Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot (45 page)

Creams & Topical Orgasm Enhancers

While these are not supplements that you take internally I felt that this would be the most appropriate place in the manual to cover them. Right now there is a surge of new externally applied topical ointments and creams that are designed to help women achieve orgasm faster and become more sensitive in their clitoral area. While these quick fixes and enhancers do have their place and can enhance pleasure and help you to achieve orgasms they are not meant to be a substitute, for strong sexual muscles, and the exercises that will teach you how to expand your sexual capacity. Rather they will complement your exercises and supplements.

How do they work?

They are cream and ointments that are designed to be places directly on and around the clitoris to enhance sensitivity. The contain many of the herbs and ingredients listed above which increase blood flow and clitoral erection as well as menthol which heightens sensitivity.

Which is the best one?

There are several brands out right and they all claim to be the female answer to Viagra, but they cost much less than Viagra. Viagra which I would not recommend to anyone male or female costs about $10 per dose and has associated health risks, where as these topical creams seem to be very safe and cost about $1 an application.

I have done some testing with:

Via Cream:
This is a multi-level product which is sold threw distributors. Some women have complained of slight irritation and burning when using it. It does enhance pleasure but it is not my first choice. It is also not that easy to find to purchase. Comes in small tubes that they say are good for several applications, but the tube is not reseal able.

Femgra:
I actually met the owner of this company at a trade show and he gave me a sample. It seemed like a good product but once again I think their marketing was poor. Hard to find and also comes a small container that has several applications is not reseal able.

Her Turn:
This one is also similar but they have taken step to prevent any burning or irratation by using a different formulation. It is the one that we liked best and it comes in a large container that IS reseal able. The reason I like reseal able products is that it prevents the cream from drying up and protects it from bacteria. It is also very easy to buy and comes in a size that has 60 applications in one tube. I recommend her turn to all of my clients. You can buy it online also by clicking the following link.

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Have an Incredible Mind Blowing Orgasm?

If the answer is yes. And I really can’t imagine it being anything other than yes. Then follow the instructions below, if you are having sex with your lover suggest that he or she do the formula as well:

1. Take 2000mg of L-Arginine in the morning.
   

2. Then 1 ½ - 2 hours before sex take another 2000-3000mg of L-arginine, 500mg of Avena Sativa, 500mg of Epimedium (Horny Goat Weed), 200-500mg of Muira Puama and 100-150mg of Damiana. Take with a snack so that the herbs do not up set your stomach.
   

3. Take 100mg of Niacin on an empty stomach 15-20 minutes before you have sex.
   

4. Optionally you can apply some
   Her Turn Cream!
   

5. And get ready for an screaming orgasm!
   

There are some commercial herbal formulas that contain the herbs above. If you find one that contains most of the formula above you could use it rather than to buy the individual herbs. I do suggest that you do buy the L-Arginine separately though.

The above formula should not be used everyday, but rather on an occasional basis so that your body does not build up a tolerance to the herbs. You can also substitute some of the herbs from time to time to keep the formula fresh. Substitute Yohimbe or Catuba for the Muria Puama. Try different combinations and see what works best for you.

Also when first using any herbs or the above herbal formula cut the amounts in half to see what type of reaction you have. If you have a positive reaction try the full amount. Basically use commonsense any time you take herbs, supplements, or medication. If one is good 2 does not mean it will be twice as good. For example Yohimbe makes many people feel nauseated and others love it! So start small and see how you feel.

I am currently developing some herbal supplement formulas of my own for both men and women and hope to have them available to purchase very soon.

Warning: Always consult your doctor and/or nutritionist before taking any of the supplements or herbs listed here!

Sexual Self-Exploration

One of the best ways for you to become more in touch with your body, your sexual ability and orgasmic capacity is through self-stimulation/masturbation. If you have never masturbated then you really are not in touch with your body sexually. You need to explore your own sexuality alone and get more in touch with your sexual abilities and learn how to push your own buttons. That way you can show your lover how to do the same for you. You will also gain greater sexual and orgasmic capacity by self- stimulation. Your sexual and orgasmic capacity is like everything else the more you practice the better you get.

Before we get into G-spot stimulation we are going to cover clitoral stimulation first as many women do not have much experience with any orgasms and will benefit greatly from this and by learning more about how to please yourself with clitoral stimulation it can only enhance your sex life expand your sexual capacity no matter what ever it is now. Also many of the women who have ejaculatory orgasms have them from clitoral stimulation alone.

Remember sex is like a muscle the more you have it the stronger your sexual ability grows. One reason for this is that the more your sexual muscles are used the stronger they get and the stronger they get, the easier it is for you to have an orgasm, multiple orgasms, female ejaculation, G-Spot orgasms.

Below are some sexual self exploration exercises that will help you to increase your orgasmic capacity and sexual awareness in your own body. If you already are multi- orgasmic and masturbate frequently you may skip ahead to the ejaculation exercises. You may still gain something from doing the exercises but they are designed for women who are just coming into awareness of becoming orgasmic or multi-orgasmic. I recommend that you do the following exercises without the herbal supplements once and then try them using the herbal supplements or the formula recommended in the last chapter.

Self Exploration and Masturbation Exercise #1: (See Figure 10)

This exercise will help you to be come more in touch with your body and sexuality. Take about 45 minutes to 1 hour to do this exercise. If you have masturbated before this will be very familiar to you if you have not you are opening your self to a new world of sexual pleasure where you are totally responsible for your own sexual pleasure and not reliant on any one else. All you need to do this is some privacy. Stay very aware of what you feel and keep all of your attention on your own body and what you are feeling do not fantasize at this point.

Optional:
I also recommend some massage oil to enhance the experience.

This experience can be enhanced even further if you do this in front of a mirror. The larger the mirror the better but a small mirror would work as well.

1. Take a hot bath or shower to relax your muscles.
   

2. Find a nice quite private space like your bedroom or a place where you will not be disturbed.
   

3. Sit down on the bed and just relax and let your self go. Have no expectation just experience and explore.
   

4. Start touching your body. Feel your body from head to toe. Start with your face then move down to your neck, (you have massage oil apply it here after your neck) chest, breasts, abdomen, inner thighs, calves, feet. Touch yourself like you would like your lover to touch you.
   

5. Try different kinds of strokes and pressures. See what feels best to you. Do this for several minutes.
   

6. Now move on to your genital area (If you have oil apply some more to your hands and rub them together) and lightly stroke your entire genital area and vulva (pussy). If you are in front of a mirror or have a small mirror you can watch your hand rubbing your pussy. It can be very erotic to watch your own hand stimulating yourself.
   

7. Stroke your inner and outer vaginal lips, play with them, pull on them and feel all of the sensations. Make mental notes of what feels good and what feels really good.
   

8. Now rub your entire vulva in a circular motion. This will indirectly stimulate your clitoris.
   

9. When you feel ready rub your clitoris through the clitoral hood. Most women do this with a circular or side to side motion with 1 to 3 fingers. Try starting with one and working your way up to three fingers.
   

10. If you are not too sensitive you can pull back your clitoral hood with your first and third finger and then very gently massage your exposed clitoris with your middle finger in very small circular or back & forth or side to side movements.
    

11. Continue the stimulation up until and all of the way through your orgasm.
    

12. At this point many women stop and assume that was it. But don’t if you are too sensitive wait 60 to 90 seconds and resume stimulation. If you are still to sensitive start over with the more indirect forms of stimulation. By not stopping you are going to learn if you are multi-orgasmic. Many women believe that being multi- orgasmic means that you can have one orgasm after another and while this is also true you are also multi-orgasmic if you can have more than one orgasm in the same sex/masturbation session. Repeat this for as many orgasms as you desire.
    

    Due this exercise for a few days and then try the following variations below.
    

    Variations on Self Exploration and Masturbation Exercise #1
    

    The goal of these variations is to learn what turns you on and what feels best to you.
    

    1. Do the exercise, but this time really use your imagination and add your fantasies.
       

    2. Try the exercise watching a porn film that really turns you on.
       

    3. Invite your lover to watch you. He/She will love it!
       

       Self Exploration and Masturbation Exercise with a Vibrator #2:
       

       This time you will use a vibrator. It can be the slim, small or compact type or one of the larger electric models like the Hitachi Magic Wand. It is best if you have a selection of vibrators to choose from, as they all will provide different experiences and sensations. Many women find that the
       Egg or Silver Bullet type of vibrators
       work very well and provide very strong vibrations.
       

       Note:
       If you do not own a vibrator you can buy the more sexual type at your local adult toy store and the more clinical type almost anywhere from stores in your local malls to your local drug store. You can also buy them online from clicking the link below. By buying online you can avoid any embarrassing looks when you make your purchase. And you might even save some money as well.
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       Take about 45 minutes to 1 hour to do this. Stay very aware of what you feel and keep all of your attention on your own body and what your are feeling do not fantasize at this point.
       

       Optional:
       I also recommend massage oil and a
       good lubricant such as Astroglide or KY
       Liquid or a silicone based lubricant like ID millennium or Eros
       which could also be used as massage oil. If you can not find any of those try one of the other fine lubricants available at your local drug store or online. This experience can be enhanced even further if you do this in front of a large mirror or even a small mirror.
       

       

       1. Take a hot bath or shower to relax your muscles.
          

       2. Find a nice quite private space like your bedroom or a place where you will not be disturbed.
          

       3. Sit down on the bed and just relax and let your self go. Have no expectation just experience and explore.
          

       4. Start touching your body. Feel your body from head to toe. Start with your face then move down to your neck, (you have massage oil apply it here after your neck) chest, breasts, abdomen, inner thighs, calves, feet. Touch your self like you would like your lover to touch you.
          

       5. Try different kinds of strokes and pressures. See what feels best to you. Do this for several minutes.
          

       6. Now move the vibrator to your genital area (If you have the lubricant apply some to your vibrator and lightly rub your entire genital area and vulva (pussy) with the vibrator.
          

       7. Rub the vibrator along your inner and outer vaginal lips, try different speeds of vibration, Make mental notes of what feels good and what feels really good.
          

       8. Now rub your entire vulva in a circular motion. This will indirectly stimulate your clitoris.
          

       9. When you feel ready put the vibrator on your clitoral hood. You can just leave it in one spot or move the vibrator back and forth or in a circular motion or side to side over your clitoral hood.
          

       10. For most women direct stimulation of the clitoris with a vibrator is too intense but if you want to try it you can pull back your clitoral hood with your first and third finger and then very gently massage your exposed clitoris with the tip of the vibrator by ether just resting the tip of the vibrator on your clitoris or by moving the tips of the vibrator in very small circular or back & forth or side to side movements. You should also make sure that you are using adequate lubricant.
           

       11. Continue the stimulation all of the way through your orgasm.
           

       12. At this point many women stop and assume that was it. But don’t if you are too sensitive wait 60 to 90 seconds and resume stimulation. If you are still to sensitive start over with the more indirect forms of stimulation. By not stopping you are going to learn if you are multi-orgasmic. Many women believe that being multi-orgasmic means that you can have one orgasm after another and while this is also true you are also multi-orgasmic if you can have more than one orgasm in the same sex/masturbation session.