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TAMING THE BULL

Must be done from on top

If you want a little more romance mixed in with all that hedonistic humping, pour some massage oil on the center of the bottom partner’s chest and massage the area in circles. This will stir up his sentimental side (in his heart) and cause him to subconsciously associate those warm and fuzzy feelings with all that randy rubbing down below. In effect, you’re psychologically conditioning him to see sex as an extremely intimate experience. For further fireworks, move your hips in circles rather than just back and forth, which will get your genitals rubbing up against each other in a whole new array of angles you’ll both enjoy.

RIDE ’EM COWGIRL IN REVERSE

Most easily done from on top

In this twist on the classic position, the woman turns around so that she’s facing her partner’s feet. From there she can remain vertical or lean back so she’s lying on his chest before she starts gyrating. Unlike the traditional woman-on-top pose, this variation exposes the woman’s clitoris to all kinds of hands-on activities. If you’re on top, reach down (or around her body if you’re the bottom partner and you can reach) and try rubbing the flat of your finger along the clitoris, tapping the bud with a fingertip, drumming your fingers on the mons pubis, or cupping the vulva and jiggling.

THE BIG TOE BONANZA

Must be done from on top

For this technique the woman again rides her guy in reverse so she’s facing his feet. Only this time she leans forward and grabs each of his big toes before she starts moving her hips. You may recall from
chapter 4
that the big toe contains a ton of reflexology points that are linked to various parts of the body, including the pituitary gland, which is responsible for hormone production. This means that by squeezing the big toes you’re firing up a whole lot more than just his feet. If he’s loving it, consider disengaging from intercourse for a spell, scooting down, and sucking on those little piggies for extra points.

THE BIG TOE BONANZA

THE BIG TOE/BACK DOOR COMBO

Requires both partners’ participation

Doing The Big Toe Bonanza presents the bottom partner with a whole new opportunity staring him straight in the face: his partner’s butt. While the woman is moving slowly or remaining still, reach down and try spreading the cheeks apart, then together, one up one down then vice versa, or placing your thumbs to the sides of the anus and spreading them apart, then diagonally, then up and down. If she’s up for more, massage circles along the sides of the rectum or massage her G-spot through the rectum.

Doing It Doggy-Style: Handy Tricks for Extra Kicks

This highly erotic, animalistic pose can fuel some extremely hot sex. And whether the guy stationed out back is kneeling or standing on the floor, his hands are free to do all sorts of scintillating things. While typically front partners are busy propping themselves up on all fours, by leaning forward on one shoulder, they, too, can reach for an assortment of hot spots. Here are some ideas to get you both panting in pleasure.

C-SPOT RUN

Must be done from the back

This one’s simple: The guy reaches around the woman and stimulates her clitoris with his hands. When you first get going, start with something light, like rubbing the flat of your finger along her love button. Once things heat up, take the shaft of her clitoris between thumb and forefinger and stroke up and down. Once you two are on the brink of your finale, cup the entire vulva in your hand and shake. Since this trio of techniques builds in intensity, it should help keep you both on the same level arousal-wise and might even get you two reaching your peaks simultaneously.

G-SPOT RUN

Must be done from the back

If there’s room, the guy can position his hand under his penis and insert a finger into the vagina during intercourse so that he can reach her G-spot—the extra-sensitive area located along the front wall around one to three inches in. To stimulate this erogenous zone, crook your finger in a come-hither motion, which would mean you’re wiggling toward the floor. While thrusting may be compromised
a bit and may need to proceed at a slower pace, the growls of enthusiasm you may soon hear will more than make up for this small inconvenience. If you find you can’t insert a finger while your penis is inside her vagina, take a break from intercourse entirely to stimulate her G-spot before diving back in.

G-SPOT RUN

C-SPOT/G-SPOT COMBO

Can be done from the back or by both partners

For this move, the man slows down thrusting then uses
both
hands, combining G-spot Run with C-spot Run. Or, if the woman leans
down on one shoulder, she can reach back and take over C-spot duties. Either way, you’ll be doubling her fun.

THE CAN CAN

Must be done from the back

As most men have probably noticed, in this position a woman’s rear end is all but served up to him on a platter. Try twiddling your thumbs on the opening, or placing your thumbs to the sides of her anus and spreading them apart, then diagonally, then up and down. And if she’s up for more in-depth exploration, feel free to head in and massage circles along the sides of the rectum or crook your finger along the front wall around three inches in to stimulate her G-spot. Given that heading in the back door can be a delicate process, you may want to remain stationary while easing your way in, and only resume intercourse once your partner is ready.

BACK FOR MORE

Must be done from the back

To give doggy-style sex a more sensual vibe, guys can give their partner a back and shoulder massage while going at it. Using massage oil, try pressing the heels of your palms up along the sides of her spine, fan out, then loop your way back down. Or you might want to form a U with your hand and push it up the sides of her spine. It also feels good to then cross your thumbs, spread your fingers, then glide your hands from her sacrum to the nape of her neck. All of these moves are easy to incorporate from the beginning to the end of intercourse. Women are suckers for men who remember that sex isn’t just about the genitals, so this technique is true to its name: She’ll be back for more in no time.

ME TARZAN, YOU JANE

Must be done from the back

If you want to add gasoline to the fire and transition to a true call of the wild carnal encounter, reach forward, hold the hair near the nape of her neck (the larger the chunk, the better), and gently pull toward you. Not only will this stimulate her scalp, it will most likely get her arching her back, allowing you to penetrate even deeper. This technique almost begs for some fast, intense thrusting action from one or both partners, although remember that you should never push past your partner’s comfort zone.

THE JEWEL THIEF

Must be done from the front

In the doggy-style position a man’s testicles are also ripe for the petting. If you’re in front and want to reach them, lean your weight on one shoulder and extend an arm back between your thighs and his. From there you can try stroking the testicles with your fingertips or fingernails throughout intercourse, or gently pinch the seam between his testicles and pull on it occasionally. If he’s close to Kingdom Come and you want to put ejaculation on hold, tell him to stop thrusting for a moment then use your thumb and forefinger to encircle the base of his testicles and pull them away from his body. While the guy out back typically thinks he’s the alpha male in this position, this will show him you’re not exactly taking it lying down, now are you?

PRESSING THE FLESH

Must be done from the front

As with The Jewel Thief, lean on one shoulder and reach back between your legs and his, only this time aim for his perineum, the
patch of skin between his testicles and anus that is highly sensitive due to the prostate gland that lies underneath. To turn it on, press up and jiggle your hand. If your partner hums or moans while you’re doing it, this will send pleasurable vibrations shooting up from his prostate to his throat and get his entire torso humming (for more details, turn to Good Vibes in
chapter 6
).

Sex Side-by-Side: How Your Hands Can Make It Sizzle

The perfect position for low-key, languid lovemaking, side-by-side sex comes with some unique perks. First off, couples can’t easily engage in their usual high-impact thrusting—and that’s a good thing, since you are forced to slow down and savor each sensation. Second,
both
sets of hands (yours and your partner’s) are free to make mischief. Here’s some territory you should consider covering.

THE SILVER SPOON

Can be performed by either partner

If you’re spooning (where one partner’s back lies snug against the other’s belly), the woman’s clitoris is free and clear to be approached by the partner out back. Reach around her body and try rubbing the flat of your finger along the clitoris or tapping on the bud with a fingertip. Or, if the woman reaches down and tends to her own privates, your hands can wander elsewhere. Consider letting your hands drift over her breasts barely touching them, or caressing her nipples alternately with your nails and your palm. Since these techniques require some finesse, combine them with a slow thrusting motion or remain completely stationary, focusing on your partner’s pleasure. The woman can also squeeze her pubococcygeal (or PC) muscle (the one she uses to stop urinating) to provide additional stimulation.

THE SILVER SPOON

TENDING TO THE FIELDS

Can be performed by either partner

During spooning, a woman’s clitoris isn’t the only hot spot calling out for attention; the furry mound of her mons pubis is also fully exposed. Reaching around her body, try undulating your hand on the area, or drumming your fingers on the top. You may also want to cup the mons and shake it back and forth to get some passion rumbling. Granted, moving your hips and your hands at the same time will require some coordination, but take it slow or alternate back and forth between handiwork and hip work and there will be plenty of feel-good vibes to go around.

IN THE GROOVE

Can be performed by either partner

Couples can also have sex side by side facing each other, which offers plenty of eye contact that intimacy gourmands will adore. While thrusting and penetration can be tough to accomplish in this position, these obstacles can open doors to
new
possibilities in the pleasure
department. For example, rather than inserting the penis
into
the vagina, reach down between your bodies and use your hands to guide his penis into the groove between the inner labia. Then, through a rocking motion, rub his penis along this groove from front to back. Not only will this stimulate the extra-sensitive head of his penis; it will also hit many of
your
hot spots located along this sexy strip, including the clitoris, U-spot, and vagina. This move is proof positive that penetration doesn’t have to happen for sex to feel fabulous, although if he’s dying for a dip, the next time he slides back toward the vagina, let him keep going.