Good Manners for Nice People Who Sometimes Say F*ck (36 page)

confrontation

of rude behavior

of rude cell phone use

Constitution, U.S.

conversational bullies

conversations

Hollywood Conversation

one-sided

at parties

two-sided

Cornell University

corporations

Cosmides, Leda

costly apologies

costly punishment

Coulter, Elizabeth

criticism

behavior management and

fight-or-flight response and

neighbors and

witnesses to

crowdfunding (crowdsourcing)

crying

public

to traffic cops

Csikszentmihalyi, Mihaly

customer-shaming

dairy farming

Dalai Lama

Danicki, Jackie

dating

attraction and

aversion to

bad character and

breaking up and

casual sex and

conflicting strategies in

after death of partner

ditching and

first dates

flattery and

online

paying for dates

phone manners for

rudeness in

sites for

standards and

STDs and

tactics for

technology and

trust and

unwanted attention and

widows/widowers and

DatingWithHerpes.org

de Becker, Gavin

death, of partner

Deere, John

defamation

del Rio, Dolores

delayed grief

Denny’s (restaurant)

Department of Homeland Security Department of Labor

Department of Land and Natural Resources depression

DeSteno, David

diffusion of responsibility

Digital Media Law Project

dignity

judicious kind acts and

violation of

Dignity: Its Essential Role in Resolving Conflict
(Hicks) dining out

atmosphere and

behaviors for

checks and

online reviews and

reservations and

sending back food

tipping and

Yelp and

discounted meals or drinks, tipping for disgust

disputes

dignity and

between neighbors

in workplace

distracted phone use

distracted walkers

Doctorow, Cory

“Dog Crap Booby Trap” (video)

domestic violence

D’Ovidio, Rob

Downton Abbey
(TV series) Drexel University

DriveSafe.ly (app)

driving

cell phone use and

parking and

sign language for

traffic cops and

Duane, James

Dublanica, Steve

Dufresne, Dewey

Dufresne, Wylie

Dunbar, Robin

Duncan, Bobbi

Dworski, David

Dworski, Susan

Eater National

eating out

atmosphere and

behaviors for

checks and

online reviews and

reservations and

sending back food

tipping and

Yelp and

electronic invitations

elevation

Ellis, Albert

Ellis, Bruce J.

Ellis, Noah

e-mail

boundaries for

brevity in

for business

choremail

forwards

grammar in

for ill fiends

instant responses to

mass

multiple

to neighbors

subject of

waiting period for

Emberson, Lauren

Emerson, Jim

Emmons, Robert

emotional hijacking

Emotional Intelligence
(Goleman) emotions

empathy

apologies and

children and

living meaningfully and

for neighbors

social psychology and

table manners and

employees, on Facebook

e-newsletters

escalators

euphemism

Everybody Loves Raymond
(TV series) Evites

evolutionary psychology

dating and

disgust and

emotions and

rudeness and

excuses

exposure, of rude behavior

FAA.
See
Federal Aviation Administration Facebook

employees on

friend requests on

group invitations on

“likes” on

mass-messaging on

photos on

privacy and

tagging on

unfriending and

wall on

fact statements

families, on airplanes

farting, on airplanes

favors

reciprocal altruism and

reciprocity in action and

retroactive “no” and

Federal Aviation Administration (FAA) FedEx

Ferguson, Max

Ferriss, Tim

Fessler, Daniel M. T.

fight-or-flight response

anger and

blame and

criticism and

emotional hijacking and

fight-pickers

Figueroa Hotel

First Amendment

first dates

Fishburne, Laurence

flash photography, in restaurants flash-mentoring

flattery

Flex Your Rights

Flickr

flight attendants

instructions from

mediation by

services of

treatment of

flip-flops, in restaurants

flirtation

Flora, Carlin

Flourish
(magazine) flow

Flyertalk.com

food

delivery of

sending back

sugary

forwarded e-mails

“The FourHour WorkWeek” (blog) Fowler, Geoffrey A.

France

Frankl, Viktor

free speech

Freedom of Information Act

Freud, Sigmund

Friedreich’s ataxia

Friendfluence
(Flora) friends

breaking up with

online

request management and

requests on Facebook

with serious illnesses

Fritz, Thom

Frost, Robert

Gallagher, Ryan

Gandhi, Mahatma

Garrity, Kimberly

Gelstein, Len

gender.
See
men; women generosity

with neighbors

genital herpes

genital warts

get-well cards

The Gift of Fear
(de Becker) gifts

with apologies

for neighbors

for parties

glowing screens

Gmail

Golding, William

Goleman, Daniel

good gossip

The Good Men Project
(Bowman) Goodreads

Google

Gore, Bill

GORE-TEX

Gorov, Lynda

gossip, good

Gothamist
(blog) Goulston, Mark

government

neighbors and

online privacy and

grace, applied

grammar

common mistakes of

in e-mails

Grant, Cary

gratitude

Gregor, Ian

grief

Grooming, Gossip, and the Evolution of Language
(Dunbar) group invitations, on Facebook

group sizes, in social interaction Groves, Martha

Grub Street

grudges

Gueguen, Nicolas

guilt

Guinn, Jeff

Haidt, Jonathan

Haley, Kevin J.

halfalogues

Hal’s Bar & Grill

Hammel, Sara

happiness

Hardin, Garrett

Hare Krishnas

Harvard Law Review
Harvard University

Hawaii

Hawking, Stephen

Help Me Live: 20 Things People with Cancer Want You to Know
(Hope) herpes

heuristics

Hicks, Donna

Hoffman, Martin

Hollywood Conversation

Homeland Security

homeless people

honesty, with neighbors

honesty management

bad news and

criticism and

Hope, Lori

hormones

oxytocin

stress hormones

testosterone

hot dog stands

HPV.
See
human papillomavirus HR.
See
human resources hugs