Female Ejaculation (34 page)

Though it’s unlikely, touching on severe wounding may trigger an emotional catharsis. This could take the form of long bouts of intense crying, irrational and overwhelming emotional outbursts, or even hyperventilation that causes numbness and tingling in the receiver’s hands.

We firmly believe that however difficult, strong, and explosive the immediate reaction may be, it’s better that the block has been contacted and the energy has begun to flow.

Remember, the tried and true therapy maxims:

The way out is the way through, and

What turns it on turns it off.

Many of our personal and professional experiences have confirmed the truth of these statements. If you can stay cool and keep the process going, whatever triggered the reaction will also discharge the energy.

Nevertheless, these upheavals can have an enormous impact on you. So, we want to offer you a pressure relief valve to bail out if you feel you need it.

If catharsis continues for more than ten minutes, consider using this safety valve process. When the giver judges that the receiver has processed as much pain as she can handle in one session, follow these steps:

As giver, it’s important that you maintain intense presence and eye contact while you witness your beloved’s dramatic experience. Don’t push her to resume the healing right away but know that you’ll undoubtedly have to reconnect with the intense memory in another healing session. Most importantly, be certain that she will be okay. And giver, don’t forget to breathe slowly and deeply to stay grounded yourself. It can be emotional for you to watch someone you love experience such intense emotions.

The vaginal healing process itself is a simple touching practice that allows full consciousness to return to all parts of the vagina, especially the G-spot. The giver slowly and gently massages around and inside the vagina to reopen communication channels within the receiver.

The tissue of a healthy vagina should be soft, supple, and vibrantly alive with sensation. A healthy G-spot can produce amazing amounts of pleasure. When armored, however, the tissue hardens and loses its ability to flow sexual energy.

This vaginal healing massage returns that life simply by touching softly and pressing gently where armoring needs to be released, and this is often most intense around the G-spot. The real work is done by the receiver as she focuses her awareness wherever she’s touched.

The giver touches everywhere around and within the vagina, gradually approaching the G-spot and letting the receiver feel the life flowing to and from healthy tissues. Sometimes, the giver will contact a “hot spot” when the receiver reports some discomfort.

A hot spot is an armored place that stores old energy, revealed by negative sensations when touched. Hot spots can be tense, sore, hard, tender, painful, numb, or — as the name implies — they may burn. Sometimes, the energy is so compacted that it feels like a hard nodule under the skin.

When a hot spot is found, the giver simply holds while the receiver breathes into the area until the negative energy dissipates.

Though this experience may be unpleasant, hot spots are a blessing. They provide an exact window into what needs to be healed to open the receiver’s channels to the unrestricted flow of sexual pleasure. After the stored energy is released, pleasure, orgasm, ecstatic states, and ejaculation are much more easily accessed.

Areas of discomfort shift from session to session and from time to time within each session. It’s as if blockages are fluid enough to hide from the light of touch and resurface elsewhere. So, approach each
healing time as a unique moment without expectation or plan. Just accept what’s there, and deal with it as it arises.

Though it might happen of its own accord, vaginal healing isn’t about getting excited or having an orgasm. It’s about rediscovering and awakening a woman’s capacity for G-spot pleasure and ejaculation.

Below is the full instruction for the vagina healing practice.