Good Manners for Nice People Who Sometimes Say F*ck (38 page)

other passengers on

services on

smells on

space on

plausible deniability

playgroups, for neighborhood kids police

community officers

LAPD

traffic cops

Polihale State Park

PooTube

Popped Culture: A Social History of Popcorn in America
PopTech

portable cameras

positive psychology

generosity and

gratitude and

happiness and

positive shaming

parking and

webslapping and

Post, Emily

Postrel, Virginia

posture

potlucks

power poses

Practical Wisdom
(Schwartz)
The Prince
(Machiavelli) privacy

on Facebook

mental

online

in relationships

reputation and

technology and

private property ownership

Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences
prying questions

psychological suffering

psychology

evolutionary

positive

social

Psychology Today
(magazine) public cell phone calls

public criticism

public crying

public figures

public smoking

public spaces

public transportation

noise pollution and

seat hogging on

sexual misconduct on

punishment, costly

quality-of-life issues

Quenqua, Douglas

rage

Randazza, Marc J.

Reason.com

reciprocal altruism

favors and

rudeness and

reciprocity in action

Red Medicine (restaurant)

Regan, Dennis

Regent University School of Law rejection, unambiguous

relationships, privacy in

remorse

reputation

dignity and

peer pressure and

privacy and

public criticism and

tipping and

requests

on Facebook

inappropriate

as insults

management of

reservations, for dining out

resilience

restaurants.
See also specific restaurants
buffet

cell phones in

children in

flash photos in

flip-flops in

glowing screens in

online reviews of

parties at

texting in

restroom attendants, tipping for retroactive “no”

Reunion.com

revenge, on neighbors

Richard, Emmanuelle

ringers, of cell phones

Rivera, Ray

The Rockford Files
RogerEbert.com

Rollabout Australia
(Fritz) romance novels

romanticism

Rozin, Paul

RSVPs, for electronic invitations rudeness

confronting

in dating

evolutionary psychology and

exposing

as human condition

of neighbors

perceived

reducing

table manners and

technology and

telephones and

webslapping and

rudenfreude

Sather, Jeanne

Saying Yes to Life in Spite of Everything: A Psychologist Experiences the Concentration Camp
(Frankl) scheming

Schmitt, David

Schneier, Bruce

Schwartz, Barry

screens, glowing

seat hogging

SeatHogs.com

security theater

Seipp, Cathy

self-justification

self-respect

Seligman, Martin

serious illnesses, friends with services

on airplanes

bad

7 Tools to Beat Addiction
(Peele) sex, casual

sexual misconduct

sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) shaming

of customers

of neighbors

positive

shared space

Shea, Ammon

shoes

flip-flops in restaurants

at parties

sign language, for driving

signage

Silverman, Steve

silverware

Simon, Mallory

The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem
(Branden) Skype

Slack, Ivan

Slate
(magazine) Smart cars

smells, on airplanes

Smith, Adam

smoking

social inequity

social interaction, group sizes in social listening

social media

social networking.
See also specific sites
social psychology

body language and

cognitive shortcuts and

compassion and

empathy and

tipping and

social skills, of children

socializing

dining out

party manners

tipping

space

on airplanes

public

shared

speech

free

indirect

Spilled Drink Test

spills, during parties

spitting

spontaneous telephone calls

stages of grief

stains, during parties

standing up for oneself

Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy
Starbucks

statements

blaming

of fact

STDs.
See
sexually transmitted diseases “Stop!… Grammar Time” (podcast) strangers

dignity and

living meaningfully and

as neighbors

public crying and

talking with

stress hormones

strippers, tipping for

The Stuff of Thought
(Pinker) subconscious behavior

sub-minimum wage

suburban sprawl

“Subway Grabber” (YouTube video) sugary foods

Sun Tzu

Swann, Greg

sweets

sympathy

synchrony

Szalavitz, Maia

table manners

table-squatters

tagging, on Facebook

takeout counter, tipping at

talking.
See also
conversations with strangers

trash talk

while chewing

Team Cathy

technology

dating and

privacy and

rudeness and

telephone manners.
See
phone manners
10 Rules for Dealing with Police
(film) Terrell, Kenneth

testosterone

texting

on dates

by pedestrians

in restaurants

thank-you notes

theory of mind

Ticket Assassin

time-out rule

tipping

for adult entertainment

for alcohol

bad service and

for baristas

at bars

at buffet restaurants

at coat check

on comped or discounted meal

for food delivery

for parking valet

reasons for

for restroom attendants

table-squatters and

at takeout counter

The Today Show
(TV program) Tooby, John

tourists

Townsend, John Marshall

Trader Joe’s

traffic cop stops

etiquette basics for

searches by

tragedy of the commons

transient society

transportation

airplanes

driving

pedestrianism

public

trash, dumping of

trash talk

treatment

for addiction

of flight attendants

Trivers, Robert

trust

Tutu, Desmond

Twitter

two-sided conversations

Tybur, Joshua M.

unambiguous rejection

underparented children

unfriending, on Facebook

unhealthy giving

University of Michigan

University of Pennsylvania

University of South Dakota

University of Texas

University of York

unregulated behavior

unwanted attention

Urban Spoon

U.S. News & World Report
Valdesolo, Piercarlo

valet, tipping for

Venice Walk Streets Neighborhood Association
(e-newsletter) verbal attacks

vibrate, cell phone ringer on

victimization

victims

of abuse

blaming of

Victoria’s Secret

Vigoda, Abe

Vohs, Kathleen

voicemail