Read Woman Thou Art Loosed! 20th Anniversary Expanded Edition Online
Authors: T. D. Jakes
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Are your words crippling you or loosing you? Take the time today to think about each thing you say—no matter who you talk to. What are you saying as you converse with your co-workers? Your friends? Your children? Your spouse? Correct whatever comes from your mouth that does not reflect your position as a child of the heavenly Father. Begin to speak deliverance and power.
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Attitudes affect the way we live our lives. A good attitude can bring success. A poor attitude can bring destruction. An attitude results from perspective. I’m sure you understand what perspective is. Everyone seems to have a different perspective. It comes from the way we look at life, and the way we look at life is often determined by our history.
The events of the past can cause us to have an outlook or perspective on life that is less than God’s perspective. The little girl who was abused learns to defend herself by not trusting men. This attitude of defensiveness often stretches into adulthood. If we have protected ourselves a certain way in the past with some measure of success, then it is natural to continue that pattern throughout life. Unfortunately, we often need to learn how to look past our perspective and change our attitudes.
The infirm woman whom Jesus healed was made completely well by His touch. She couldn’t help herself no matter how hard she tried, but Jesus unleashed her. He lifted a heavy burden from her shoulders and set her free.
Today, many of us have things we need to be separated from or burdens we need lifted. We will not function effectively until those things are lifted off of us. We can function to a certain point under a load, but we can’t function as effectively as we would if the thing was lifted off of us. Perhaps some of you right now have things that are burdening you down.
You need to commend yourselves for having the strength to function under pressure. Unfortunately, we often bear the weight of it alone, since we don’t feel free to tell anyone about our struggles. So whatever strides you have made, be they large or small, you have made them against the current.
It is God’s intention that we be set free from the loads we carry. Many people live in codependent relationships. Others are anesthetized to their problems because they have had them so long. Perhaps you have become so accustomed to having a problem that even when you get a chance to be delivered, you find it hard to let it go. Problems can become like a security blanket.
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roblems can become like a security blanket.
Jesus took away this woman’s excuse. He said, “Woman, thou art loosed from thine infirmity.” The moment He said that, it required something of her that she hadn’t had to deal with before. For 18 years she could excuse herself because she was handicapped. The moment He told her the problem was gone, she had no excuse.
Before you get out of trouble, you need to straighten out your attitude. Until your attitude is corrected, you can’t be corrected.
Why should we put up all the ramps and rails for the handicapped if we can heal them? You want everyone to make an allowance for your problem, but your problem needs to make an allowance for God and to humble itself to the point where you don’t need special help. I’m not referring to physical handicaps; I’m addressing the emotional baggage that keeps us from total health. You cannot expect the whole human race to move over because you had a bad childhood. They will not do it. So you will end up in depression and frustration, and even confusion. You may have trouble with relationships because people don’t accommodate your hang-up.
One woman I pastored was extremely obnoxious. It troubled me deeply, so I took the matter to God in prayer. The Lord allowed me to meet her husband. When I saw how nasty he talked to her, I understood why, when she reached down into her reservoir, all she had was hostility. That’s all she had taken in. You cannot give out something that you haven’t taken in.
Christ wants to separate you from the source of your bitterness until it no longer gives you the kind of attitude that makes you a carrier of pain. Your attitude affects your situation—your attitude, not other people’s attitude about you. Your attitude will give you life or death.
One of the greatest deliverances people can ever experience in life is to have their attitude delivered. It doesn’t do you any good to be delivered financially if your attitude doesn’t change. I can give you five thousand dollars, but if your attitude, your mental perspective, doesn’t change, you will be broke in a week because you’ll lose it again. The problem is not how much you have, it’s what you do with what you have. If you can change your attitude, you might have only 50 dollars, but you’ll take that 50 and learn how to get 5 million.
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ne of the greatest deliverances is to have your attitude delivered.
When God comes to heal, He wants to heal your emotions also. Sometimes all we pray about is our situation. We bring God our shopping list of desires. Fixing circumstances is like applying a Band-Aid, though. Healing attitudes set people free to receive wholeness.
The woman who was crippled for 18 years was delivered from her infirmity. The Bible says she was made straight and glorified God. She got a new attitude. However, the enemy still tried to defeat her by using the people around her. He does not want to let you find health and strength. He may send another circumstance that will pull you down in the same way if you don’t change your attitude.
When you first read about this woman, you might have thought that the greatest deliverance was her physical deliverance. I want to point out another deliverance that was even greater. The Bible said that when the Lord laid His hand on her, she was made straight. That’s physical deliverance. Then her attitude changed. She entered into praise and thanksgiving and worshiped the Lord. This woman began to leap and rejoice and magnify God and shout the victory like anybody who has been delivered from an 18-year infirmity should. While she was glorifying God over here, the enemy was stirring up strife over there. She just kept on glorifying God. She didn’t stop praising God to answer the accusers.
The Lord is your defense. You do not have to defend yourself. When God has delivered you, do not stop what you’re doing to answer your accusers. Continue to bless His name, because you do not want your attitude to become defensive. When you have been through difficult times, you cannot afford to play around with moods and attitudes. Depression and defensiveness may make you vulnerable to the devil.
This woman had to protect herself by entering into defensive praise. This was not just praise of thanksgiving, but defensive praise. Defensive praise is a strategy and a posture of war that says, “We will not allow our attitude to crumble and fall.”
When you get to the point that you quit defending yourself or attacking others, you open up a door for the Lord to fight for you.
When this woman began to bless God, she built walls around her own deliverance. She decided to keep the kind of attitude that enabled the deliverance of God to be maintained in her life. When you have been through surgery, you cannot afford to fool around with Band-Aids.
When you’re in trouble, God will reach into the mess and pull you out. However, you must be strong enough not to let people drag you back into it. Once God unleashes you, don’t let anyone trap you into some religious fight. Keep praising Him. For this woman, the more they criticized her, the more she was justified because she just stood there and kept believing God. God is trying to get you to a place of faith. He is trying to deliver you from an attitude of negatives.
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nce God unleashes you, keep praising Him.
When you have had problems for many years, you tend to expect problems. God must have healed this woman’s emotions also because she kept praising Him instead of paying attention to the quarrel of the religious folks around her. She could have easily fallen into negative thinking. Instead, she praised God.
Can you imagine what would have happened if she had stopped glorifying God and started arguing? If an argument could have gotten through her doors, this whole scene would have ended in a fight. But she was thankful and determined to express her gratitude.
The Lord wants to speak a word of faith to you. He wants to set you free from every power that has kept you in bondage. In order for that to be received in your spirit, you must allow Him to come in and instill faith. The emotional walls that surround us have to come down.
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he emotional walls that surround us have to come down.
Love is eternal. It is not limited by time. When you commit yourself to loving someone, you make that commitment to all the person is. You are who you are because of your history. For me, that means I love my wife and who she has become. But in order for me to love her effectively, she must allow me into her history.
Many couples in a relationship argue over relatively insignificant things. Often the reason these things are important is one or the other is reminded of a past event. How can one person love another if he or she doesn’t know the other person’s history?
The Church has become too narrow in its approach to attitude. We want to keep our attitudes to ourselves and simply take them to God. Although we certainly should take them to Him, we also need to learn to “
bear ye one another’s burdens
” (Gal. 6:2a).
Thousands walk in fear. The Church can give strength to counter that fear. Thousands have built a wall around themselves because they do not trust anyone else. The Church can help its members learn to trust one another. Thousands are codependent and get their value from a relationship with another person. The Church can point to God’s love as the source for self-worth. We are not valuable because we love God; we are valuable because He loves us.
Jesus took away the ability of the infirm woman to make excuses for herself and gave her the strength to maintain an attitude of gratitude and praise. The Church today is to be the kind of safe haven that does the same thing. Those who are wounded should be able to come and find strength in our praise.
Gratitude and defensive praise are contagious. Although the Bible doesn’t specifically say so, I imagine that those who saw what was going on the day Jesus healed the infirm woman were caught up in praise as well. The Church also must find room to join in praise when the broken are healed. Those who missed the great blessing that day were those who decided to argue about religion.
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ratitude and defensive praise are contagious.
The Bible describes Heaven as a place where the angels rejoice over one sinner who comes into the faith (Lk. 15:10). They rejoice because Jesus heals those who are broken. Likewise God’s people are to rejoice because the brokenhearted and emotionally wounded come to Him.
Christ unleashed power in the infirm woman that day. He healed her body and gave her the strength of character to keep a proper attitude. The woman who is broken and wounded today will find power unleashed within her too when she responds to the call and brings her wounds to the Great Physician.
An attitude results from _________________________
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How do attitudes affect your life?
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Perspective is _____________________________________
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We need to learn how to ___________________________ _________ our perspective and ______________________ our attitudes.
True or False. People are supposed to function in life under the burdens of pressure.
How can a problem be an excuse? Share a personal example.
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Before you can get out of trouble, you need to ___________
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One of the greatest deliverances people can ever experience in life is ________________________________________.
Healing attitudes set people free to receive _____________
How can you protect yourself from accusers and negativism?
What must you do to allow the Lord to fight for you?
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Love is _________________________. It is not limited by
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How does this concern marriage relationships?
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How can the Church help the wounded?
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