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masturbation and condition of,
46–47
stimulation to,
35–36
vulva,
18
,
19
,
69–72
,
73
,
184–87
See also
clitoris
;
vagina
genital surgery,
238–40
genital warts (HPV),
261–62
Gillette Venus Vibrance,
172
girls
age at first orgasm,
5
,
64
masturbation and,
60
,
62
social conditioning of,
42–43
See also
women
glans of the clitoris,
70
GLBT (gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender) issues,
224
,
229
Goldstein, Richard,
52
gonorrhea,
261–62
,
265
Gräfenberg, Ernst,
154
grinding,
121
,
131–32
,
230–31
G-spot
female ejaculation and,
150–51
,
163
location of,
152–56
toys for,
176
,
178–79
,
180
G Spot, The
(Perry, Whipple, and Ladas),
154
Guide to Getting It On, The
(Joannides),
20

H

Haines, Staci,
39
Harry Potter’s broom,
185
Heiman, Julia,
89
hepatitis,
261–62
,
270
hermaphrodites,
237–40
herpes,
261–62
,
265
,
267
heteroflexible,
225
Hippocrates,
136–37
Hitachi Magic Wand massager,
169
Hite Report, The
(Hite),
54
HIV
asking potential partners about,
269
fear of,
82
preventing with condoms,
265–66
transmission of,
231
,
233
,
261–62
treatment for,
272
HIV prophylaxis,
271
homophobia, effect of,
229
homosexuality among animals,
226
hormonal birth control,
256–59
HPV (genital warts),
261–62
humor,
149

I

intercourse
female self-touching during,
126–30
lubricant with,
135
men’s masturbation versus,
205–6
,
210
in movies versus real life,
115–16
orgasms during,
85–89
,
124–27
,
131–33
positions for,
116–19
,
119–23
,
128
,
132
,
141
,
249
tips for guys,
139–42
intersex community,
9
,
225
,
237–40
IUDs,
254–55
,
258–59

J

Janus Report, The,
51
Japanese nipple clamps,
183
Japanese on masturbation,
25
Joannides, Paul,
20
Johanson, Sue,
164
Journal of Sex Research,
148
,
161
,
175

K

Karras, Nick,
72
Kaufman, Miriam,
81
Kegel, Arnold,
26
Kegel exercises
for anal muscles,
245
for PC muscles,
26–29
,
85
,
163
,
211
Kinsey, Alfred,
152

L

labia majora and minora,
70
Ladas, Alice Kahn,
154
ladies first orgasms,
202
lambskin condoms,
264
latex condoms,
135
,
136
,
264–65
lesbian sex
antigay violence concerns,
229
best parts of,
227–28
,
230–33
challenges related to,
228–29
dildos and,
179
,
227
experimenting with,
225
fantasizing about,
33
on female ejaculation,
160
orgasms and,
233–34
overview,
223–25
penetration during,
116
Lew, Mike,
39
Lewinsky, Monica,
95
licking-the-alphabet,
113
lions in heat,
129
Lopiccolo, Joseph,
89
lubricants and lubrication
for anal sex,
181
,
246–47
condoms and,
135
,
136
,
147
,
264–65
ejaculate versus,
161
importance of wetness,
23
,
35–36
,
78–79
with intercourse,
133–35
,
147
natural vaginal,
22
,
23
,
35
with self-touch,
49
,
73
,
78–79
types of,
135–36

M

Magic of Ten Game,
55–56
Mains, Rachel,
167
male sexuality,
213
.
See also
men
;
penis
male to female (MTF) transpeople,
235–36
Maltz, Wendy,
39
Man’s Guide to the Secret Principles of Total-Body Sex, A
(Castleman),
212
marathon men,
141
Masters and Johnson,
18–21
,
132
masturbation
advantages of self-touch,
2–4
,
68–69
arousal boosters for,
76–79
awareness during,
75
,
210–11
building up to orgasm,
55–56
in childhood,
4
,
5
,
43–45
,
51–53
Dear Abby on,
4
Diddling for Donations fundraiser,
58
experimental,
72–74
handheld showers for,
78
intercourse versus,
205–6
,
210
,
212–13
Japanese on,
25
overview,
41
partnered sex and,
46
,
59
religion and,
48
social conditioning,
42–43
,
46–51
techniques,
53–57
terms for female masturbation,
57
with a vibrator,
172–73
watching your partner during,
23
,
36
,
59
,
201
medical conditions and treatments,
82–85
medications, problems from,
83–85
,
212
men
anal stimulation of,
244
asking what feels good,
24
,
34–35
,
140
,
198–200
caring too much,
216–17
erectile dysfunction,
207–8
failure to attain orgasm,
211–13
faking do’s and don’ts,
218–19
healing from abuse,
39
masturbation versus intercourse,
205–6
,
210
,
212–13
multiple orgasms of,
29
pornography and,
193–95
,
196
premature ejaculation,
209–11
sexual exploits versus good sex,
203
sexual issues of,
8–9
tips for being a great lover,
197–204
tips for helping partner orgasm,
87–89
tips for intercourse,
139–42
and women’s orgasms,
195
and women’s vibrators,
177–78
See also
penis
Men Can Stop Rape,
40
menstrual cycle and oral sex,
94
migraine headaches,
16
Miller, Marshall,
6–8
,
10
missionary position,
117–19
,
128
missionary position, modified,
120–21
,
132
,
141
,
249
Moche civilization,
92
Morin, Jack,
249
morning after pills,
260
movie sex,
115
MTF (male to female) transpeople,
235–36
multiple orgasms,
25–26
,
29
multiple stimulation,
36–37

N

N-9 (nonoxynol-9) spermicide,
270
National Coalition of Anti-Violence Programs,
229
National Masturbate-a-Thon,
58
natural condoms,
264
Nerve’s Guide to Sex Etiquette
(Taylor and Sharkey),
104
Newman, Felice,
233
nipple piercing,
185
,
186
nonoxynol-9 (N-9) spermicide,
270

O

Odette, Fran,
81
oil-based lubricants,
135
,
136
,
264–65
online survey,
10–11
,
29–30
oral rimming,
245
oral sex on men, condoms for,
265
oral sex on women
choosing large penis or,
215
eliminating performance pressure with,
209
history of,
90–91
,
92
,
114
positions for,
100–103
shyness and self-consciousness about,
92–94
69 position and,
104–6
social conditioning about,
92–93
tips for partners,
106–9
,
109–14
tips for women,
94–99
women’s’ experiences of,
91–92
Orgasm, Top Ten Reason to Have an,
13
orgasm-obsession,
11–12
orgasms
faking,
216–22
female ejaculation and,
158
ladies first,
202
multiple,
25–26
,
29
overview,
223
,
273
popularity of methods for attaining,
45
simultaneous,
136–39

P

pain, sensitivity to,
16
Parker, Dorothy,
48
partnered sex

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