The New Black Lace Book of Women's Sexual Fantasies (23 page)

Candy, age 20
Bisexual
Virgin
Celibate
College student
California, USA

My biggest turn-ons are usually gender play, cross-dressing,
bisexuality/pansexuality in others, threesomes, people who
love to be submissive in BDSM and alt-porn. Those are the ones
that jump out at me, at least. Although it's always been that
way, I think nowadays even more so I find myself attracted to
the so-called 'freaks and geeks' – anybody who is di-erent I
usually find sexually arousing. I want to do naughty things to
nerds and I love the tattooed, pierced and otherwise 'odd'.

In my fantasy I dress up as a man – I bind my breasts, get
into a harness and pack a hefty, realistic strap-on that has the
perfect weight and balance in my hand, take time to dust on
the fake five o'clock stubble, slick my hair back, put on the
boxer-briefs that bulge obscenely with my fake hard-on, slacks,
a shirt, a tie, and then I go down to a gay bar.

I cruise for a sexy, young, angelic twink who grabs my dick
through my pants and eyes me up, so I force him back to the
bathroom which, of course, is clean and just lovely (it is fantasy,
after all, right?). He gets down on his knees to suck me off, but
I drag him up and bend him over the sink and start to screw
him in the ass. The whole time I get to watch both of us in the
mirror above the sink – that's important to the fantasy, to have
that extra layer of voyeurism and exhibitionism, as I get to see
his facial expressions (and, of course, he is a fantastically greedy
bottom – he loves getting it). It starts slow, but of course starts
to get wild, and that's when some other guy comes in – a little
older than my twink, dark haired – leans up against the wall
and watches us. I can see his face in the mirror, catch his eye
once, look back and focus on what I'm doing (my twink is
absolutely involved in what's going on – his eyes are closed
and he is oblivious to everything else). After a minute, darkhaired
guy comes up behind me and shoves a hand down the
back of my pants (somehow missing the strap-on harness), and
starts to finger and probe my asshole while I give it to the
twink. The sensations feel good, but it's more about being
sandwiched, having that warm, tall, firm body to lean back
against and tilt my head on, that is so great. He gives me more
and more of his finger, one, then two, while his eyes stay glued
on mine in the mirror, testing me, challenging me. The dildo
hits my clit over and over again until I come, as does my twink.
The dark-haired guy conveniently leaves and twinkie turns
around and sees my dildo, much to my horror – but it turns
out he's bisexual, and he eats me out in the toilet in an open
stall, where a large group of surprisingly bi-curious gay men
gather and watch voyeuristically, and get aroused themselves
and start doing things to one another all around.

That's it, basically, in a nutshell.

At Your Service

Jane, age 31
Homosexual
Single, very sexually active
No children
Doctorate degree
Writer/Dominatrix
Ohio, USA

There are two very distinct fantasy themes in my erotic mind.
The first is having very pretty eager young women service me
and tend to my personal needs in a variety of di-erent ways.
Generally it has to do with their unbridled desire to kiss, lick
and suck me until I'm finally satiated – at least for a while.
The other subject that often excites me has to do with depriving
insistent macho men of being able to touch me in any way.
All they can do is gaze and drool as I sit in skimpy attire while
primping at my dressing table. Often the men are gagged and
restrained to keep them in total control. Fitting them with
locked chastity devices is also a
huge
kick for me.

The fantasies listed above have become reality, as I have
acquired the services of an ideal female companion, and I take
advantage of the ideal situation at every opportunity. In addition,
there are certain submissive men who have fallen deep under
my spell. Thus I am able to intimately chastise them whenever
I choose. The best part is they pay me to do it to them.

Mary, age 64
Heterosexual
Live-in relationship/marriage
No children
O levels
Freelance Writer/Editor
Lincolnshire, UK

I'm fascinated by people whose sexuality is ambiguous –
people who might be bisexual, or else androgynous-looking
women. I tend to be more adventurous as I get older. Nothing
holds me back. I do it. In my favourite fantasy I'm beating my
slave's bare buttocks while he pleads for mercy. I don't stop
until he has promised to fuck me senseless.

Sherry, age 61
Heterosexual
Celibate
Live-in relationship/marriage
Children
High School diploma
Writer/Receptionist
Wisconsin, USA

My fantasies revolve around bondage, usually a slavery situation
where the woman has been sold either by her father or
her lover. If I'm thinking historically, it is the father who has
sold her in order to finance his son's marriage. If it's contemporary,
the man she loves has got her pregnant, then sells her
to a man who sells black market babies from women he has
enslaved to become pregnant.

In my fantasy, a young woman has been presented to her new
master and he demands to see that she is, indeed, pregnant. Once
he has examined her, he shows her how she will be treated in
the future, beginning with a soft whipping. She is then forced
to have sex with various partners. Of course she is carrying her
lover's child, but in the future the identity of the child's father
will be a mystery. In other words, she is a high-priced whore; for
the men who come to this island do so with the knowledge that
the expensive price tag is so they can be with as many women
as possible over the period of a week, and it has cost them dearly.
When the child is born, it is allowed to nurse with its mother
just long enough to bring in her milk. In that way she can satisfy
the needs of certain men who enjoy sucking on mother's milk.

Princess Spider, age 45
Bisexual
Live-in relationship/marriage
Children
Education unknown
Dominatrix/Writer
London, UK

I've always found black leather gloves and pearls fascinating,
especially if accompanied by spectacles. Women were my first
love; they seemed so delicious and sensitive. Men have to be
rogues, women very feminine. Nowadays I love to say no and
tease my prey. The only thing that would improve my sex life
would be a man who could keep up with me.

Here is my fantasy: black-laced stockings, high-heeled
shoes, leopard-skin print panties, a short leopard-skin print
nightdress and gloves (leather). Remember, I always enhance
my red lips with full gloss, for that all important seductive
kiss. Surprise your man with this outfit and you will have
him grovelling on his hands and knees. Be firm when wearing
your outfit, take control of the situation; linger on the couch
and cross your legs so slowly and he will think you're in slow
motion. If he tries to kiss you, deny him access to your lips
and simply ask him to wait. Instead distract him with your
feet: ask him to remove your shoes and massage your feet so
he sees your painted toenails and also a glimpse of your
thighs. This is now your lingering stage . . . Your lover's urge
to seduce you will be getting stronger, but be firm, keep him
below your waist and get his blood boiling. Encourage the
kissing of your feet, legs and thighs. If you smoke, get your
man to light your cigarette, and fetch you a glass of wine. I
usually demand that my lover strips and entice him to cook
the evening meal . . . all distractions to aid with the lingering
and lusting.

I often notice him glimpsing around the breakfast bar to
see what he thinks is his prey. All the time he is sinking into
my spider web, lulling him into erection and denial. Desire
and frustration . . . sliding, his mind becomes confused. As he
stands in front of me naked, I can see his flesh quiver . . . his
erection growing.

I will stroke him very slowly with the wet fingertips of my
glove, either wine or saliva, I rotate my finger very slowly over
his manhood . . . Now you have him! At the very peak of his
excitement simply send him back to the kitchen. I call him
back and his vision has changed, now before him there are
two women he has to please. Pulling him by a rope, his
engorged balls full of eastern promise, I force him to fuck my
slave girl while I cane his cute muscular ass . . .

Ravished
Hydy, age 26
Heterosexual
Live-in relationship/marriage
No children
Bachelor's degree
Bookseller/Editor/Writer
Idaho, USA

In my fantasy I get out of the shower and there is my schoolgirl
costume on the bed. I put it on, and walk out of the
bedroom. He grabs me, blindfolds me and leads me out to
a van, where I'm tied up. We drive for quite some time to a
cabin out in the middle of nowhere. He says he's going to
take pictures of me to send for ransom. He then proceeds
to snap photos from all directions, slowly removing my
clothes and posing me more and more sexually. When he
finishes, he says I am to earn my keep while I'm here, and
sets up a video camera. He tells me I'm a very naughty girl,
posing for naughty pictures for him, and he proceeds to
spank me for the camera. Then he fingers me, finding me
wet, spanks me a bit more, telling me I'm naughty and
saying if I want him I should beg for it. Desperately turned
on by this point, I do. I beg him to fuck me, pushing myself
towards him until he does. He takes me, fucking me until
we both collapse in exhaustion.

Name withheld, age 45
Heterosexual
Single, moderately sexually active
Undergraduate degree
Manager
California, USA

I've always found alpha men a big sexual turn-on. I love a man
who takes control and won't take no for an answer. I still love
alpha men, though now they seem to be a bit more toned
down. I don't mind finding that they're vulnerable or have
faults, but they still need to be alpha men. The best sex I ever
had was with a man who at first was a friend: lying in bed
together, learning about each other's bodies, not rushing
anything, the touching and kissing, foreplay lasting for over
an hour. Then, when neither of us could stand it, he filled me
on the very first thrust. I love forceful men who realise that I
like the build-up, but when I say 'harder' they listen and give
me what I want. I'd like to find a man I can trust with my most
intimate secrets and desires.

My favourite fantasy is being kidnapped by a man who
wants to teach me about his sensual world. It starts off very
innocently, with him teaching me how to arouse my own body
and his – to full penetration, anal sex, sex with multiple partners,
and eventually being involved in a relationship.

Virginia, age 56
Heterosexual
Single, moderately sexually active
No children
Bachelor's degree
Author
California, USA

I had orgasms at the age of seven. I fantasised about naked
people upside down on crosses (I'm Catholic), being held naked
in a cage with strangers' hands touching me through the bars.
I got physically turned on while listening to my girlfriend
read the novel
Candy
at fourteen. I was date-raped at twenty
and loved it. I make love stoned with my ex-husband, with
his wife's consent. Sometimes we do a threesome. Trust and
honesty are very important. And we laugh a lot during sex.
We've also discovered 'pain-gasms'. He massages me and I
direct him, plus I get him to do it really hard. It makes me
come. Actually, I've done most of my fantasies. But I'm always
in charge, not a victim. I love masturbation these days. I'm
getting picky about men and don't like to wait around for
satisfaction. Wish I could find more reliable toys. The ones
they make are so cheap!

I like to imagine being abducted by men and being sexually
aroused with a variety of dildos until I'm begging for sex.
Bondage usually enters into it. Repeated rape. People watching.
Dirty words. Threats.

Shauna, age 35
Bisexual
Steady relationship, not live-in
Children
Master's degree
Psychologist
California, USA

My fantasy themes generally revolve around being tied up,
spanked, nipple torture, flogging, anal sex, sex with strangers,
sex in public, and sex with specific co-workers (damn, this one
guy just exudes sexuality!). I think I'm more sexually sure of
myself and am not afraid to ask for something that I want.
Do this, do that . . . Also, I'm more willing to try new things and
to have frank discussions about sex.

I have this recurring pirate fantasy where I'm held captive
by a pirate and tied to the main mast. The captain flogs me
and tortures me, and then fucks me using every available hole.

He lets all the other pirates use me and abuse me, and then
takes me to his cabin and treats me like the lady I am, making
love to me gently and lovingly. The only thing holding me back
from fulfilling my fantasy is the lack of a pirate ship. Found
the pirate!

Christina, age 41
Bisexual
Single, very sexually active
Children
Post-secondary education
Paramedic
British Columbia, Canada

I'm turned on by people that are kind and make me laugh. I
have to admit that the sign of a large bulge in the front of a
pair of tight jeans is also a big turn-on. Giving a man oral sex
is an extreme turn-on for me too. I used to be very shy and
very reserved. When I met my husband things were good and
then after my kids left home I was just not happy. I was
becoming more and more sexually frustrated and he was not
interested. Now I'm single and find I am the opposite, almost
to the extreme. I am
very
sexually active and just can't seem
to get enough. I have also approached men directly for sex,
which I would
never
have done.

I have had some tremendous sex and the size of a man's
penis is not only a turn-on, it does make a di-erence, though
I have had sex with one man who was very small and it was
absolutely wonderful sex. I think one of the reasons sex with
the smaller-equipped man was so good was that he spent so
much time just having fun, making me laugh and he was a
marvellous
kisser and kissing is huge for me. He was also
incredible at giving me oral sex to the point that intercourse
was almost just a little something added on at the end. On the
other hand I have had sex with big men that took time as well
and the submissive feeling of submitting myself to a man
that's big is intense for me. I was very well prepared by this
one man, who was also a good kisser. He laid me down and
moved up between my legs, which I opened willingly. He
sucked on both my nipples, which was incredible, and he kissed
me and looked at me and told me he was going to fuck me
and come in me. The way he said that made me melt and,
without waiting for a comment, he entered me slowly, but all
the way, and he was very well hung. Feeling that big penis
invade me and fill me was awesome. When I felt his balls
pressing against me, he moved down again and kissed me fully
and began slow short thrusts . . . my first orgasm was almost
immediate. He picked up the pace and alternated from short
to long deep strokes and talked dirty to me. The combination
of all this was extremely intense, and he looked at me and told
me when he was going to come inside me and that alone made
me orgasm again.