Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot (42 page)

Variations on Stimulation of the GSA During Oral Sex:

The above technique will most likely leave your partner shaking and breathless from an incredible G-Spot orgasm and possible female ejaculation. However I want to give you a couple of variations on the position (see figures below) and some tips that will help you keep things new and fresh for you and your partner as one of the keys to great sex is variation and keeping sex from becoming routine.

Tips and tricks that may help you when stimulating your partners G-Spot:

• In additions to the above techniques there are endless variations of combining oral stimulation and G-Spot stimulation in stages and in combination. What I am giving you are starting points and patterns that you can make your own and customize for you and your lovers own personal preferences. You want the techniques to flow and be spontaneous NOT robotic and routine.
  

• When you are in the late stage of G-spot stimulation you can take your other hand and put it on top of her lower abdomen and feel where your fingers are pushing on her G-spot on the inside. You can push down gently with your external hand using your palm. This will help to stimulate the G-spot from both sides. Don’t go to hard. See how she likes it and test the waters so to speak.
  

  

• Here is a technique that you can use if your tongue is long enough. You would do this instead of using your fingers in the above technique starting at step 13. With your tongue apply pressure to her external urethra area for a minute or two this will help to stimulate the G-spot externally. Then slide your tongue as far as you can into her vagina and put pressure on the top wall where her G-spot is. If your tongue is long enough you will be right at her G-spot. Use a very strong and forceful stroke where you are licking toward yourself or back and forth massaging the top wall of her vagina. If she is clearly enjoying this continue until she explodes in an orgasm or alternate back and forth between licking her G-spot and clitoris.
  

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Oral Anal Stimulation Combined with Manual G-Spot Stimulation

I have met very few women that don’t enjoy oral sex, and while you are down there pleasing her orally is a great time to introduce new pleasurable anal stimulation with your mouth and tongue while you are stimulating her G-spot with your fingers. If you find this idea completely distasteful then you may skip the idea of using your tongue to please your lover anally. But remember you if do please her this way and follow the precautions below you have very little risk of anything unpleasant and to go one step further you can also place a dental dam or microwave able plastic wrap a fluid barrier.

Anal Sex Precautions & Safety

Even though this book is about G-Spot Stimulation & Female Ejaculation and anal stimulation is not the scope of this book I feel it necessary to cover some basic anal health and safety guidelines since in figure 7(above) I mentioned anal stimulation and the position lends it’s self to anal play and stimulation.

I want to cover the safety rules you absolutely must follow for you and your partner to have safe and healthy anal sex. I will also mention any other precautions where applicable.

WARNING:
Oral – Anal stimulation if not done under the right conditions can have associated health risks as there are bacteria that live in the lower intestine that can cause serious infections in the upper gastrointestinal tract (i.e. your mouth, stomach, small intestine), or your partners vagina. If you intend to practice oral – anal stimulation, there are certain pre-cautions you should follow.

• You should know your partner well and know that she is in good health, and free from STDs, Hepatitis and HIV.
  

• You should only do oral - anal stimulation when your partner is fresh from the shower and/or has washed her anus and anal area thoroughly with soap and hot water. And has not had a bowel movement since she has washed.
  

• Nothing that penetrates your partner’s anus should come into contact with her mouth, your mouth or her vagina. I don’t recommend penetrating her anus with your tongue. If you do penetrate her anus with your finger, make sure that you don’t stimulate her anus orally after that point as when you remove the finger it could bring bacteria and/or feces from inside the rectum outside to the surface of the anus. Also remember which finger penetrated her so that later you can avoid bringing it into contact with her/your mouth or her vagina.
  

• If you follow these precautions you should be safe (providing that your partner is free from any and all STD’s). But remember if you do practice oral – anal stimulation you do so at your own risk.
  

  Note:
  If you would like to learn more about pleasing your partner through anal pleasure and the techniques that will drive her absolutely wild I suggest that you visit my
  

  site that is dedicated to the art of anal sex: http://www.howtohaveanalsex.com
  

  Manually Pumping the G-Spot to Produce Female Ejaculation:
  

  This technique should only be used after prolonged oral stimulation and/or intercourse and you have tried all of the other techniques above and/or she has already had several orgasms and/or has been stimulated for at least 20-30 minutes. If she is not very wet I suggest that you add a good
  water based lubricant such as Astroglide or a silicone based
  lubricant like ID millennium or Eros.
  NEVER use Vaseline as it can permit bacteria to stay in the vagina and cause an infection because it is not water soluble and is very difficult to wash out. Also if you are planning intercourse again later and are using condoms DO NOT use any oil based lubricants at all or the condom could break. Oil based lubricants such as Albolene must not be used when you are using condoms for birth control or protection from sexually transmitted diseases.
  

  Your partner should be in the position in Figure 2 on her knees. Slide your middle two fingers into your lover’s vagina palm up. If you can feel your partner’s G-Spot is very swollen and quite pronounced you can try to pump it manually using this technique to produce an ejaculation.
  

  1. Stimulate her using one of the strokes you learned earlier in the manual. The
     Come Here Stroke
     the
     Tapping the G-Spot Stroke
     and the
     Vibrating and Pulsing Strokes
     are good now that she is already warmed up from intercourse, oral or other stimulation.
     

  2. Then you want to curve your fingers so that with each stroke you are pulling your fingers along the contour of her GSA and her G-Spot from inside toward you. It’s actually like you are trying to pull her G-Spot and squeeze the liquid out of her. Be firm but not too hard you never want to cause any discomfort. Move your fingers and at the same time your arm is also pulling your hand toward you. Then you repeat. It’s like a pumping or milking motion and rhythm.
     

  3. Try different speeds. Start slowly then gradually increase the speed to a very fast or almost frantic rate of speed.
     

  4. Alternately you might part your fingers inside her and do the strokes with one finger on each side of he G-Spot.
     

  5. Continue until she ejaculates or says that she wants to stop.
     

  If for some women the technique above will not do the trick and make her ejaculate it is usually because the urethral & pariurethal sponges which is where the female ejaculate come from and is produced has not been stimulated enough. And rather than to rub her raw I suggest that you get some help from your friend the bullet vibrator it can work wonders.
  

  I recently used the
  bullet vibrator
  with the technique I am about to teach you on a young woman who had never really been multi-orgasmic and she had 3 orgasms and experienced female ejaculation the very first time we tried it!
  

  I had tried manual stimulation on her many times before and gave her many G-spot orgasms but I could never get her to ejaculate until I used the following technique. But first a little bit more about the bullet vibrator.
  

  The
  Bullet or Silver Bullet
  are small vibrators sold at sex shops or at this link here. It is a small vibrator about the side of an lipstick container to the size and shape of an egg depending on the model. The have wire that comes out of them that leads to a little box that has holds the batteries and had the power and vibration control. You want to make sure that you get the most powerful one you can buy. In fact buy two! As I will tell you what you can to with the second one that will drive her wild as an option to the technique below!
  

  Using a Vibrator Combined with Pumping the G-Spot to Produce Female Ejaculation:
  This technique can be used right after kissing and as part of foreplay. If she is not very wet I suggest that you add a good
  water based lubricant such as
  Astroglide or a silicone based lubricant like ID millennium or Eros.
  NEVER use Vaseline as it can permit bacteria to stay in the vagina and cause an infection because it is not water soluble and is very difficult to wash out. Also if you are planning intercourse again later and are using condoms DO NOT use any oil based lubricants at all or the condom could break. Oil based lubricants such as Albolene must not be used when you are using condoms for birth control or protection from sexually transmitted diseases.
  

  1. Warmed her up and get her juices flowing with lot’s of kissing, touching and heavy petting for at least 20 minutes. Go down on her and tease her pussy and anus with your mouth and tongue for a while has I have taught you in other techniques in this manual. But do not give her an orgasm yet.
     

  2. Take the
     Silver Bullet vibe
     and lube it up and turn it on to like a medium vibration. And as you are licking her slide the silver bullet all over her pussy, on the lips near the top near the bottom around the opening. Do this for 5 minutes.
     

  3. Now slide the
     Silver Bullet
     into her vagina and with your fingers and push it up to where her G-spot is, don’t hold it there just make sure that it is in the right area right behind the pubic bone close to the opening of her vagina. Set it on as high a vibration setting that she enjoys.
     

  4. Now while the vibrator is inside her, continue licking all around and teasing her. But try not to give her an orgasm yet. If she has one it is ok. Just leave the
     

     vibrator where it is and if she is multi-orgasmic she may have an other or if she is too sensitive, turn off the vibrator and wait a minute or two and then turn the vibe back on and resume. What we are trying to do is to use the vibrator to stimulate her urethral & pariurethal sponges to produce the female ejaculate.
     

  5. So continue this teasing and vibration for 5 minutes longer. Then pull the vibrator out of her vagina and give it to her and tell her to use it on her clit, while you stimulate her G-spot with your fingers manually. As you learned in the last technique.
     

  6. While you are both stimulating her she will be very close to having an orgasm and in fact may have several if she is multi orgasmic. You should be stimulating her rapidly with the pumping the G-spot technique and at the point of her orgasm withdraw your fingers very quickly. When you do this you are moving your fingers out of the way of her urethra and clearing the path so that she can ejaculate. Don’t be surprised of she ejaculates as soon as you remove your fingers. If she does not ejaculate, reinsert your fingers again and resume stimulation again and after about 30 to 60 seconds of stimulation withdraw again. Repeat this until she ejaculates or it become uncomfortable or she is too tired to continue.
     

  Note:
  Not all women ejaculate at the point of orgasm so you might also use the pumping & withdrawal technique before or after her orgasm as well to produce an ejaculation.
  

  OPTIONAL:
  Remember I told you to get two
  Silver bullets
  for an optional technique. Well here it is.
  

  Right after step #4, Lube up the 2
  nd
  vibrator use the second vibrator to massage her anus for a minute or two and then slowly slide it into her ass. Now when you remove the other vibrator from her vagina and give it to her to stimulate her own clit, she will have one vibe on her clit, your fingers stimulating her G-spot and one up her ass! She will be in ecstasy. You can also use some
  Her Turn Cream
  on her clitoris ( See the end of the supplement section for more info on Her Turn Cream)
  

  What if she does not ejaculate?
  

  There are some women who have ejaculatory orgasms all of the time even from just clitoral stimulation and then there are those women that have had it happen before but really don’t now why or how it happened and I am sure that there are some women who are not able to ejaculate or don’t want to for what ever reason and that is why your goal
  

  should not be getting your partner to ejaculate but to give her as much pleasure as you can.
  

  For most women female ejaculation is a new experience and they must learn how to ejaculate and accept the belief that they can. There are a few blocks that can stand in the way of a woman ejaculating for the first time. After the first time it will be much easier for her to ejaculate in the future and may be able to do it much more often if not every time and with other forms of stimulation as well.
  

  Some things to keep in mind:
  

  • The woman must be absolutely comfortable with you and have a strong enough emotional connection with you to share such a deeply personal and intimate experience with you. If she feels at all inhibited with you she probably will not ejaculate with you. If she has ejaculated before on her own she may fear that you will ridicule her or some how be disgusted and think she is urinating, so she may hold it back. The other consideration is that for many women the feelings are so strong when they ejaculate that they feel as though they have no control over their body as their vagina is contracting and convulsing involuntarily. They must be able to trust you completely as you guide them through this experience.
    

  • Many women before they have had an ejaculatory orgasm sometime confuse the signal of an impending ejaculation with the urge to urinate. You may be stimulating her and get her almost to the point where she is about to ejaculate when all of a sudden she says "Stop! I have to pee!" or Wants to get up and go to the bathroom. When this happens re-assure her that this is a signal of the coming ejaculatory orgasm and perfectly normal and that she does not have to pee. Also tell her to relax and just go with the feeling. Or have her push out with her muscles as you continue stimulation.
    

  • Her GSA may not have been aroused or stimulated enough. So women will respond better to G-spot stimulation after several clitoral orgasms first or after prolonged intercourse. So if you are not able to give or a G-spot or ejaculatory orgasm by using the technique outlined above during foreplay try it on a different occasion after giving her several clitoral orgasms first. But remember it is very important that you
    DO NOT
    pressure her to ejaculate. Once again your only goal should be for you to bring her as much pleasure as possible and to share that with her. If she ejaculates Great! If not it’s still Great!