The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio (18 page)

Lips, tongue, sweet, wet mouth. Hard, soft, changing like the light changes in the room. Like the music changes one wall away. We are in tune. We are jazz. In perfect synch, we work each other. His bone moves deeper, deeper into my throat, and I swallow as forcefully as I can against him. I want to drain him. I want to devour him.

He echoes every motion. Until I forget who started what. Until I forget where I end and he begins. And then one of us does something new, and off we go on another route. My hand now around the base of his cock, holding tight there as I lick the tip. His fingers pressing up behind my balls, teasing me there, when he knows just a little pressure at that magic spot will make me want to fuck him. Roll over and just fuck him. It’s like this forever. Slip-sliding up to the climax and then back down from it.

My mouth is a hungry beast, and I swallow on him once again. Jarred won’t let me get away with that. He uses the whole flat of his tongue to massage and caress underneath the head of my cock, so that I release him completely and loll back on the mattress, unable to move because it feels so fucking good.

We are playing a game without rules.

Playing like boys do, to see who will win.

CHAPTER
8

Any Way You Want It

Nothing is more fun than having choices and possibilities—and fellatio is amazingly adaptable to environment, preference, and personal style. You can custom-tailor a session of head to suit your needs or your partner’s needs in almost any way imaginable. A position can enhance physical pleasure or a conjured fantasy. Fellatio can be the ticket to overcoming physical obstacles, such as a disability. You can use fellatio performed on a strap-on to set fire to an already sizzling sex life. Or, you can explore the ways to customize your physical approach to giving head to make it more comfortable, combat jaw fatigue, or strengthen your skills by learning how to take a penis or dildo all the way in your mouth and throat: learning to “deep throat.”

Positions

Fellatio feels good to the recipient in pretty much any angle you choose to give it, and there are a lot of positions to choose from. As a sex act it affords the uniqueness of being able to be performed virtually anywhere. Because it’s so versatile, the positions you can use vary greatly, and they can depend on location and circumstance. Trying fellatio in new locations and new positions can spice things up; a change in your routine or simply trying something you haven’t tried before can make the experience a bigger turn-on for both of you than your previous oral escapades.

Illustration 8. Anytime, Anywhere

Each position has advantages and disadvantages. Certain positions will afford you more access to his genitals, might make it easier for you to take more of him in your mouth, or may give you a psychological rush with their fantasy implications. However, you may find that some positions make you gag more than others because of the angle, are tough on your knees or jaw, or cause you to feel uncomfortable for other reasons. One thing to keep in mind when you consider positions is that you may be in any given position for a good amount of time, so you will want to take into account how comfortable you’ll be after, say, fifteen minutes or longer. There is no established amount of time to orgasm for men, or women for that matter, and if you think that men orgasm reliably and quickly as a rule, then you’re in for a surprise—and maybe some leg and neck cramps while you’re at it. Choose positions that are comfy for the two of you, and don’t be shy about changing positions or moving him around in different configurations.

The Consummate Position

I’ve always found it works best with him lying down or leaning back, and to kneel beside him approaching him perpendicularly.

The position that lends itself easily to variety and comfort is having him lie on his back with a pillow under his head on a bed, the ground, a couch, or any flat spot. It provides the best access to his entire genital area and allows him to lie back and completely relax and enjoy. This position allows you to easily include his testicles in the action, or incorporate penetration, rimming, pressure points, or any other tricks you have in store. You can place yourself between his legs, or move around his body as you like. If you’re on your stomach, this position can get a little tiresome on your neck, but you can alleviate strain by changing positions, using these variations:

• On your stomach between his legs, prop yourself up on your elbows and grasp his buttocks or hips.

• With your elbows propped, have him put one or both legs over your shoulders.

• Have him hold his knees to his chest.

• Have him place his feet on your shoulders.

• Kneel or crouch between his legs, leaving your hands free to help, wander, tease.

• With his legs spread around you, keep your hands on his groin area and press his hips down using your forearms and the weight of your body on his hips.

• Wrap your arms under his thighs, and toward you over his hips. You can guide his cock easily from this position.

• Sit on his legs, forcing them flat and rendering them immobile.

• Lick from a right angle, one side or the other. You can kneel, crouch, lie sideways, or adjust pillows under you for comfort. You can face him, or face his feet.

• Sit on his chest, facing away from him. He gets a nice view, you get access to him, and the angle is good for alleviating the gag reflex.

On Your Knees, Now

My first time sucking cock was quick and nasty, and now that’s the way I like it best.

When most folks think of fellatio, the image of someone on their knees comes readily to mind. At some point in your fellatio adventures, you’re bound to wind up on your knees, whether your lover is standing or seated. Kneeling might be the best possible choice for a given situation or circumstance—for instance, if you’re outdoors, being spontaneous in the bathroom, shoving him up against a wall and having your way with him, or engaging in a “quickie.” Your hands are free to roam, fondle testicles, guide his penis, or pull him into your mouth by his hips or buttocks. But kneeling isn’t for everyone, because it is tough on the knees—though you may be having so much fun you don’t notice until it’s all over. If your knees ache or strain but you don’t want to give up the position, switch to crouching or squatting. Crouching also makes it easier to masturbate while you fellate.

More Positions

SEATED

He can sit on the edge of a bed, chair, table, kitchen counter, car seat, staircase…anywhere. You can kneel on the floor with pillows under your knees, squat, or if he’s up high enough, sit on a low chair or stool. This position is ideal for the comfort and access it provides.

SIDEWAYS

You can both lie sideways, and you can prop pillows under your head for comfort.

“SITING ON YOUR FACE.”

He doesn’t actually sit on your face; he puts his knees on either side of your upper torso and sits on your chest, with his penis in your face. He can also hover above your face so you can also lick his balls, suck them into your mouth, and tongue his perineum, though rimming is difficult from this angle. He can provide the thrusts, or stay still while you move your head and hands. Your hands can travel over his entire lower torso and can easily play with his ass.

THE 69 (SIMULTANEOUS RECIPROCAL ORAL SEX).

There are a couple of options for this favorite: him on top, on hands and knees over you; you on top (same thing reversed); or both of you on your sides, which may be the most comfortable of the three. Experiment with this one to see what you both like—in fact, you should experiment with all of these positions, over and over…

I had a girlfriend who loved to 69. She actually often forgot the up-and-down sucking motion; she got off on having her clit licked while my cock was in her mouth. She’d lie on top of me and grind her pussy against my face and just hold my erection in her mouth. I wasn’t really complaining!

One time he asked to 69 with me on top, and that was the best that I remember. It was such a turn-on to know he just really enjoyed having my penis in his mouth, plus I could thrust and get the sensations that I enjoyed. Sucking his dick and fucking his mouth with long, slow strokes is something I won’t forget.

What He Can Do When You’re in the 69 Position

• Give you head, of course.

• Spank you.

• Penetrate you vaginally or anally with his fingers or a sex toy.

• Nothing, if he’s tied up.

ON YOUR BACK

If you lie on your back, with your head tilted back off the edge of a bed or sofa, your throat is stretched and much more open than in any other position. Many people prefer this for deep throating and say it reduces the gag factor. He is standing and doing the thrusting, but you can still use your hands.

Illustration 9. Head Tilted Back

DOGGIE-STYLE

This position isn’t just for penetrative sex. Lick him from behind while he’s on hands and knees, pulling and sucking his penis back between his legs. Not all guys find this comfortable, but those who do will delight that you can also play with their testicles and perineum, and can fully explore rimming and anal play.

Jaw Cramp

Once you’ve got your stroke and rhythm going, and you’re in the position of choice, you’re in it for the duration. How long is that? Sorry—there’s no answer to that question. It could be a few short strokes and then he explodes, or he could last longer than an all-day sucker—or he might not come at all. These scenarios are all possible, and because it takes as long as it takes, you might have a mouthful for longer than you thought. The natural, though unpleasant, side effect of it all is that your tongue may cramp, your jaw may ache, and your neck might get tired. Fellatio can put strain on jaw and neck muscles like no other sex act, which is why it’s important that you start out in a comfortable position, especially if you have injuries or TMJ, or just plain get crampy muscles. The irony is, when it seems like you’re just about to collapse he’s usually on the verge of exploding, and no insurance company under the sun will cover your fellatio-related repetitive stress injury (RSI).

Like a distance runner, always pace yourself from the start and keep a steady, slow, methodical pace. Enthusiastic cocksucking is always appreciated, but if you start slowly, you can save your energy for the finish, where it may be needed most. When your neck, arms, or jaw begin to ache, change positions. If the cramps in your neck or jaw become painful, pause to stroke him with your hand and give your mouth and neck a rest. You can also break up the action by taking a minute or two to lick his balls, kiss his thighs, perineum, or torso, or add a sex toy to your play. Be creative with your breaks. If you’re in pain, or know that your neck is going to be complaining, plan ahead to use pillows for comfort or choose positions that don’t require you to hold your head up, such as lying on your back with him straddling your chest.