Mastering Multiple Position Sex (28 page)

Dip your fingers into the sex saucer—not the massage saucer—and re-lube her ass as well as your cock.

Pull your knees into your chest, which will elevate your pelvis—as will the small cushion under your back.

Grab her thighs in each hand and pull her up onto your bent knees—the ramp—as you position your cock at her ass once more. You are now ready to ramp up the pleasure!

POSITION 3

POSITION 3:
The Ramp

Because she has been in the driver’s seat for anal sex, her mind and body are in a place where she can take the lovemaking to the next level in this modified missionary position. Forming the “ramp” in this position, his thighs support her buttocks and lower back and prevent him from making jarring or forceful thrusts, which he might be inclined to do from a rear-entry position.

Be careful on reentering her, as one or both of her anal sphincters might have constricted. If it feels too tight, return to slow and loving digital penetration until she relaxes again.

Once you have made it through both locks of her secondary love canal, turn your forearms palm up and hold her bent legs with her feet to each side of your chest.

With your feet now at his side, your knees on or to the sides of his chest, your upper back on the bed, and your vulva pointing up toward his navel, communicate with him about the penetration and speed that feels good. This is also a time to play with your vulva and clitoris or to enjoy a vibrator on your clit, on your mound, around your vulva, or in your vagina.

You can control the penetration with your hips as well as by holding her legs. Both of you can make small rocking motions to allow for short or deep, slow and fast strokes.

CRESCENDO

CRESCENDO

Though the human rectum is tight enough to make many men come, and because the neural pathways can have an equally powerful effect on women, no additional stimulation may be necessary for either party to climax. However, if she wants additional stimulation to reach orgasm, he could slip his fingers into her vagina and press up toward her navel. His thumb could stimulate her clitoris, mound, or vagina. She could also provide additional stimulation to those same areas. She is now receiving anal, vaginal, and clitoral stimulation—the ultimate blended orgasm. As she has her orgasm, her anus will tighten even more around his cock, which might result in his ejaculation and the potential for an additional orgasm for her.

Brava! Bravo!

After this experience, he can lean forward and bring his chest to hers as their lips meet. Whether this was their first anal experience or their hundred-and-first, the couple can take this time to talk about it and what it meant to them both physically and emotionally. For hygiene as much as relaxation, a warm bath or shower can help return both partners to the pre-coital state, and prepare them for bed, for work, or for vaginal sex.

By talking before and during anal sex, trusting your partner, relying on deep diaphragmatic breaths, having ample lubricant available, and by taking your time so that both partners relax, anal intercourse should be pleasurable—and not a pain in anyone’s ass.

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Allegro con Fuoco: The Quickie

A handful of people might know that Rossini wrote a four-hour opera about William Tell, but I would guess that most everyone would recognize the twenty-six-second opening to the
Lone Ranger
from the opera’s overture. John Williams, the famous American composer, crafted a stately theme for NBC, but most of us still recognize the broadcast company better by a seventy-five-year-old musical ménage à trois, G-E-C, three notes that announce N-B-C. If the sex in the other chapters is akin to an orchestral symphony, then consider this chapter the equivalent of short musical snippets or, better yet, commercial jingles. A successful jingle captures the essence of an entire brand; it implants that brand deep in our minds—and can remind us of how much we want to have that brand in our homes, in our lives. Quickies are like sex jingles.

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Movement

POSITION 1