Female Ejaculation (4 page)

Some say that women are generally more sensitive to energy and can learn how to stream more easily. Maybe so. But guys can feel it, too. Some can respond intensely to the slightest stimulation with a little practice (which, incidentally, is the secret of overcoming premature ejaculation).

You know what happens to men if all of the sexual energy generated through lovemaking stays in their genitals? When all of this excitement boils over too quickly, the easiest direction for the energy to move is up and out. And then his penis explodes with a momentary flash of pleasure and a big wet spot that usually ends the playtime for a good long while, sometimes leaving his lover unsatisfied.

If he learns how to spread that orgasmic energy away from his genitals and around his body, he’ll feel great all over without a sudden big gush. As a result, he can have lots of little energy rushes that get bigger and bigger and bigger, culminating in a long series of internal energy climaxes we call Implosive Orgasm (a process we explain in our previous book,
Male Multiple Orgasm
).

Women can use this same principle of circulating and storing their orgasmic energy in order to build up enough force and pleasure to achieve female ejaculation.

Many ancient cultures, both in the East and West, studied our subtle energies and devised methods to gain greater mastery over them. Common to many practices are the
chakras
, the Indian word for wheels. Chakras are whirlpools or vortexes of energy centered at the spinal column and extending in front of and behind the body where subtle energy is generated, collected, and stored.

Most systems identify seven chakras that reside from the bottom of the spine to the top of the head. Here is a relatively universal list:

Though energy is energy, when it’s generated or settles in a specific chakra, it feels different. When we talk about sexual energy, we’re actually referring to vibrations of the first two chakras at the belly and pelvic floor. At the heart, it’s the warm embrace of love. In the
brain, it fuels higher awareness. At the crown, it connects us to the spiritual plane.

All of this may sound foreign to you, but don’t worry: you don’t have to understand your chakras fully. All you have to do is imagine the energy flowing when the time comes. You don’t have to work hard at it, and you don’t have to sweat it. Just think of it as play. We’re sure you’ll be surprised by what you can feel if you practice!

So, how do your chakras figure into achieving female ejaculation? First, most love partners want more than just a lust connection. Concentrating on merging the energy of your chakras can be immensely satisfying. You can even use the chakras to move orgasmic energy throughout your body. Doesn’t that sound delicious?

Those who practice Kundalini Yoga believe this orgasmic energy sleeps at the base of the spine. Others believe the first chakra resides at the clitoris. Our experience is that the most powerful sexual energies are stored in the G-spot. If you learn to stream sexual energy up and down your chakras, you’ll be able to clear the mental, emotional, and physical blocks that stand in the way of an ecstatic sexual experience with your beloved.

Our biology certainly produces lots of sexual energy, especially when we’re young, healthy, or infatuated with a new love. But what happens when you age or get stressed by sickness or life pressures? Then, you can’t depend on hormones to turn you on and make you high. If you master running your energy, this will never be a problem. Learn to generate and channel orgasmic energy, and you can reach mind-boggling heights any time you want.

Where do you channel the energy generated? How do you spread it around your body and share it with the one you love? By using your intention, your mind, and your breath, you can learn to send energy anywhere you want.

Move the energy up to the belly, the solar plexus, the heart, the brain, and above. Then it excites, enlivens, and enriches your whole body. That’s what makes magic happen and leads to that wonderful fluid from your G-spot. That’s why you came to this party, right?

We believe that the G-spot is such a captivating trigger zone because it stores so much orgasmic energy. With a little bit of dedicated practice, you can unleash these powerful forces with even just a small amount of stimulation.

Regardless of your gender, streaming orgasmic energy awakens the rest of your body so that you can experience full-body orgasms. Running energy to the heart awakens your feelings of love and is a powerful turn-on all by itself. Channeling energy to the spiritual centers in the head can make sexual play a transcendent experience.

Once you learn to stream energy, you’ll experience amazingly powerful responses to subtle stimuli. Your senses become immeasurably heightened. Imagine what it feels like when other parts of your body are throbbing with the same excitation that makes your genitals pulse and throb?

While a normal physical orgasmic release can feel terrific, we like something we call an Energy Orgasm even better. We achieve this by contacting our most powerful trigger zones like the G-spot and generating huge orgasmic energy. Then, we recycle the orgasmic energy rather than expel it. We conserve that energy, and instead of discharging, the energy expands inward, flooding the entire body with pulsing orgasmic contractions and continuous wavelike vibrations.

An energy orgasm is an experience of prolonged peak pleasure in which your whole body vibrates with wave after wave of intense ardor. You shake all over, engulfed in surge after surge of pure liquid fire. And this is when women often ejaculate over and over and over.

Most people experience orgasm from physical stimulation, building up sexual tension and then releasing it. An energy orgasm is an event — a state of ecstasy that’s more than just physical, involving many or all of the chakras.

So, how do you experience these delicious energy orgasms? Wouldn’t you like to know? And we’re going to tell you! Some women get there through stimulation of the clitoris, some get there through intercourse, and some learn to channel orgasmic energy to and from all parts of
their body. But we have found that the most powerful access to this zenith of sexual pleasure is through the G-spot.

Many women rarely experience this kind of sexual peak. But when introduced to G-spot play, they report many of the same sensations as we describe for energy orgasm. It just happens naturally! They experience long, continuous pulsing followed by the expulsion of fluid, or they describe it as “going somewhere else and losing touch with reality.” It’s a wonderful out-of-control feeling that can go on and on and higher and higher.

Is creating the ultimate pleasure worth some delightful practice now and then? You betcha. Once you acquire the knack, you’ll never settle day in and day out for “normal sex” again.