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Authors: Lainie Speiser
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True Story: Tammy and the Married Couple
Although not a big city model or actress, Tammy is no dowdy hausfrau either. Slim but curvy, with a mouth-watering waist-to-hip ratio, a huge smile of pearly white teeth, and a healthy glow to her skin, she is a Midwestern cutie living in Minnesota with two cats and a sweet husband. She’s as normal and as All-American as they come, except for one thing: Tammy has had sex with other married couples. But that was before she herself got married.
“Its funny that I haven’t had a three-way with my husband,” Tammy says. “I’m sure it’s something we will do further down the road. We’ve talked about it, but it’s not at the top of the list. I guess it’s because once you do this, you can’t take it back.” But Tammy’s very first ménage à trois was with a married couple, swingers whom she met through a mutual friend.
Tammy had always been bisexual in her heart, but was never brave enough to pursue it. She was hung up on conventions and wondered whether she might be a lesbian. The wife of the couple Tammy first had a three-way with was a friend of Tammy’s girlfriend, and through talking, they discovered that they had more in common than they ever hoped to have. One was a woman who wanted to make love with another woman, and the other was a woman who enjoyed making love to other women when her husband was watching.
“Her husband was definitely a good-looking guy, but I was mainly there for her,” Tammy admits. “She’s the one who asked me out, and I was much more attracted to her than to him.”
A total novice to the scene, Tammy didn’t know what to expect, and the couple must have been sensitive to her nerves and reservations, because the three went out a few times without doing anything at all.
“We just had a beer, hung out, and discussed ground rules, though there really weren’t any. She was fine with her husband doing anything with me, and I had a green light for everything too. And once we were familiar, they were just plain about it and asked me, so when would you like this to happen?” As soon as possible, thought Tammy, whose mouth watered over at thought of taking her very first breast into her mouth and licking her first engorged clit. She came over to their house soon after, they had some drinks but didn’t get drunk, enjoyed some benign chatter, and then got to it.
The wife suggested that a good ice-breaker would be for she and Tammy to enjoy a shower together while her hubby watched. “He let her take the lead and let us go for it. He just watched while we kissed and fooled around in the shower.” The hot water and the sliding soapy sudsing of each other definitely were a great beginning for Tammy, as she rubbed her taut body up and down against the wife’s, enjoying her soft lips and tongue and feeling herself get very wet, very quickly. The couple toweled off their pretty guest and brought her into their bedroom.
“It was a great experience,” Tammy says. “I didn’t feel weird about it at all, and I might have gotten more into it than they expected. They were wonderful. They knew how to please each other. But definitely my main reason for doing it was because I wanted to be with her. Her husband was just a bonus.” A bonus Tammy did appreciate. She remembers eating out his wife while being screwed from behind as one of the most amazing sensations she has ever experienced.
“Every sense is being taken care of, everyone was involved,” she says. “The goal of being with a couple is to keep everyone satisfied in the mix.”
Tammy has also had threesomes with girlfriends picking up men at parties or bars, and they have joked that the lucky guy in question was their “stand-in penis.” Tammy says having threesomes is fun because of the exhilarating feeling of being able to call all the shots. “I mean what’s the guy going to say? He knows he should just shut up and be happy to be there at all!
A three-way is a dance in which you should let the couple or the woman lead. All couples are unique, so let them make the first moves, and in a short time you will get the gist of their rhythm and their games so you can catch on and play along.
When you return from freshening up in the bathroom, you might walk in on the two of them sitting on the couch kissing and fondling each other. Don’t take this as a sign that you should hang back but sit down next to them and say, “That looks pretty good, mind if I cut in?” Sit on the outside, putting the other woman in the middle and start fondling and kissing her, too. While you are working on her, reach over and put your hand on his lap and see where that goes. If she takes your hand and puts it on his crotch, then it’s perfectly acceptable to start touching and working on his dick.
They could have a relationship where he is in charge and he will tell you to touch his wife or girlfriend. When you do, say to her, “You’ve got beautiful breasts. Could we both suck your nipples together?” Or again, they might say that to you. It’s sort of a game of “Mother, May I?” in the beginning, but once things get rolling, you should feel comfortable doing what comes naturally.
They may be looking at you as this tasty treat for them both to devour, they both like women and they like to enjoy them together. Lay back and let them work you over as they both suck on your nipples. As they spoil you, touch them both at the same time—you’re here to enjoy what it’s like to be with both a man and a woman, so reaching down and fingering her while stroking him is a great way to go. Show them that you’re there for the both of them. Have him squat over you and suck him while he’s facing his partner who is going down on you. He’ll love watching her go down on you while you take his load in your mouth.
Or the two of you can work over his lady, both of you sucking her tits and rubbing her clit. While he pumps her doggy style, have her head buried deep in your pussy, and when she’s kneeled in front of her man sucking him off, hold her from behind, pulling her hair out of her face and kissing her neck. Or while she is deep-throating him, lay down beneath her and go down on her while fingering yourself.
Tip
Too Many Rules?
Here’s the thing, you could structure your threesome very rigidly—you fuck me, then you fuck her, then she can blow you, then you can go down on me, but she can’t touch me, and I don’t want to touch her, etc. This is all well and good—after all, it is about comfort zones—but do try to abandon yourself to sexual chaos at least a little, and just let what feels good feel good!
If he goes for penetration, have her squat over your face so he can watch you eat her out and hopefully you can all come at around the same time. You can get really raunchy and stand her up while he licks her pussy and you lick her ass, both of you working a finger on each side of her until she comes or until you get her opened and ready for anal sex. In that case, while he pumps her ass, you can keep finger-banging her, licking her clit, or she can go down on you while he’s working her ass.
Sit down against her and play with her tits while he goes down on her or pumps her. And you can do the same with him sitting up and you sitting on his cock in backward cowgirl position, facing her while she plays with your gyrating body. Or she may, in turn, straddle you while you are banging him this way and you are both bouncing and bucking against each other as she takes turns kissing him and then kissing you. And when she makes you come with her mouth, tell her to kiss her man so he can taste the pussy juice in her mouth and on her lips. This small act can be heavenly for a man; remember he’s having sex with two women, one he’s had sex with a lot and the other whom he’s never had sex with before. You’re encouraging her to kiss him shows them that you’re into the both of them together as well, which shows you play nice.
A three-way is a dance
in which you should let the couple or the woman lead. In the best instances, you all get worked up at the same speed and are satiated at the same time.
True Story: Cynthia and Sex in the City
Cynthia, an attractive and stylish New York City woman in her early thirties, works as a hostess in a restaurant and lounge, and has therefore ushered more than her fair share of tasty couples in and out of the establishment where she works. Sultry but friendly with a casual and open personality, it isn’t unusual for her to be invited to join couples for a drink when the evening is slow or her shift is over. More than once she has been seduced by a couple and more than once she has readily accepted their proposals of lust.
“One couple I met here was really great. They were a little suburban, but still very down to earth, very attractive, and kind of refreshing,” she says. “This was their big night out in the city, and they just wanted to have a good time, meet people, enjoy some good wine, and just hang out. So somehow I ended up hanging out and talking to them about, of all things, filing for bankruptcy. I was in a lot of debt at the time, and it turned out the boyfriend worked for some kind of financial company that dealt with that and he was giving me some advice.”
As Cynthia was asking questions about credit cards and so forth, she noticed how much his girlfriend, a slim and pretty brunette in her early twenties, kept smiling at her and laughing at all her jokes. She also noticed how much the boyfriend, a fit, dark-haired man in his late twenties, was being very hospitable to her, making sure her wine glass was filled and lighting her cigarettes.
They complimented Cynthia several times during the evening, and she readily returned those compliments. She especially liked it when they told her how young she looked for her age and how they were curious about her the moment she ushered them to their table.
“What can I tell you, if there’s anything I like, it’s compliments and cunnilingus,” Cynthia jokes. “So why would I turn down either?” As the lounge was closing down, the young couple told Cynthia that they had booked a room at the W Hotel that night and would she care to join them for a nightcap in their room? The nightcap turned into another bottle of wine and several hours of ecstasy.
Cynthia does not consider herself to be bisexual by any means. For her it was about having two very sweet and attractive people fawning all over her. “I thought he was a hot guy. I was curious to see his body, and I wondered if he had a big cock, which he did, by the way. But I didn’t initiate anything with him without her say-so, and it wasn’t with words, just by following them and watching carefully.”
Back in the hotel room, the boyfriend asked Cynthia if she thought his lady had a nice body, to which she said yes and offered that he did, too. She started teasing him and telling him he was built like a Chippendale’s dancer and, along with his girlfriend, started egging him to do a strip tease, which eventually led to his girlfriend doing one, too, as a sort of tit for tat.
“I was entertaining both of them because I knew in turn they would entertain me where it counted,” Cynthia says. “I knew they were kind of waiting for me to make the first move, so I just kind of walked up to them and started touching their chests both at the same time.”
And that seemed to be all she needed to do. The three of them began to fondle and kiss each other, then the couple stopped and the girlfriend giggled and said it wasn’t fair that Cynthia was still fully dressed when they were not, which made Cynthia dare them both to undress her.
“It was so much fun. It was hot and very mutually satisfying. I didn’t fuck her boyfriend, but I did suck his cock while she was touching me all over. I don’t think she had much experience with girls,
which was fine because really neither have I, so it was kind of nice that we were both experimenting and playing around. I told him he should fuck his girlfriend with my spit all over his cock and that really made them both crazy. They liked that so they did that while I was shoving my tits in her face and she sucked them while her boyfriend was fucking her, and I got off fingering myself while she was doing that. All around it was very, very good.”After the couple finished having sex, they had Cynthia lay down on the bed between them and decided to reward her for good behavior. Although again, the boyfriend did not have intercourse with her, they both touched her all over, licked her breasts, and the boyfriend guided his girlfriend’s finger into Cynthia’s very wet pussy.
“It was sweet actually. She didn’t really know what to do, and he was all, ‘Baby look at her sweet pussy. Don’t you want to touch it? Let me show you how to get her off.’ He actually didn’t need to show her—she figured it out quickly, I mean she plays with her own pussy right? I moved his hand away because he was actually not doing as good a job as she could do on her own. I came really hard on her, and she was proud of herself.”