Good Manners for Nice People Who Sometimes Say F*ck (37 page)

human papillomavirus (HPV)

human resources (HR)

humor

hurt management

Hustler
(magazine) Hutterites

hygiene

on airplanes

at dining table

“I park like an idiot” stickers
I See Rude People
(Alkon) identity, online

illnesses, friends with

imaginary boyfriends

important life events

inappropriate requests

indirect speech

bad news and

criticism and

Instagram

insults, requests as

interdependence

Internet

“Behave as You Are in Real Life” rule communities on

dating on

friends on

identity on

privacy on

restaurant reviews on

rudeness and

social networking

webslapping and

interstate highways

Invasion of the Body Snatchers
(film) invitations

electronic

on Facebook

IP addresses

iPods

Ireland

jammers, for cell phones

Jardin, Xeni

Jefferson, Thomas

Jobs, Steve

judicious kind acts

appreciation

dignity and

empathy of children and

generosity

kindsourcing

laughter

mentoring

performance reviews

social skills of children

standing up for oneself

Just Listen
(Goulston) Kalick, Rosanne

Kauai, Hawaii

Keep the Change
(Dublanica) Kickstarter

kids

on airplanes

empathy and

playgroups for

in restaurants

social skills of

kind acts

judicious

motives for

kindsourcing

Kraman, Steve S.

Kübler-Ross, Elisabeth

Kuszewski, Andrea

Langer, Ellen

LAPD.
See
Los Angeles Police Department Larson, Gary

laughter

laws

Lazare, Aaron

Lazarus, Emma

Lebowitz, Fran

lending libraries

Leonard, Elmore

Levy, Gary

Liberman, Mark

Lieberman, Debra

Life
(magazine) “likes,” on Facebook

linguistics

indirect speech and

mental state attribution and

“no problem” and

The Lion in Winter
(play) listening

Little Free Library movement

living meaningfully

compassion and

empathy and

strangers and

Long, Rob

long-distance communication

Lord of the Flies
(Golding) Los Angeles Police Department (LAPD)
Los Angeles Times
low-power poses

Lucas, Richard

Lynn, Michael

Lyubomirsky, Sonja

on generosity

on gratitude

on happiness

Machiavelli, Niccolò

Machiavellian altruism

magazines.
See also specific magazines
for men

making amends

malpractice, medical

management

of attitude

of behavior

of honesty

of hurt

of requests

Man’s Search for Meaning
(Frankl) mansitting

marriage

Marx, Karl

mass e-mail functions

mass-messaging, on Facebook

Maxim
(magazine) McCauley, Clark

McKeever, Amy

meaningful living

compassion and

empathy and

strangers and

mediation, by flight attendants medical malpractice

men

body language of

casual sex and

dating and

magazines for

paying for dates and

rejection and

tips for restroom attendants and mental privacy

mental state attribution

mentoring

flash-mentoring

“Microbes, Mating, and Morality” (Tybur and Lieberman) Middle East

Miller, Steve

Monk, Andrew

Monroe, Marilyn

Moore, Walter

moralistic aggression

Morrison, Patt

motivational interviewing

movie nights

movies, phone manners for

moving sidewalks

multisocial people

music

on airplanes

public transportation and

Mynier, Kirby

The Myths of Happiness
(Lyubomirsky) Napali Kayak

NASA

Neighborhood Watch

neighborhoods

associations

lending libraries of

parking culture of

neighborly behavior

neighbors

approaching

community and

conflicts between

criticism and

defusing

e-mails to

empathy for

fight-pickers as

generosity with

gifts for

honesty with

proximity of

revenge on

rudeness of

shaming of

strangers as

tragedy of the commons and

written notes for

neocortex

Nesse, Randolph

Nettle, Daniel

New York Post
New York Times
Newcastle University

“no”

retroactive

“no problem”

noise pollution

noise-canceling headphones

NorthEastern Evolutionary Psychology Society Northern Ireland

notes

anonymous

cruel

for neighbors

for positive shaming

thank-you

Oakley, Barbara

O’Hair, Madalyn Murray

Omnibus Driver

one-sided conversations

online behavior

online communities

online dating

ditching and

online friends

online identity

online privacy

online reviews, of restaurants

Open Table

optimism bias

The Other Side of Sadness
(Bonanno) outgoing phone message

Owen, Clive

oxytocin

parenting, permissive

Paris, France

parking

culture of

positive shaming and

parking valet, tipping for

parties

for birthdays

block

conversations at

gifts for

pets at

at restaurants

shoes and

spills and stains and

thank-you notes and

passive voice

passive-aggressive behavior

pathogens

pathological altruism

Pattinson, Robert

Pavlov, Ivan Petrovich

Peck, Virgil

pedestrians

escalators and

moving sidewalks and

smoking by

spitting by

texting by

as tourists

walkblocking by

wheelchairs and

Peele, Stanton

peer pressure

perceived rudeness

performance reviews, of self

permissive parenting

Perry, Bruce D.

Petraeus, David

pets, at parties

The Phone Book
(Shea) phone manners

call blocking

call waiting

confronting rude callers

for co-workers

for dates

distracted use and

jammers for cell phones

at movies

outgoing message

peer pressure and

public calls and

ringers and

rudeness and

shared space and

spontaneous calls

voicemail and

photos

on Facebook

in restaurants

Pinker, Steven

“pinksploitation”

Pinterest

pity

pizza delivery, tipping for

Pizza Hut

planes

armrests on

baggage and

bathroom etiquette on

cell phones on

children on

families on

farting on

flight attendants and

hygiene on

instructions on

music on