Female Ejaculation (18 page)

Begin by tidying up, heating your room, taking a bath, putting on erotic music, and leaning back against a pile of pillows with your legs spread. Do this in front of a mirror if you like. Once aroused, you’ll probably have to get up on your feet or knees to reach your G-spot. Props you may want to collect are water, lubricant, towels, and a vibrator or curved dildo. Be sure your bladder is empty before you begin.

Begin by slowly touching, caressing, and arousing yourself from the perimeter and circle towards your vagina. Caress your vulva and clitoris with your preferred lubricant to get them both feeling hot. Use fantasy if you’d like. Then lick or lubricate a finger, and slowly circle around the vaginal opening, gradually going deeper inside with an in-and-out stroke. Take your time, and enjoy it because your G-spot may not come out to play unless you’re really turned on. Be sure to relax, breathe deeply, and make sounds that express what you’re feeling.

When you’re aroused enough, you’ll begin to feel some places on your vagina’s upper wall lining that will become rougher and more wrinkly like corduroy. You might feel the prostate harden like a bean beneath the surface somewhere between the vagina’s inside end and the meatus near the opening. You won’t be sure which kind of prostate you have until you thoroughly massage and excite the whole extent of your urethral sponge. Within a few minutes of continued stroking, your G-spot will swell, get larger, and harden in the same way as a clitoris and penis.

If you find you can’t reach deep enough inside, or your muscles start to protest, continue on your knees or by squatting. Sometimes, experimentation is necessary to find the most comfortable position for G-spot access.

Gradually increase the pressure on the rough and hard spots on the upper wall with in-and-out strokes about once per second. Curl your finger around the pubic bone when fully inserted, making a come-hither motion as you pull out.

As your G-spot becomes more engorged, you may feel P-Signals that convince you that you have to pee. This means you’re really getting there! Simply breathe, and continue. If you relax into it, the sensation will pass quickly. Remember that you just emptied your bladder. If you believe it’s full again, go to the toilet to make sure, but come back and resume your play.

Whenever you decide the time is right, feel free to switch to a vibrator or dildo. Experiment with what kind of pressure you like.

Use the supreme bliss cornerstones to intensify and spread sexual energy throughout your body. Of course, if you experience a G-spot orgasm, don’t hesitate!

Close your sacred space by doing whatever works for you, and give thanks for the pleasure your body brings you.

Begin by tidying up, heating your room, taking a bath, putting on erotic music, and arranging your body so that you can lean back against a pile of pillows with your legs spread. Props you may want to collect are water, lubricant, towels, and a vibrator or curved dildo. Use a soft towel or absorbent pad underneath to eliminate any self-consciousness about fluids wetting the bed. Be sure to discuss the Partnering Questions, and empty your bladder before you actually begin.

Begin by asking your lover to slowly touch, caress, and arouse your body from the perimeter and circle toward your vagina. Have your partner massage the vulva and clitoris with your preferred lubricant until they’re both hot. Use fantasy if you like. When you’re ready, ask your lover to lick or lubricate a finger, and slowly circle around the vaginal opening, gradually going deeper inside with an in-and-out stroke. Guide your lover to take his or her time because your G-spot may not come out to play unless you’re really turned on. Be sure to relax, breathe deeply, and make sounds that express what you’re feeling.

When you’re aroused enough, guide your lover to explore your vagina’s front wall lining, feeling for where it’s rougher and wrinkly like corduroy. They might feel the prostate harden like a bean beneath the surface somewhere between the vagina’s inside end and the meatus near the opening. Guide your partner to thoroughly massage and excite the area of your urethral sponge that most responded during solo play. With a few minutes of continued stroking, your G-spot will swell, get larger, and harden much like a clitoris and penis.

Ask your lover to gradually increase the pressure on the rough and hard spots on the upper wall with in-and-out strokes about once per second. Have them curl a finger around the pubic bone when fully inserted, making a come-hither motion as they pull out.

As your G-spot becomes more engorged, you may feel P-Signals, convincing you that you have to pee. This means you’re really getting there. Simply breathe and continue, and the feeling will pass quickly. Remember that you just emptied your bladder. If you’re convinced it’s full again, go to the toilet to make sure, but come back to resume your play.

If you liked it during solo play, feel free to ask your lover to switch to using a vibrator or dildo. If you discovered where and how you really like strong pressure, now is a good time to guide your lover to give you that kind of stimulation.

Use the supreme bliss cornerstones to intensify and spread sexual energy throughout your body. Allow a G-spot orgasm if it happens naturally.

When you’re ready to stop, be sure your partner knows to follow your lead. Do you want gradual slowing or to simply hold still? Whatever you prefer, ask your lover not to abruptly break contact. Instead, have him or her cup and hold your vagina with the palm of one hand, while the other hand is on your heart. Look into each other’s eyes, and breathe together.

Close your sacred space by talking about what happened, discussing your feelings, giving thanks for the pleasure you’ve created together.