I Love Female Orgasm: An Extraordinary Orgasm Guide (43 page)

masturbation and condition of,
46–47

stimulation to,
35–36

vulva,
18
,
19
,
69–72
,
73
,
184–87

See also
clitoris
;
vagina

genital surgery,
238–40

genital warts (HPV),
261–62

Gillette Venus Vibrance,
172

girls

age at first orgasm,
5
,
64

masturbation and,
60
,
62

social conditioning of,
42–43

See also
women

glans of the clitoris,
70

GLBT (gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender) issues,
224
,
229

Goldstein, Richard,
52

gonorrhea,
261–62
,
265

Gräfenberg, Ernst,
154

grinding,
121
,
131–32
,
230–31

G-spot

female ejaculation and,
150–51
,
163

location of,
152–56

toys for,
176
,
178–79
,
180

G Spot, The
(Perry, Whipple, and Ladas),
154

Guide to Getting It On, The
(Joannides),
20

H

Haines, Staci,
39

Harry Potter’s broom,
185

Heiman, Julia,
89

hepatitis,
261–62
,
270

hermaphrodites,
237–40

herpes,
261–62
,
265
,
267

heteroflexible,
225

Hippocrates,
136–37

Hitachi Magic Wand massager,
169

Hite Report, The
(Hite),
54

HIV

asking potential partners about,
269

fear of,
82

preventing with condoms,
265–66

transmission of,
231
,
233
,
261–62

treatment for,
272

HIV prophylaxis,
271

homophobia, effect of,
229

homosexuality among animals,
226

hormonal birth control,
256–59

HPV (genital warts),
261–62

humor,
149

I

intercourse

female self-touching during,
126–30

lubricant with,
135

men’s masturbation versus,
205–6
,
210

in movies versus real life,
115–16

orgasms during,
85–89
,
124–27
,
131–33

positions for,
116–19
,
119–23
,
128
,
132
,
141
,
249

tips for guys,
139–42

intersex community,
9
,
225
,
237–40

IUDs,
254–55
,
258–59

J

Janus Report, The,
51

Japanese nipple clamps,
183

Japanese on masturbation,
25

Joannides, Paul,
20

Johanson, Sue,
164

Journal of Sex Research,
148
,
161
,
175

K

Karras, Nick,
72

Kaufman, Miriam,
81

Kegel, Arnold,
26

Kegel exercises

for anal muscles,
245

for PC muscles,
26–29
,
85
,
163
,
211

Kinsey, Alfred,
152

L

labia majora and minora,
70

Ladas, Alice Kahn,
154

ladies first orgasms,
202

lambskin condoms,
264

latex condoms,
135
,
136
,
264–65

lesbian sex

antigay violence concerns,
229

best parts of,
227–28
,
230–33

challenges related to,
228–29

dildos and,
179
,
227

experimenting with,
225

fantasizing about,
33

on female ejaculation,
160

orgasms and,
233–34

overview,
223–25

penetration during,
116

Lew, Mike,
39

Lewinsky, Monica,
95

licking-the-alphabet,
113

lions in heat,
129

Lopiccolo, Joseph,
89

lubricants and lubrication

for anal sex,
181
,
246–47

condoms and,
135
,
136
,
147
,
264–65

ejaculate versus,
161

importance of wetness,
23
,
35–36
,
78–79

with intercourse,
133–35
,
147

natural vaginal,
22
,
23
,
35

with self-touch,
49
,
73
,
78–79

types of,
135–36

M

Magic of Ten Game,
55–56

Mains, Rachel,
167

male sexuality,
213
.
See also
men
;
penis

male to female (MTF) transpeople,
235–36

Maltz, Wendy,
39

Man’s Guide to the Secret Principles of Total-Body Sex, A
(Castleman),
212

marathon men,
141

Masters and Johnson,
18–21
,
132

masturbation

advantages of self-touch,
2–4
,
68–69

arousal boosters for,
76–79

awareness during,
75
,
210–11

building up to orgasm,
55–56

in childhood,
4
,
5
,
43–45
,
51–53

Dear Abby on,
4

Diddling for Donations fundraiser,
58

experimental,
72–74

handheld showers for,
78

intercourse versus,
205–6
,
210
,
212–13

Japanese on,
25

overview,
41

partnered sex and,
46
,
59

religion and,
48

social conditioning,
42–43
,
46–51

techniques,
53–57

terms for female masturbation,
57

with a vibrator,
172–73

watching your partner during,
23
,
36
,
59
,
201

medical conditions and treatments,
82–85

medications, problems from,
83–85
,
212

men

anal stimulation of,
244

asking what feels good,
24
,
34–35
,
140
,
198–200

caring too much,
216–17

erectile dysfunction,
207–8

failure to attain orgasm,
211–13

faking do’s and don’ts,
218–19

healing from abuse,
39

masturbation versus intercourse,
205–6
,
210
,
212–13

multiple orgasms of,
29

pornography and,
193–95
,
196

premature ejaculation,
209–11

sexual exploits versus good sex,
203

sexual issues of,
8–9

tips for being a great lover,
197–204

tips for helping partner orgasm,
87–89

tips for intercourse,
139–42

and women’s orgasms,
195

and women’s vibrators,
177–78

See also
penis

Men Can Stop Rape,
40

menstrual cycle and oral sex,
94

migraine headaches,
16

Miller, Marshall,
6–8
,
10

missionary position,
117–19
,
128

missionary position, modified,
120–21
,
132
,
141
,
249

Moche civilization,
92

Morin, Jack,
249

morning after pills,
260

movie sex,
115

MTF (male to female) transpeople,
235–36

multiple orgasms,
25–26
,
29

multiple stimulation,
36–37

N

N-9 (nonoxynol-9) spermicide,
270

National Coalition of Anti-Violence Programs,
229

National Masturbate-a-Thon,
58

natural condoms,
264

Nerve’s Guide to Sex Etiquette
(Taylor and Sharkey),
104

Newman, Felice,
233

nipple piercing,
185
,
186

nonoxynol-9 (N-9) spermicide,
270

O

Odette, Fran,
81

oil-based lubricants,
135
,
136
,
264–65

online survey,
10–11
,
29–30

oral rimming,
245

oral sex on men, condoms for,
265

oral sex on women

choosing large penis or,
215

eliminating performance pressure with,
209

history of,
90–91
,
92
,
114

positions for,
100–103

shyness and self-consciousness about,
92–94

69 position and,
104–6

social conditioning about,
92–93

tips for partners,
106–9
,
109–14

tips for women,
94–99

women’s’ experiences of,
91–92

Orgasm, Top Ten Reason to Have an,
13

orgasm-obsession,
11–12

orgasms

faking,
216–22

female ejaculation and,
158

ladies first,
202

multiple,
25–26
,
29

overview,
223
,
273

popularity of methods for attaining,
45

simultaneous,
136–39

P

pain, sensitivity to,
16

Parker, Dorothy,
48

partnered sex