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But try not to rush it. Orgasms and ejaculation depend on understanding the different kinds of sexual strokes and massage. Stroking depends on understanding anatomy. The further you get in the book, the more we’ll refer to earlier concepts and skills.

If you’re anything like us, you’ll be tempted to skip ahead to the good stuff right away. Since we honor that, we’ve tried to accommodate you
as best we can, but you’ll get the most out of the book from reading it start to finish. If you do jump around, we can’t promise the techniques will work for you.

Pictures are great. Words are priceless. But it’s best if you practice each exercise before moving on to the next one. Whether you’re the giver or the receiver, male or female, the more you practice with timely, helpful feedback, the faster and better you’ll learn.

Sexual learning is much like working out at the gym, and it relies on the same maxim — use it or lose it. The more you exercise, the easier it gets, and the better it feels. Through practice, you heal the weak parts to make your sexual system healthy and whole.

If you’ve had negative experiences with G-spot stimulation, such as discomfort or a burning sensation, let us assure you that by following our program to awaken your G-spot and female ejaculation, this will never be the case again.

We’ve created a book that is both comprehensive and user-friendly. In the coming chapters, you will find powerful techniques to master your own sexual forces. You’ll learn how to use these techniques to feel the kind of pleasures you have only imagined in your most erotic dreams.

If your score is below 40, you’ll want to take every practice in this book very seriously, using them to create a long-term program. The good news is that you have much fun and juicy pleasure awaiting you. We envy you all the growth and self-discovery ahead. You absolutely can expand your sexuality — we’re sure of that!

Whatever your score, before you finish reading this book and completing its many juicy practices, you will have learned female anatomy, sexual and massage strokes, and more pathways to G-spot orgasm and female ejaculation than you can imagine.

So, what are you waiting for?

— FROM
HOTTER SEX, DEEPER LOVE
BY JEFFRE TALLTREES AND ORV FRY

To experience amazing G-spot orgasms and female ejaculation, a woman must first discover how to master her own sexual energy. By “sexual energy,” we mean the subtle, inner vibrations that always percolate beneath most people’s consciousness.

Everything in the physical universe is in motion as a result of energy. The cells in our bodies, the blood in our veins, and the impulses in our nerves all continuously vibrate inside because of energy. So, why not our sexual responses and orgasms?

What causes goose bumps? A chill down your spine? Shivers or ticklishness? Or how about that tingly warm feeling in your genitals when you see somebody gorgeous walking down the street. That’s sexual energy!

So, when we refer to energy, we’re talking about the stimulation and physical excitation that causes these feelings. In China, it’s called
chi.
In India, it’s called
prana.
In Japan, it’s called
ki
, and in yoga, it’s called
Kundalini.
But it’s all energy. We’re talking about the same electrical and magnetic life force that pervades all of our bodies. Because most lovers feel this kind of sexual energy most strongly just before an orgasm, we’ll use the term “orgasmic energy.” Kundalini is probably the more correct term, but it’s all the same electrical or magnetic stuff in your body. Regardless of your level of satisfaction with your lovemaking skills, energy is at the root of it.

To fully enjoy your sexuality and experience the most explosive, gushing orgasms, you need to become aware of these subtler, finer energetic frequencies. Most people don’t notice them because their internal receivers haven’t been tuned to pick them up. That’s partly why we delight in exploring our senses of taste, sight, smell, and sound, as well as a deeper appreciation of sensual touch. By tuning our senses, we learn how to summon orgasmic energy, focus on its effects, magnify its impact, and circulate it around the body, ultimately resulting in a big, wet orgasmic explosion.

When enough sexual pleasure is awakened inside, it’s hard to contain the orgasmic energy in one spot. So, with any luck, it spreads. People use different words for this: moving, running, channeling, circulating, or streaming energy.

Though they all mean roughly the same thing,
streaming
is probably our favorite term. The name refers to opening your pathways to the energy of ecstasy (even without sexual stimulation) and letting the natural vibrations engulf you. Streaming feels like a flood of pleasure coursing through your body. It’s as if every cell is coming. Yes, you feel the same ecstatic experience everywhere. Full-body orgasm is high on our private list of delights!

When we first started practicing energy streaming, Jeffre used to have powerful session-ending orgasms. When she learned to stream instead of explode, she started experiencing multiple orgasms and, eventually, female ejaculation.

When you learn how to stream orgasmic energy when you are by yourself, you can then exchange it with your partner. Contrary to popular belief, the most intense sexual encounters don’t result just from sleeping with a really hot woman or skilled man. The pinnacles of sexual ecstasy result from both partners sharing, combining, and building on each other’s energy. That’s why our definition of S.E.X. is Subtle Energy eXchange.

Why bother learning how to stream?