfriend-to-Girlfriend Time-Tested Techniques That Will Blow His Mind.
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365 Days of Sensational Sex: Tantalizing Tips and Techniques to Keep the Fires Burning All Year Long.
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Sonntag, Linda.
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Stubbs, Kenneth Ray, Ph.D.
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Male Erotic Massage.
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Taormino, Tristan.
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Taylor, Mary.
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Varrin, Claudia.
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Vera, Veronica.
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Miss Vera's Finishing School for Boys Who Want to be Girls.
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Wiseman, Jay.
The Erotic Bondage Handbook.
Emeryville, Calif.: Greenery Press, 2000.

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S/M 101: A Realistic Introduction.
Emeryville, Calif.: Greenery Press, 1998.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

VIOLET BLUE (
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, @violetblue) is an award-winning author and editor, CNET reporter, CBSi/ZDNet blogger and columnist, a high-profile tech personality, and one of
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Blue was the notorious sex columnist for the
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